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    God I can't stand the immaturity of some dancers! I am a day girl, I have a LOT of regulars. I'm sweet to them, I'm always in a good mood, I don't complain and I mind my own business. I also make a lot of money, and I do better than most of the night girls who start rolling in around six o'clock to start in on their drama. I just get so tired of it. For the second time lately after I've come out of a particularily long session in the lap dance area some girl has tried to spread a bunch of trash about how I'm touching and closer than the six inch rule and is basically trying to get a manager to send me home.
    I'm just tired of having this kind of b.s. in my life. It's ridiculous and I want to move clubs but I hate thinking of losing my regulars - one of which is giving me quite a bit of $$$. But I guess I'll find more at another club.
    It really upsets me though because aren't we supposed to be in this together? And I work so hard for my money. And they sit at the bar all night and believe that I only make money because I'm doing something dirty.

    Okay. I'm done. No responses needed - I just needed to get it out. And I feel better.
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    I know you said no responses needed, but I was thinking of changing clubs myself because of a similar problem and I though about the regular customer losing issue. Why not tell your regulars that you're thinking of changing clubs and to come see you at yournew club, once you know where you'll be working.

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    But, if you do change clubs, won't there be drama there, too?


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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday
    And I work so hard for my money. And they sit at the bar all night and believe that I only make money because I'm doing something dirty.
    It amazes me that some of these girls think they'll make money by sitting with their "clique" in the corner. That didn't happen to me...but all of the girls that would bitch about not making any money were the ones who would sit with non-tipping/paying customers all night...or the ones hiding out in the corner bitching about how no one is spending money...all the while, I'm walking out with loads of cash.

    Let them have their drama. If you are a top earner there...the management will most likely let them all go before they let you go. Also, I'm sure management has scouted out your dances...and can see that they're not "dirty" .

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    You know, it doesn't have to be even that - sometimes it might not be about the money. It might be because a girl tries to take care of herself and have good hygiene. I've heard that about myself .. " Ooh look at her, Miss fancy-pants, she thinks she's all that."

    I've heard all of that crap and more. F*uck them! Let them hate because they are to fookin' lazy to get up and work. It's called a job for a reason.. duh? Don't let some stupid bitch run you off from a club you like, they are to hard to find!

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    Trust me, & I'm sure you know, there's tons of friggin' drama in the 'regular' jobs too! It's usually an undercurrent, but it does surface. Experienced it myself big time this week. It does not belong it this thread, but I thought I'd mention I can relate to this.


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    Sounds to me like they're jealous of your earnings and are trying to "rationalize" how you could be making that much money when they're most likely making a lot less. I say ignore them, be friendly with the management, and just go about your business. (((Hugs)))

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    Thank you so much ladies, everything said is dead on. I usually don't let that stuff get to me, but yesterday I guess I was just particularily vulnerable. I'm glad I could let it out to people that totally understand.
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    Don't worry about them babe. When the money is tight and there's only a few girls making money, all the broke girls have to come up with an answer to "why is SHE' making money and I'M not?". Instead of putting the blame on their own shoulders, evaluating their hustle and fixing it, the easier way out is to talk about how dirty the moneymaker is. Makes 'em feel better about themselves.

    I say screw 'em.


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    I agree with VG..if they are running and telling lies to mgt, then mgt will probably check into it themselves before they automatically side with someone, and then they see that those girls are just trying to cause the drama. Id stick with it, sounds like you are making great money!

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