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    I have now met a second girl who dances for a living in a random setting (not at a club where she works), and I want to know if I should allow myself to date her seriously.

    The first one I met made it clear she was impossible to date one on one. She would have been the epitomy of "Hey hey, what should I do, I got a woman, she won't be true."

    Are all dancers like this?

    I'm a guy that only dates one girl at a time. I'm extremely loyal. So to meet a girl like this is kind of a role reversal. I'm not ashamed to say it. But I wonder if not being a player means I am out of my element with these women.

    The new dancer I just met seems different than the one who I met when she was in town to get a boob job, and have FUN (it was awkward trying to decide if she was worth the investment of my interest).

    THIS girl seems to be capable of being faithful.

    I know you can't stereotype all dancers, but you have to admit that 95%+ are going to be "FREE" and hate the sense of being controlled by having to be faithful.

    Is being faithful the same as being controlled in their eyes?

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    wtf, so shes a stripper so she can't be faithful? Plus, why are you asking us, when you should be asking her. Gawd..

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    The investment of his interest..phhht!

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    Lmao!

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    BTW, we are all bitches, you should not date one of us. We want to be free and are really just sluts who hang all over men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf



    Are all dancers like this?

    (it was awkward trying to decide if she was worth the investment of my interest).
    This is just insulting.. what , are you stupid or something?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    I know you can't stereotype all dancers, but you have to admit that 95%+ are going to be "FREE" and hate the sense of being controlled by having to be faithful

    So, you don't want to sterotype all dancers, but your doing it anyway? Is that what your saying?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    Is being faithful the same as being controlled in their eyes?
    Is this a serious question or what..
    because I feel my leg getting yanked on here.

    Miss R

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    I know you can't stereotype all guys, but you have to admit that 95% of them are going to judge us by our hair color, cup size, and profession.

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    ^ I agree Susan.... and you know, because we are all strippers, or used to be strippers we are forever tarnished as ever being "Normal"...

    I smell a fucking troll.....


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    You guys are also forgetting that since we're strippers, we can obviously read other stripper's minds...and know everything there is to know about one another.

    Now, along those lines...Gynger...you are amazing...and that stamina from last night with those toys!! I'm impressed...

    Anyways...dude, you are coming to a WEBSITE asking questions about someone we don't even know. I think what you need to do is just walk away from the whole thing and get a life...after that...maybe you'll have enough balls to ask this girl yourself.

    Geezus.

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    I don't think a person's job reflects his/her character. I know several dancers who cheat and several dancers who don't. Roll the dice fuckhead...
    "She believed she could, so she did." -unknown

    **Rachelle**

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    I have now met a second girl who dances for a living in a random setting (not at a club where she works), and I want to know if I should allow myself to date her seriously.
    We'll put it to a vote.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    Are all dancers like this?
    Well, truth be known, a scientologist and the Weekly World News have both informed me that they are all space aliens.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    I'm a guy that only dates one girl at a time. I'm extremely loyal.
    And you are the winner of the SW Official "I'm Very Faithful. You Can Ask Both Of My Wives And All Of My Girlfriends!" T-Shirt.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    (it was awkward trying to decide if she was worth the investment of my interest).
    I think I will go stand on the other side of the room now. No sense getting shot over someone else's statement.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    I know you can't stereotype all dancers, but you have to admit that 95%+ are going to be "FREE" and hate the sense of being controlled by having to be faithful.
    You're on a roll. You have also just won the Official SW "I'm Unique, Like Everyone Else" t-shirt.

    Congrats.
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    Sorry to state it that way. Sometimes, I am not good at explaining myself.

    Although it is not smart for me to assume all dancers are like the first one I met, she basically set the stage for my opinion on dancers. By your comments, I now know how foolish that thinking is.

    Unfortunately I met the wrong type of dancer, and used that to formulate my idea of what dancers are like. She was definitely a player, and I apologize for my initial question.

    For what it is worth, I approached my liking of her as I would have any other girl I've met. Then quickly discovered she was way more of a free spirit and would always be that way. So in my mind, free spirit equals dancer.

    Thanks for your responses. I will erase that notion and allow myself to fall for this new girl. I can't possibly meet two dancers whom I would be asking for trouble dating.

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    You should go post at fastseduction:



    These chicks here are not going to give you any worthwhile advice on your "problem."


    "Are all dancers like this"

    All dancers are carbon copies of each other, obviously.
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    What should you do ?

    Try not judging a whole group of people by the actions of one. That would be a good start.

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    I am a semi-professional golfer and I get stereotyped all day long. Based on how I dress: rich, stuck up, prick. None of those are true. So dancers are not the only ones who are misunderstood.

    What I can surmise is that every reply has been hostile. Why is that? No need to be defensive. Much love and respect to all of you. Wouldn't you rather help someone correct his thinking in a positive manner?

    "Anyways...dude, you are coming to a WEBSITE asking questions about someone we don't even know. I think what you need to do is just walk away from the whole thing and get a life...after that...maybe you'll have enough balls to ask this girl yourself."

    Balls to ask? That question would be best posed after a while of dating, and at that point I risk getting hurt. Hence, my need to ask the ones who know the best.

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    My advice is to buy her a Ferrari.

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    This is just cracking me up and I'm had some to drink! LOL! So it must be really funny...

    As to Bunny's suggestion of gifts, I would put my vote in for diamonds. Large ones, as your own stones seem to be missing. * toddles off to make herself another drink, giggling *

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
    I know you can't stereotype all guys, but you have to admit that 95% of them are going to judge us by our hair color, cup size, and profession.
    You may be right about that one actually. Except the hair color or cup size.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryangolf
    I am a semi-professional golfer and I get stereotyped all day long. Based on how I dress: rich, stuck up, prick. None of those are true. So dancers are not the only ones who are misunderstood.
    Yes, I know the feeling. I am in a profession where the stereotype is an old man in a tweed jacket who says "harumph!" a lot, and walks in a stooped position (For a better description, try to imagine PeeWee Herman walking after a double feature).

    I will tell you, here and now, that this is one of the few stereotypes that has some truth to it.

    Another stereotype is that of Texans being belligerent drunks. Not true at all, and as soon as I finish my beer, I'll fight anyone who says different.
    My latest conspiracy theory: I am convinced that Dick Cheney is, in reality, Elmer Fudd.

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    Lmao!

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    [QUOTE=lwtex52]Yes, I know the feeling. I am in a profession where the stereotype is an old man in a tweed jacket who says "harumph!" a lot, and walks in a stooped position (For a better description, try to imagine PeeWee Herman walking after a double feature).

    I will tell you, here and now, that this is one of the few stereotypes that has some truth to it.

    I have no idea what the hell you're talking about. What profession are you describing? Senior tour cricket player? Professional strip club client?

    by the way, probably not a good idea to drink and fight, you'll lmost certainly lose against someone who's sober.

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    Hmmm... Well, I find cricket boring and the last strip club I went to was 30+ years ago where I worked as a bartender, so let's go with College Physics Instructor. Yeah...that's the ticket. We'll ride with that.

    I was thinking we need an expert opinion here. Perhaps I should go get Derek.......
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    If you have to ask, don't bother. It's doomed to fail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
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    Now, along those lines...Gynger...you are amazing...and that stamina from last night with those toys!! I'm impressed...



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    I've met pro golfers and you have yet to change any of my already set ideas, oh my bad, was I being stereotypical. Well gosh, I was! My bad.


    What were you talking about anyway, something about you wanting to date some stripper girl? Are you sure you initials aren't RIL?

    Miss R

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