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    Angry 'You wanna dance for my friend?'

    When a customer says this (and it's happened a couple of times), is it a standard rejection comment? I've seen the customer act interested but suddenly switch off , it's probably my hustle technique but when they suggest dancing for their friend, it feels like a rejection so I don't usually bother.

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    Usually those guys are chumps and you should steer clear....or ask the guy if he is buying for his friend...loudly (his friend will get excited and it puts a-hole #1 on the spot...normally it is a bad idea to put custys on the spot like that but he obviously won't be a repeat customer so who cares. Or just go chat up the friend and ask...if no then don't waste your time. Sometimes assholes think it's funny trying to make you run in circles when they know no one is buyin. eff' them...

    *I say this in regards to the ashole type..if the guy is truly being nice or just doesnt get dances and wants his friends to have fun then by all means accomodate.
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    Emiliana is right but we need to turn up the heat a little. So don't ASK if he would like to buy for his friend, ASSUME he is. This is called "assumtive selling". You'll love this! When a guy says to you, "Well, would you like to dance for my friend" you respond with, "Yes, I would love to. How many dances would you like to buy for him then?" Say it in earshot of his other friend so he hears it. Now, this won't work every time, and yet it will work a lot more times than you realize. All it takes is once per night and that's another 20, 40, 60+ dollars in your pocket.

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    Awesome Response DW!!!!!!!!!
    I'm using that!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    This is called "assumtive selling". You'll love this! When a guy says to you, "Well, would you like to dance for my friend" you respond with, "Yes, I would love to. How many dances would you like to buy for him then?".
    Oh yes, I can just imagine clearly articulating above words in the club to the rednecks and gangstas and having them laugh in my face. When they do the pass-off, I just totally call them on it and they sheepishly admit their guilt. Then I can start working on 'em.

    Ladies, NEVER ask "how many dances are you going to buy?" in advance. The answer tends to be 1, and they stick to it. If the guy is having fun, he'll buy more of his own or get his buddy to cough up more cash.

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    Well Katrine, I'm not saying this will work 100 percent of the time...yet it will work some of the time. You may even get laughed at by some guys...I get that. Not all will though, and some will still be motivated to buy. Sales is math, that's all it is. Say this works just ONE time a night...$20.00. At 3 nights a week that totals over $3000.00 a year!!! 3 Grand to get snickered at once in a while...where do I sign??!!!

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    Re: 'You wanna dance for my friend?'

    Thanks DW! Great advice.. Have to try this tonight

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    DW that's pretty much what I do. I get passed off from friend to friend all the time. I'm an... shall we say... acquired taste, and quite simply, not everyone likes me. A vast majority of SC custy's, in fact, just don't find me their taste. But in a group of guys, usually at least one likes my style.

    I'll hit up guy A, but he'll send me to guy B with "he was talking about you earlier, he's the one that wants a dance from you." So I give guy A a kiss on the cheek and say, "awww, thanks!" he thinks he just got rid of me... little does he know.... *cackle*

    Guy B gets a greeting ("say goodbye to your friends for a little while" with a sly grin) and a hand held out to him in expectation. He usually stands and takes a couple of steps with me in confusion, looking back at his friends like, "hey!!??" I reassure him (loudly) that guy A is taking care of his first couple of dances. We walk over to guy A, I hold out my garter with my non-guy-B-holding-hand, and say "it'll be $50 to get us started, sweetie. I'm sure guy B can take care of himself after that. *wink*"

    90% of the time, guy A can't bring himself to crush the look of hopeful excitement on best friend guy B's face, and forks over the money. Guy B and I do our pre-paid two dances, and I do my damnedst to sell him more, but if he doesn't take, no problem. I walk him back to his group of friends, and basically guilt him into taking care of guy C the way guy A took care of him. After all, what are friends for?

    I can work a group of five or six custies like this without a hitch.

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    DW, Cali! Brilliant advice! i've tried a similar approach "oh, great! you buying?!" which works occasionally, but playing customers off each other like that -- so smooth! i'm trying this one tonight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    When a guy says to you, "Well, would you like to dance for my friend" you respond with, "Yes, I would love to. How many dances would you like to buy for him then?" Say it in earshot of his other friend so he hears it.
    Indeed, if you assume that you're totally dancing for him and go great! Are you buying it for him? Most of the time they are.

    It's often a positive rather than a negative outcome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    Emiliana is right but we need to turn up the heat a little. So don't ASK if he would like to buy for his friend, ASSUME he is. This is called "assumtive selling". You'll love this! When a guy says to you, "Well, would you like to dance for my friend" you respond with, "Yes, I would love to. How many dances would you like to buy for him then?" Say it in earshot of his other friend so he hears it. Now, this won't work every time, and yet it will work a lot more times than you realize. All it takes is once per night and that's another 20, 40, 60+ dollars in your pocket.
    Cant get any better then this if ya paid for the info,this approach is fuckin priceless and adds to the 99%.

    make no mistakes,you aint what he is looking for imo,he just told you that politly, if you can get him to pay for a lapdance for his buddy,you fucked that horse proper and you didnt even have to ride it.

    But he will usualy only pay for the first one,or for the "taste".

    Its up to the entertainer to sell the "Buddy"on the full trip,most guys only pay for the short trip for thier buddy if it isnt his B-bay.

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    I get passed around tables all the time, and it's usually because maybe 1 or 2 like me and send me to their friends. Sometimes they pay me to dance for the friends, sometimes they just strongly recommend the friends buy from me. Either way I don't care, more $ for me! And yeah, very often I approach a table or 1 guy calls me over and I'm told - go dance for him, he's the one who wants you. Allllllll good!

    Since we do our dances right on the main floor in the middle of everything, I'm always scoping for the next dance WHILE I'm lapdancing someone. Odds are at least one guy is checking out someone else's lapdance, and while I'm turned around or in the middle of turning, I'm watching for that. Catch a guy checking out my lapdance, make a flirty face at him and he'll be my next victim 9 times out of 10. I most definitely spend most of my dance focusing on the guy I'm dancing for, but there are lots of chances to slyly flirt with someone else in the process too, whether at the same table or not - use them to full advantage!

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    In the group of guys I go to SCs with, I am normally the only one who buys dances. I am a junkie, so that makes sense, but I hate to see these smucks sitting there on their hands doing nothing, so I will routinely send dancers to them. Now, they got plenty of money, so they can buy there own dances, and if they refuse, then poor repressed them. Of course none of this should reflect negatively in anyway on the dancers themselves.

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    OMG I have a story. Once, I asked this guy if he wanted a dance and then his friend leans over and hands me 20 and says " Take care of my friend." So I'm like, "Ok come on with me." (To his friend.) And the guy just shakes his head no. I'm like "It's ok hunny your friend payed for you." And this retard points at the ring on his finger.

    (I ended up taking the guys OTHER friend for a dance, but is that not the most pussy whipped story you've ever heard? Why was he even in the SC in the first place? My club is no contact, so he wouldnt be allowed to touch me anyway. What, did he make a deal with his wife "Ok I'll just look at the naked girl on the stage but I won't look at one 6 inches away, even if someone else pays. Yes dear. Yes dear, I'll hold your purse while you try on that dress....)

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