So last saturday a guy walks up to me on stage and asks me to dance for his gf...i say ok and come over when im done. The guy seemed a little wierd and so did the girl but i ignored the feeling. The next song started and he pushed me to her lap as she started to light her ciggarette....I asked her if she would like to wait and she ignored me..then the guy started yelling at her that i needed to start dancing. Whatever...she finishes her cig and I began my dance
...at first she seemed into it but then she kind of went stone faced and limp...i thought it was wierd but i kept dancing...then the guy started to reach over and try to yank at her skirt and panties and pull her top open...this freaked me out and i told him to stop...he told me to eat her out(which of course i didnt) and then the girl started crying and pushing at his hands. I felt horrible and jumped off of her, got my money and told the guy to leave her alone. He said she is my girlfriend and i can do what i want.
At this point i apologized to the girl and told my manager what the guy was doing.He of course ignored me but i felt really bad...like i should protect this girl but what can i do. I still feel guilty...i dont think she wanted a dance and i feel like i sexually harrassed her with this guy....it isnt true but i still feel icky...they were both fucked up on drugs and i didnt want to mess with the guy anymore because he seemed mean and this wasnt my problem. It also didnt help that he was from trinidad and barely spoke english...
My dilemma is though...if i see something happening to a woman and she doesn't want it(as i explained to the manager) and she cant do much about it cause she is so drunk/fucked up....what do i do. I couldnt exactly call the cops and none of the staff would help me. I would hope someone would have helped me if i needed it....What would you guys have done cause I am really at a loss.



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I'd hate to be put in a situation like that. :/ I'm glad you did what you did. Still sad you might never see them again to see what happened with her,

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