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    the girls at my club are generally pretty nice. i've managed to keep off other people's toes, focus on my own work, and stay pretty neutral and polite without seeming like a pushover, but i've had a couple of tense moments and weird encounters.

    it just occured to me the other night, how hard REALLY is it to at least be not-bitchy (not even "nice") on the surface to the other girls in the seconds-long encounters you have with them? i mean, its much harder to be sweet to creeps ALL NIGHT and we do it and do it well don't we? i can understand how this would be tough in a crowded dressing room after a hard (or bad) night at work, but it doesn't seem to me that the transition would be that difficult on the floor, in front of the whole club....hmmm....

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    I'm considerd a bitch because I don't talk much to other girls and I don't hang out in the dressing room, heck I don't even smoke!
    But there are quite a few that I really really dislike maybe it's competition, maybe it's because they knowingly stole a guy from me, and yes, we are able to steal them! Just offer more or convince 'em that you are the better one. I don't play that game so I do get testy about it.
    I generally prefer the guys over the dancers, they give me money, don't steal my outfits and tell me I am beautiful all night.... Only the dancers that want to sleep with me do that!
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    i wonder if i'm considered a bitch at my club. I don't smoke either and i don't really talk to any of the girls. I do have a few friends there but i make more money when i'm alone. Guess i'd be more outgoing but it's hard to get into those cliques so i just gave up caring.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hannah83
    i wonder if i'm considered a bitch at my club. I don't smoke either and i don't really talk to any of the girls. I do have a few friends there but i make more money when i'm alone. Guess i'd be more outgoing but it's hard to get into those cliques so i just gave up caring.
    Yep, you're a bitch.. In their eyes anyway.
    I just found out what is said about me because the stupid girls actually told my best friend (also a dancer) exactly how they felt about me.I am never mean, I'm a happy drunk, and I have everything that's ever needed from extra pasties to super glue, once I had masking tape.. So I dont' think of myself as a bitch, but after 5 years I stopped caring what people thought.
    My " friends" have stolen my outfits, ripped open my bags and picked my locks.. I don't need friends like that so I generally don't make friends with dancers anymore.
    I stick with the ones I've known for years that aren't competition because we are so different.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    I'm considerd a bitch because I don't talk much to other girls and I don't hang out in the dressing room, heck I don't even smoke!
    But there are quite a few that I really really dislike maybe it's competition, maybe it's because they knowingly stole a guy from me, and yes, we are able to steal them! Just offer more or convince 'em that you are the better one. I don't play that game so I do get testy about it.
    I generally prefer the guys over the dancers, they give me money, don't steal my outfits and tell me I am beautiful all night.... Only the dancers that want to sleep with me do that!
    I like to keep to myself most of the night BUT it is nice to find 1 or 2 really cool dancers. It makes the day/nite more fun, especially when it's slow. I don't really see myself as competing w/ other dancers (maybe unconsciously?) because I know we're all there for the same reason. So, I can sympathize w/ the others. I had the problem of someone wanting to fight me because I posed a "threat' for her. She was saying to other girls that i was taking her clients (I had no clue they were hers!) and would always give me dirty looks and even told a guy i was giving a dance "don't get a disease!" So I don't go w/ that envy BS. I just worry about myself and I'm able to enjoy other dancer's performances and compliment them.

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    alicia, i don't know what i would do if a girl did that to me. but i'm sure i'd wanna meet up with her outside after work. the only problem i've had so far was a girl getting in my face telling me that i changed into someone who thinks she's better than everyone. the weird thing is, i haven't changed! She just never took the time to get to know me so i just pretty much paid her no attention.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hannah83
    alicia, i don't know what i would do if a girl did that to me. but i'm sure i'd wanna meet up with her outside after work. the only problem i've had so far was a girl getting in my face telling me that i changed into someone who thinks she's better than everyone. the weird thing is, i haven't changed! She just never took the time to get to know me so i just pretty much paid her no attention.
    right, most of the times girls make assumptions w/out knowing anything about you. That's why I don't even bother judging other dancers. I'm nice and very easy to talk to. I think it's always good to have someone around that's sweet. BUT, to a point, I don't just trust people w/ anything personal. One girl the other night looked at me in the dressing room (she was new) I smiled and she was soo glad telling me that she was soo relieved to see someone who seemed sweet an approachable because everyone was soo stuck up. I see the same but I pay no mind, I know everyone has their own reasons for acting a certain way.

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    if you care about what other dancers say its going to affect your performance and your attitude and it will show. Keep your eyes on the prize and that means cash. Let them keep their games up. In the end youll be the one making the money, who has the regulars.
    AmyLynne

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