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    Smiley Question for the ladies

    Hi all

    newbe here. the reason I joined up is this: I have met and fallen for an outrageously "open and liberated" young lady. Something I guess she shares in common with some of you on this forum.

    Let's put it this way, she used to teach dance at Hedo. She not so much "likes to shock" but more "to push the boundaries".

    You just would not, or at least I do not believe just how much fun and outrageous she is, and can be, and wants me to be. I would tell some of the stories, but they would probably get me banned!

    SO anyway, the question is simple: how do I stop her from getting bored with me? Where do we draw the line?

    Ideas and suggestions welcomed. After all, you ladies spend a lot of your lives being fantasies so what do you like when you are not working? What fun romantic and unusual ideas have you got for me? FYI she is from CA originally and now lives in Vegas. I am in London, England

    Questions answered if there are any

    Thanks for any responses. This is a genuine question

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    hm... hard to answer since I don't know the people involved... but I would at least suggest being yourself, since that's the person she decided to get involved with in the first place. Don't hold her back... and I know I always like to have a stable, loving guy to come home to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by londonlad
    what do you like when you are not working? What fun romantic and unusual ideas have you got for me?
    Wine tasting

    sailing

    cook a gourmet meal together

    go to the beach

    What sort of "exciting" and "outrageous" things does she like to do? That would help us give some better ideas.


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    I think this question is more suited for you asking her.

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    ^ Damn it, VG, if you persist in making sense and using logical, cognitive processes to address such inquiries, we're going to strip you of your moderator status and ask you to leave the forum...
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    She sounds very much like a 'living in the moment' type. Wouldn't advise getting too worked up over this - especially with such a distance between you. From the sound of it, it's not a question of if she'll get bored, but when. Just enjoy it as it comes, don't let her push you beyond your comfort level, be yourself and have fun. Buckle up and remember to drop and roll when you get tossed off the ride

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    ^ Damn it, VG, if you persist in making sense and using logical, cognitive processes to address such inquiries, we're going to strip you of your moderator status and ask you to leave the forum...
    I'll only allow that if I'm stripped down, bullwhipped and tossed into a jello wrestling pool with Bridgette and Katrine...



    Uh...maybe I was too harsh, eh?

    I do like what Bridgette said...remember to drop and roll when the ride is over...heh heh

    I have a friend like the girl he is describing...I've stopped trying to remember the guys' names. In the past 8 months, she's dated about 16 different guys. Each was great for about 3 weeks...and then it was on to someone else. But, I've been there...done that. Now, I'm sticking with what I've got.

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    Quote Originally Posted by londonlad
    Let's put it this way, she used to teach dance at Hedo. She not so much "likes to shock" but more "to push the boundaries".
    ummmmmmmmm


    ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    lets be clear on "Hedo"

    Is that I,II,or III.

    are you talking about a club,or the lifestyle getaway??

    Funny,I dont remember the erotic dance instructor at I or II having a british accent,and its kinda something I look for so i would have remembered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    I'll only allow that if I'm stripped down, bullwhipped and tossed into a jello wrestling pool with Bridgette and Katrine...
    Ok i got a stiffy from that visual!!!!!
    anyone else???

    anyone???

    cmon admit it dammit!!!!!!

    i swear if one of them screams "NEXT",im gonna need a baby wipe!


    :::runnin:::

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    Stick it in her pooper

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    ^ Forgot that one...
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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    I'll only allow that if I'm stripped down, bullwhipped and tossed into a jello wrestling pool with Bridgette and Katrine...


    Finally, a visual to replace the one I gave everyone last week when I explained that my career as a crossdresser failed because I refused to shave my beard.

    Thanks for getting me off the hook
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    couldn't help myself...heh

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    Funny the things that you leave out of a post, that do not seem important, but then turn out to be.

    We have been together 10 months already. This is not a "quickie". 6 months while i was living in Vegas, and 3 months here in London. Who knows where next?

    And maybe that is the question? Where next, or what next?

    Still open for ideas though

    Thanks for the replies so far. Maybe this was about the closet:

    Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    I'll only allow that if I'm stripped down, bullwhipped and tossed into a jello wrestling pool with Bridgette and Katrine...

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    Uh, you might need to be masochistic. She sounds like a lot of fun, but not the type that stays amusing for long. Of course, I guess British men find wacky American women to be a cute change of pace, so maybe you're both with eachother as a type of roller-coaster ride. Just don't whine to your guy friends when she steps over the line.....you shoulda seen it coming.
    (< Still sour but smirking over being dumped for a "free spirit" who dumped my ex weeks after he chucked me...ha ha)

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    Sorry for totally skipping the question, but Bella21's new avatar distracted me...

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    Londonlad-

    Something you probably should keep in mind is that even if ur love interest is a stripper, outside of the job, she's a human.

    there's feelings under that fantasy shell, and she would like to do normal things that ANY girl, whether they have a "sexy" job or not, would do.

    I personally play Bingo with my boyfriend, or go out to eat, or just window shop at the mall....casual, non sexual stuff makes me fall all over again.

    Hope this helped, even if it was a little late!

    Fantasy

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    She is not English, she is from California

    I am the English one. Still here too! Dam those bombs get closer....

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    No, she is not a stripper. She just likes getting naked

    She has been known to get up on stage though, but again only for fun, or is it just "because she could"?

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    Sky diving, off roading, wake boarding, kick boxing

    Making out in the jakuzzi

    Normal sort of stuff really

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    Just be yourself. If you force yourself to be something your not just to impress her, you won't be happy anyway.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Good advice. Simple but effective. - Thanks

    Will put it to the test next week. Watch out Vegas, London is on its way.

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