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    the problem isn't the mileage aspect, it that he's nickel and diming and trying to get the most mileage out of his $20 (or in some rare, special instances....$40!)

    it's just like he thinks he's got the Golden Ticket in his wallet, but to us it's just $15 after we pay the house.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    Wonder if Katrina pulled the DEE TEE KAY
    That's all SOP for Houston. I don't think his advice is bad for that town. One thing I just don't do is DFK/DTK with customers. Its not worth smearing my makeup. I already get sick all the time from being in close contact with some many men a night, its really the least likely extra you would get out of me. Seriously, I'd rather just give the customr a hand job (but that's NOT gonna happen either, so calm down boys. )

    In Houston, you have to let the guys feel on your breasts. 99% of the other girls are doing it. This is especially painful if you have tender breasts from PMS/aunt flow.

    Some good advice, and more reminders of what I stopped dancing in Houston..

    Two girls are good, as long as we know and like each other, and are getting paid seperately for dances. My stripper friends and I have a way to kiss without actually kissing and messing up makeup. Having to do a two-girl dance with a stripper who obviously dislikes you is uncomfortable and often painful..

    Little previews of nipple and ass is good advice too, I do that, but you'd better start buying soon after....

    And I don't know why girls always want to get the godiva and Golshlager courveiour infused apple martini for $12 bucks anyway, always sugary.

    But please don't be upset if the dancer does order a call Scotch, cool?

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    What Mr. Xenolan needs to do is to meet the girl of his dreams, such as the following.

    Lana, (spell it backwards and that is what I do best)

    My name is Lana and I'm a transsexual prostitute from Samoa. I've been working the car park down in St Kilda for as long as I can remember. Some of the girls I work with are full change, some, like me, still have their dicks and others are cross-dressers.

    This isn't necessarily what I would have chosen as my ultimate career path but it's pretty well impossible to get any other job, anywhere in the world, when you look like a woman but have a man's name on your passport.

    So, here I am. In this business you can have a 36-24-36 figure and look like you just walked off the catwalk, but most of the time if you don't have 10 inches and active, you can forget it. 75% of my clientele are married men who like being with a woman with a dick. Sometimes guys will come in all "I'm straight and this is my first time" but when you go to fuck them you almost fall in. Once these guys blow, the guilt trip starts and within seconds they are out the door. I'm like "darling, you don't have to convince me. I'm not interested in what you like. I just want your money."

    The money, of course, is what drives me to keep going back day after day. We do a whole lot more than regular prostitutes and that equals cash, cash and more cash. In a really good week I can service about six clients a day and end up pulling in over $10,000.

    I know I don't want to do this forever and I'll stop once I get the full operation done, which costs around $10,000 in Melbourne. They'll either turn my penis inside out and poke in a new middle-hole or take a bit of my butt and make a vagina out of that. They use skin from your balls to make pussy lips, I guess because you get the best pubes that way. In Sydney it costs as much as $25,000 for the same thing. I guess I should count myself lucky though; if it was the other way round and I was a woman wanting to become a man, I'd be looking at around $70,000, which would involve more tricks than I'd care to imagine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    RANT!

    You know, I don't know what has some folks here in such an uproar. Aside from the fact that Xen's profile says he's from Houston, and this one line...:



    ...I don't see where the rest of his requests seem even remotely out of line. In fact I agree with about 90% of what he wrote here.

    If he's such a mileage hound, then how do you explain this (assuming some of you even read this far):
    [b]
    NO, I think most of us agree with some of the things he said. But by "Actual Sex" he meant intercourse, meaning deep throat kissing and fondling were custom stripper lap dances.

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    (1) Ordering drinks on my tab. I'll offer you a drink if I want to, and it won't be the $50 glass of bordeaux, that I can promise. Bear in mind that if I buy you a $20 drink, you just lost a $20 tip.


    You are the type of customer that no dancer wants to dance for. You come in with a chip on your shoulder about spending money. As all the dancers have said you like to see what you can get for as little as possible. I'm not a customer, but common sense tells you, when you go into a SC.....

    1. Expect to spend money (Why are you there? To try and get a girlfriend HAHAHA?!)

    2. Treat the dancers with respect ( They are providing you with entertainment). No dancer should have to sell herself short for a few extra dances

    3. If the dancer (lady IMO) is taking out time in her schedule to sit and talk with you, don't be a cheap ass bastard, buy her a [email protected]#kin drink and don't worry about the price! If you were out on a date, would you tell the girl "hey your dinner was $50 so can you blow me at the end of the night?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    RANT!

    You know, I don't know what has some folks here in such an uproar. Aside from the fact that Xen's profile says he's from Houston, and this one line...:
    Thats not what has my panties in a bunch about this post.

    I dont mean this as an insult doc,but your a custie,and you will see things from a different angle then people who are actually working in the industry.

    Your not the enemy,but your the other team so to speak.

    His posting suggest ways to have the customer with the upper hand or at an advantage over the entertainer,in an all out admitted attempt at getting extras for cash.
    He is looking for the advantage,and we dont play that for the most part.
    The house always has the advantage,its the dancers world,not the custies or mine.
    We train the girls to make the most amount of money from custies,not teach the girls how to save the customer the most amount of money,and what the customer expects for a second lap dance.

    ...I don't see where the rest of his requests seem even remotely out of line. In fact I agree with about 90% of what he wrote here.
    I hear ya,i just dont belive you.
    No way do you support custies manipulating entertainers with bar tabs and 2nd lapdances if extras are given.
    I just dont belive you agree with that.
    If he's such a mileage hound, then how do you explain this (assuming some of you even read this far):
    [b]
    i read this far,twice.
    Both times i see a custie trying to make dancers jump thru hoops for as little money as possible.

    From a custie perspective,i can understand the opinion,but from dancers and the support staff who rely on them,it really sucks.

    He isnt going directly to a sex provider because there in no hunt,there is no making them jump thru hoops,there is no power trip involved.
    Its wam bam thank you mame,"no"kiss at the end.
    The 'power trip"custies like the hunt,and the money last longer then if they went to a hooker.
    Dancers see this type often.
    They only put up with them if they are spending money,not saving it.

    Not trying to offend you,but this is stripperweb,the hustle hut.
    The object is to teach girls how to get over on custies,not vice versa.

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    Well, that sure let the wind out of my sails. But allow me to say a few things in my own defense:

    (1) I'm from Houston, like I said. This is the only place I've ever gone to SCs, and I honestly had NO IDEA that what happens here isn't par for the course. This is actually a most fortunate educational experience, in that I now have some idea of what to expect if I go elsewhere.

    (2) I have never actually asked for "extras", nor would I do so. They have all been offered of the dancer's own free will. If you were dancing for a customer, and he offered you a $50 instead of a $20, would you tell him he was paying too much? Didn't think so.

    (3) On the drink-buying thing... let me humbly point out that I can go anywhere and buy women drinks. That's not why I came in. Several people have pointed out that I should expect a lapdance, not a girlfriend. Perhaps she should expect a lap, not a boyfriend.

    (4) Regarding kissing: All I can say is that I'm sure many of you like things that I find pretty sickening. Like I said, I don't initiate such things, I only accept them. I guarantee that none of you will ever kiss me unless it's your idea.

    (5) I can't understand why I'm being berated for wanting to get the most I can for my money. Of course that's what I want. That's the way I shop for used cars and groceries too, and I've never had the people selling those things take it personally - it's how capitalism works. I view erotic dancing like any other service when it comes to payment: I pay for the service, I give a reasonable tip if it's done particularly well. If dancers feel they're getting cheated, maybe they ought to raise their rates. It's hardly my fault if the going rate for a lapdance is twenty dollars.

    Finally, I just don't get where all this hostility comes from. I read these responses and I see that what everyone here is interested in is getting as much money from me as possible for the least effort. How is that different than my wanting the most service I can get for the least money? If anyone can answer that question to my satisfaction, I'll offer my humblest apologies and bow out gracefully.

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    See I >KNEW< you weren't trying to be a prick I knew it. I can respect that. This post makes it clear, and I humbly withdraw my judgement.

    You're being berated because this clarity was not conveyed in your original post. What your saying makes sense but SCs are a hobby not unlike Yachts, or Cars, its generally a money expenditure hobby where capitalism isn't involved. Ego Stroking Hobbies == $$$$$$.

    People are expecting to get money from you for doing what is required within the limits of rules. You just came off like you want girls to break all the rules for you. Again not realizing your location. I am guilty of that as well.

    Either way, welcome to the board, and hopefully we wont hang you on the cross anymore. I know I'll think twice.

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    Rather than flaming Xenolan we can use his posts as learning experiences. In reality guys are about the same everywhere, and I'm sure deep down most of them want the same thing to varying degrees from a stripper. Besides the DFK, which a guy may have trouble finding with regularity in any strip club, his requirements for spending money on dances aren't that bad, especially being from Houston.

    If we could get 100 guys at random to post what motivates them to spend or not spend money at a strip club, it would not be what we really want to hear, would it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xenolan
    Well, that sure let the wind out of my sails. But allow me to say a few things in my own defense:
    Ok,before ya do,let me just say, you got balls for comming back into the discussion.Im ok witcha from this point on and have no problem giving you free attention.
    Your my new best fuckin friend,so im going to offer you my opinions for free on your confusion at these responses your getting..
    (1) I'm from Houston, like I said. This is the only place I've ever gone to SCs, and I honestly had NO IDEA that what happens here isn't par for the course. This is actually a most fortunate educational experience, in that I now have some idea of what to expect if I go elsewhere.
    Thank you for adding the part about "If you go elsewhere".
    Just because your in "Houston" isnt an excuse.
    Im sorry,"Houston" gets a bad rep,MOST girls dont break the rules and resort to extras,so like any rumor,its bullshit.I have been there and done extensive demographics on the area.NOT a good place to open a club,the facts and numbers prove that.
    Yes you can find shit holes in houston,Dallas,and most major cities across the nation where extras are a given,but not in the top clubs or chain clubs,it isnt worth the risk.
    Its all about standards, my new best friend.
    (2) I have never actually asked for "extras", nor would I do so. They have all been offered of the dancer's own free will. If you were dancing for a customer, and he offered you a $50 instead of a $20, would you tell him he was paying too much? Didn't think so.
    my new best friend...
    A 5%er doesnt offer extras,nor does the average entertainer.They dont have to.
    You say you want them to look you in the eye,for kripes sake, new best friend,look at whats starin ya in the face!!!
    Its the filler!!!!!
    It isnt the 5%ers that you paid the cover for,its not the average girl that would give me or you the time of day at the mall,its the girls who fill the rotation!!!!!!
    Standards new best friend,fucking standards.
    Your paying for this fucking ride!!!!!

    (3) On the drink-buying thing... let me humbly point out that I can go anywhere and buy women drinks. That's not why I came in. Several people have pointed out that I should expect a lapdance, not a girlfriend. Perhaps she should expect a lap, not a boyfriend.
    Its the same my new best friend.
    You buy a stripper a drink(granted it cost a fuckload more)and you buy a gal a drink down at the local watering hole,it all means the same thing.

    "lets talk,wanna talk"
    Its a question more then a statement or a financial proposal.

    Thats it in both worlds,nothing more.

    Dont expect blowjobs for the purchase of a rum and coke in either situation.
    It just aint kewl and im here to tell you that in hopes it helps you in the future..
    (4) Regarding kissing: All I can say is that I'm sure many of you like things that I find pretty sickening. Like I said, I don't initiate such things, I only accept them. I guarantee that none of you will ever kiss me unless it's your idea.
    kewl beans.
    Most dancers will NOT want to lock lips with you,deep or shallow.
    As long as you understand this,your going to be ok on the "kissing issue"or the "DFK/DTK/M.O.U.S.E." issue.
    A good rule to follow,and im sharing only because im fond of you now...

    Hookers wont kiss you goodbye.
    Escorts will if you spend the right amount of money.
    Dancers will also if your a reg,and spend enough money.

    None of the above usually do it for first time custies or for guys who dont want to open thier wallets when they return.
    Thats just a tip from me to you my new best friend,you dont have to agree or disagree.

    (5) I can't understand why I'm being berated for wanting to get the most I can for my money. Of course that's what I want. That's the way I shop for used cars and groceries too, and I've never had the people selling those things take it personally -
    Thats because your not talking to the farmers plowing the fields or the guy in detroit actually making the cars from blueprints.
    If you ask them,they will want you to pay more for the taters they grow or the cars they assemble.
    It means more money for them.
    But this is apples and oranges my new best friend.
    Ones is needed,the other is entertainment.
    The higher the nessecity<soory cant spell that one>the higher the pricetag.
    Just like,the higher the entertainment value,the higher the cost.
    it's how capitalism works. I view erotic dancing like any other service when it comes to payment: I pay for the service, I give a reasonable tip if it's done particularly well. If dancers feel they're getting cheated, maybe they ought to raise their rates. It's hardly my fault if the going rate for a lapdance is twenty dollars.
    sorry,its unlike any other service known to man.
    We sell pussy without actually selling pussy,and we dont legaly offer the "cumshot"at the end.
    We sell the fantasy,thats it.
    If you step outside of that,as a dancer or a custie,it never ends well.
    Im just sharing that decades learned lesson with you caue your my new homie.
    Finally, I just don't get where all this hostility comes from. I read these responses and I see that what everyone here is interested in is getting as much money from me as possible for the least effort. How is that different than my wanting the most service I can get for the least money? If anyone can answer that question to my satisfaction, I'll offer my humblest apologies and bow out gracefully.
    you tell me what part you dont get,i will answer as honest as possible.

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    Now, while I am open minded to receiving customer opinion as to what I should do right in the SC (it can be gold dust really), instead of only listening to what I think I should be hearing, I couldn't help but find some of the things you said a little condesending (sp?).

    I think the fact you're from Houston puts a lot of things in perspective but if you didn't know that a lot of your tastes vastly vary from state-state and country-country, then you didn't read the site as thoroughly as you suggested. If you were sending this post as a standard ''things to do'' for newbies, it would have been destructive to your rep here and to their careers (if they'd listened), if they were from a less liberal club.

    Some of the stuff said was alright, but I couldn't help but gag at some of the other stuff. I know you're shopping for the best deal and you're right to weed out lazy dancers, but don't expect dancer to give you VIP entertainment if you're only willing to pay her 3rd class rates.

    Anyway, all that aside, welcome to SW.
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    Yeah we all understand wanting the best deal for your money. But when that includes activities that pass disease, sorry, I'd rather not have your money. NEXT! Kissing passes disease.

    I also read that "nickle and dime" attitude into your post. I'm sure you don't directly SAY to the girls that they won't be getting a second dance unless they're offering extras (good ol southern manners wouldn't allow that), but your attitude and buying patterns do it for you. The girls pick up on that and it's a pain in the ass. Even in a place like Houston where the type of contact you describe is commonplace and most often expected, that carrot-dangling attitude of yours is STILL obnoxious at best.

    I'm with Emily too on the travelling Houston custies. As soon as I find out they're from H-town I move along. And most often when I encounter a real pain in the ass out of towner, he turns out to be from there! If you ever travel and go to a strip club, please, don't expect anywhere near the same contact levels cuz you're probably NOT gonna get even close, and expect to pay alot more as well - unless you're planning on getting about zero attention from the dancers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    I have to say (and I don't do this very often), I agree with Big Green 100%

    I like the use of the spitting smiley too!
    I agree with BigGreenMnM 110%. Heck even DW would rally with him for this one.

    DTK? Showing nipples (for free)? All for 2 dances in a row!

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    Look all I know is I've been waiting my turn PATIENTLY to be a best friend of BigGreenMnM's for MONTHS now, and this guy walks right in, makes 2 posts and their Chums.

    Why don't you marry him, ya love him so damn much.

    *Runs away crying*

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    Come home, Lassie!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xenolan
    (5) I can't understand why I'm being berated for wanting to get the most I can for my money. Of course that's what I want. That's the way I shop for used cars and groceries too, and I've never had the people selling those things take it personally - it's how capitalism works. I view erotic dancing like any other service when it comes to payment: I pay for the service, I give a reasonable tip if it's done particularly well. If dancers feel they're getting cheated, maybe they ought to raise their rates. It's hardly my fault if the going rate for a lapdance is twenty dollars.
    You have missed the entire point of going to a strip club. This is not a medical service, or getting a hair cut, or having your lawn mowed. It is completely frivolous, and frivality and bargin hunting just seems silly doesn't it?

    I do charge more for my dances then most of the other dancers I work with. I'm not interested in being nickled and dimed through my shift. I am always up front with the customer that I charge more, but the guys who are looking for an elite experiance will not have a problem paying more then the going rate.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    You have missed the entire point of going to a strip club. This is not a medical service, or getting a hair cut, or having your lawn mowed. It is completely frivolous, and frivality and bargin hunting just seems silly doesn't it?
    And of course, if everyone had that attitude, then strippers would get a lot more money, so I can see why that would be your preferred point of view.

    Quote Originally Posted by Brigette
    I'm sure you don't directly SAY to the girls that they won't be getting a second dance unless they're offering extras (good ol southern manners wouldn't allow that), but your attitude and buying patterns do it for you. The girls pick up on that and it's a pain in the ass. Even in a place like Houston where the type of contact you describe is commonplace and most often expected, that carrot-dangling attitude of yours is STILL obnoxious at best.
    I've already incurred enough animosity here that I hesitate to post further, but I can't help but point out that for some reason, the strippers posting here seem to have a real need to elevate themselves above everyone else. If you are a stripper, then you are in a service industry. Your position, as I see it, is similar to that of a waiter or waitress in a five-star restaurant (assuming that you're in a five-star club). This isn't a slam or a knock; it takes a lot of skill to serve tables in fine restaurants, and such a person can earn $50K a year.

    A certain level of gratuity is expected for normal services, and anything above and beyond that earns a higher gratuity.

    Here's where I'm coming from - I don't tip my server based on the service I hope I'll get the next ten or twelve times I come in. I tip based on the service I just got. Since I am the paying customer and the performer is selling her services (erotic dancing) to me, it seems that it's not my place to impress her, but the other way around. A dancer who gives me a great show will get an extra tip; one who decides to provide the bare minimum until I've come back twenty times for more is going to receive the bare minimum from me, once.

    That having been said, I have learned some things here and amid the firestorm have taken some points to heart. I can see that I may have occasionally been cheap and had expectations that were set too high. My only excuse is that I have taken my cues from the establishments I've been in (and these aren't the holes in the wall; I frequent Treasures, Gold Cup, and Cover Girls, which I understand to be among the better places in town). It is the dancers themselves who seem to encourage these attitudes, and believe it or not they DO seem to come back to me for more. One would think that if I were such a poor customer, the word would travel fast and I would find myself left alone.

    The advice I've received here, though for the most part given in a fairly hostile manner, will help me to become a better customer and I suppose I should be grateful for that.

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    Sorry to come off hostile. One of my main points is that what the strippers have to put up with to make money in Houston (and a few other places) is nowhere near what we have to do to make comparable or MORE money elsewhere. Many of your specific points of advice just aren't applicable for most of us.

    No I'm not trying to "elevate" myself. Neither is anyone else here (well we are in the economic sense). Likewise, we don't appreciate newbie posters coming around trying to "put us in our place" so to speak.

    Your attitude still comes off as that of an obnoxious type customer. (Btw there will always be some girls who'll come back for your money ) The kind most of us dread seeing come through the door. The kind who thinks whatever he's offering is all we deserve. And dare I say, the kind who wants to enjoy our goodies but thinks we're somehow beneath him. Perhaps I'm wrong. But this is the attitude that keeps coming thru...

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    You know, I can understand the frustration with "stick and carrot" customers (like this for example), but to some extent 90% of SC customers do this. Even ones with fat tiprolls. I'm not why some gals here live with the delusion that a man's bargain seeking characteristics shut off when he walks through the door of your club, or worse yet should shut off.

    Quote Originally Posted by Xenolan
    I've already incurred enough animosity here that I hesitate to post further, but I can't help but point out that for some reason, the strippers posting here seem to have a real need to elevate themselves above everyone else.
    You think?

    You've discovered in your short time here that the environment here on SW is a much different than what you see in an actual strip club. I can assure you that 90% of the customers who've ventured in here (myself included) would agree. Precisely why I go visit a club for a little dose of reality, when the content on here gets a little too naucious.

    Thankfully, the administrator here provided us neanderthals with a little safe haven, in case you didn't see it at the bottom of the main forum page. A bit of opposing hostility, and plenty of its own nauciousness to boot, but it helps provide a sense of balance around here, kind of like acid versus base.

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=167

    Enjoy.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Oh, well, it's about the same as being kicked in the nuts, I suppose.

    But it's all in the mind, yeah, in the mind.

    Being kicked in the nuts isn't as bad as everyone says it is. It's all in the mind. You think it's going to hurt and that's what makes you sick. I mean, if someone really nails you and you feel your nut get squished like a bouncy grape then sure, you feel pretty nauseous but, for the most part, it's just like getting kicked in the cushion. I don't see what the big deal is.

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    ^^^ For some reason that post reminded me that I am hungry :/

    Either way, lets get this train back on track. If you need me I'll be in the truck stop men's room.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Likewise, we don't appreciate newbie posters coming around trying to "put us in our place" so to speak.
    I was attacked with hostility and personally insulted by people who didn't even know me. Did you expect me to express gratitude for that kind of welcome?

    I acknowledge a certain degree of naivete when it comes to the stripper/customer relationship. Someone could have calmly explained where I was wrong; instead, I got a tar and feathering from all sides.

    I was greeted with rudeness and contempt. I responded defensively. That's all.

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    Well, I'm thinking if you'd really read alot of posts on here like you'd initially indicated, you'd have KNOWN your initial post was going to be met with something far less than a warm welcome.

    As it happened, you pretty much asked for it.

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    I was attacked with hostility and personally insulted by people who didn't even know me. Did you expect me to express gratitude for that kind of welcome?
    You assaulted the integrity and offended the sensibilities of people whom you don't know. Did you expect them to express gratitude for that kind of transgression?

    I acknowledge a certain degree of naivete when it comes to the stripper/customer relationship.
    Naivete? You wouldn't have that problem if you'd actually read this forum before posting on it. This ain't ASPD...

    Someone could have calmly explained where I was wrong; instead, I got a tar and feathering from all sides.
    You got off easy, dude.

    I was greeted with rudeness and contempt. I responded defensively. That's all.
    You basically did the eqiuvalent of walking into an NAACP conference and reciting Dave Chapelle's The Niggars' skit. That's all.
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    You basically did the eqiuvalent of walking into an NAACP conference and reciting Dave Chapelle's The Niggars' skit. That's all.
    Funny stuff, that.

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