Ok ladies, I'm a custy, and let me please help you out on this.
Find an online webmail client like hotmail, but not hotmail. And get your Dancer name in it.
Say your dancer name is Lappy
get
[email protected] or something
A: you have to remember to check it, its not something you have to sort through just to get to the one from mom and dad.
B: You can say 'Oh baby I've been so busy' about not replying
C: You can filter them out and block bad ones.
Now, onto phone numbers. If you have broadband get skype. And do yourself a favor, buy skype-in and get a local number. Setup your voicemail and make it personal but make it your fake name. Hell, put your schedule in it.
A: this makes it a 'Call Back' environment. *67 Is your friend here. You can call back and not be traced, and they can call you and at least get your schedule.
B: Its cheap, its quick, and it seperates you from your job.
C: You can relay it as... 'My number? Ok...here I like you and I want to see you, so I'll give you my work number with my schedule on it, but YOU leave a msg and say "x" then I will call you back. My parents dont know I'm a dancer so I only do call backs this way" blah blah blah you can come up with something.
You wont keep a custy forever if they know nothing about you, but you don't want that, you want to look single and everything, what you're talking about doing now, is maintaining the lie 24/7. These methodes put you in control of when. But as long as you are lying completely <not bad> sooner or later they're going to understand they dont have a chance and that normally happens when another dancer becomes an option.
Hope this helps!
Oh and how did I get to this? I've had dancers ask from my number. But not the one that matters, and out of respect I'm sure she never will, the point is, I don't need to go through some sex ensued emails to get to ones from clients, and I don't need my cell/office phone full of 'Hey babies was thinking about you masturbating this morning' <translate into> 'I was thinking about you when I couldn't make deposits this morning'
If I don't know them well enough to trust them they wont get me direct.
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