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    Default Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    I see these shows like momswap and such where they'll have some decent (used to be hot) mom from cali and she does nothing, isn't hot anymore, has fucked up kids, and is a complete bitch. Not only that, but she bitches that the lifestyle isn't good enough.



    Then I go out and I meet attractive women and I hear this:


    "I just want to stay at home"

    Who the fuck doesn't??


    Hell I want to stay at home too, how pimp would that be? I look at them and I try to figure out what it is about them that has lead them to believe that they deserve anything even remotely close being they haven't worked for shit their entire life. The only thing of merit is that they're attractive. THAT"S IT!! How can they think this warrants someone else working their ass off so that they can stay at home all day?

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Most of us wouldn't know as most of us have jobs.

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    Because they can ; )

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    That's exactly it,


    It's a matter of expectations.

    There are certain guys out there who ONLY want a hot girl and will put up with her even if she is lazy, treats him like shit, materialistic bitch, etc

    And there others who say "yeah, you're hot, OK, but what other qualities do you have?"

    but those in the first group far outnumber those in the second



    However, it's got to be vastly unfullfilling to have no self worth of your own beyond your looks.

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Welcome to my world!!!

    These days my requirements are pretty straight forward and I STILL have trouble finding THE ONE.

    1) Post High School Education. Doesn't have to be a Ph.D. but would be nice to have curiosity about the world.

    2) Takes care of herself. I ride my bike 12 miles a day and lift weights to keep in shape - she should be doing something too. All that excercise will help you walk when your 80 anyhow.

    3) Not a drug addict or alcoholic. I am done with the party scene. She needs to be too. Time to grow up like me.

    4) EMPLOYED or seriously looking for a job. It would be nice if she was planning her next gig to.

    5) Has some self-confidence and gumption. We are sharing two lives, not living one life.

    These are pretty basic - and yet....

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    Because they can ; )
    The government can do studies,the smarter then me guys cant get grants for extended research,we can even ask Yoda,
    They will all come to the same conclusion.

    I think Max's description is as direct and accurate as humanly possible.

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Exactly, it's pathetic how such simple equalities cannot be found in a woman...


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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Ya know, maybe it's just me... But I hear "I just wanna stay home" from men more than women. 20:1

    Perhaps you should try a new circle of women?
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    The world has all types of people in it.
    If a woman wants to stay home and not work, so be it. Someone is paying her bills!!!!
    I have known a few guys in my time who did not work, and lived off a gf or wife...Goes both ways. Me i wish i could sit back and not do at least ONE fucking job daily. But all in due time.

    Pamela

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    ^^^
    Maybe the simple equalities [sic] CAN be found, but that plethora of women in which they exist think that you lack the qualities for which they are looking. Nutshell: maybe you aren't good enough for the women who are good enough for you.
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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    ^^^
    Maybe the simple equalities [sic] CAN be found, but that plethora of women in which they exist think that you lack the qualities for which they are looking. Nutshell: maybe you aren't good enough for the women who are good enough for you.

    rofl

    Possible, but not likely. And what grammatical error are you trying to point out here?

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    There are men out there who WANT to be the provider and have the woman stay home and run the house. That traditional home type thing. The women who want to stay home are looking for that type of men.

    When you encounter that type of woman, best thing is to just move along because you're not looking for that and she's not looking for you. Don't stress about it, you're looking for independent women and there are plenty out there...

    Most of us here tho, are hot and independent (we don't mind working for a living), so you won't find many of the type of woman you're bitching about around here. Perhaps you should start dating strippers if you want hot women who like making their own money. LOL

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    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    There are men out there who WANT to be the provider and have the woman stay home and run the house. That traditional home type thing. The women who want to stay home are looking for that type of men.

    When you encounter that type of woman, best thing is to just move along because you're not looking for that and she's not looking for you. Don't stress about it, you're looking for independent women and there are plenty out there...

    Most of us here tho, are hot and independent (we don't mind working for a living), so you won't find many of the type of woman you're bitching about around here. Perhaps you should start dating strippers if you want hot women who like making their own money. LOL
    It's an unventured road...

    We'll see

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    My perfect date would be BigGreenMnM with tits...
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    And I GUESS a vagina...
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    There are certain guys out there who ONLY want a hot girl and will put up with her even if she is lazy, treats him like shit, materialistic bitch, etc
    Just because she suffers from GPS, doesn't mean any guy has to enable that condition.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    My perfect date would be BigGreenMnM with tits...
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    And I GUESS a vagina...
    Ok.. You're starting to scare me, Mast. No, I lied.. You're not "starting" to. Heh

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    roflmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    YOUR SCARED!!!!!!!

    Im tender,and he has super powers!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    haha, this kinda thing is my nature... things get super serious and then sooner or later the offensive stuff starts flying, my whole life I've always broken that ice by making jokes at my own expense.

    Although I did typo, I didn't mean to say BigGreenMnM I meant to say....uhmmm..... Keanu Reeves?!
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Prior to marrying my wife, she explained that she has always wanted to be a stay at home mother because she loves kids.
    I love her caring nurturer side and vowed at the time that I would work my ass off to afford that luxury for her (which it is these days). It has been working fine for 6 years and she hasn't had to work. Our greed has increased lately along with her being bored of being "stuck" in the house all day. Hence the recent return to her former line of work, topless dancing.
    It works well because it's evenings and I put the kids to bed anyway. It puts a bit more workload on me around the house but I can handle it.

    Anyway, with the money I make I could have been partying like a rockstar for the last 6 years but I wanted more out of life.
    Children ARE the meaning of life and you won't know until you have one (or more).
    It's what it's all about and if you can find a woman (who isnt just a mooch) who will be dedicated to the family unit, and you can afford to raise a family on your income, go for it.
    If that's not your cup of tea, stop judging women by their natural desire to just be a mother. Sure the feminists are all uppity about the traditional family model, but seriously, who are they kidding, it's ideal.

    I've already told my wife also, that if/when she can bring home as much or more than I do, I will GLADLY be a stay at home father.

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    You will find your mate they are out there and you will know when you meet them . As far as women who dont want to work thats up to them but I wouldnt hook up with one who is going to rely on me I think its a mutual effort . If one wants to raise the kids thats okay - as raising kids is much harder then any job I can imagine ! ( and I dont even have kids and I know this by observation ) Oh and some watching of family children - they never stop ! .. Everyone has their niche and the mate that will fill that nitche thats what makes life so fun and for others confusing . I found my niche but I still like talking to women here looking at their boobies etc - she even points them out to me in public she is okay with my stupid little faults ...I know in my heart that I will be with this woman the rest of my life - sorry got a little off topic ..

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Don't take much to satisfy, does it?

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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    Quote Originally Posted by Shady156
    Don't take much to satisfy, does it?
    It really wouldn't, but there's VERY little to choose from when you add attractive into the equation.


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    Default Re: Why do most hot women have such an overbloated sense of worth?

    What makes you think most hot women have an overbloated sense of worth? Most of the really hot women I know have a love/hate relationship with their bodies, often feel insecure about their appearance, pick at imagined physical imperfections and are deeply shy.

    Rather than basing your opinion on drama queens on a TV show, what is your experience with beautiful women in real life?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    What makes you think most hot women have an overbloated sense of worth? Most of the really hot women I know have a love/hate relationship with their bodies, often feel insecure about their appearance, pick at imagined physical imperfections and are deeply shy.

    Rather than basing your opinion on drama queens on a TV show, what is your experience with beautiful women in real life?

    Tons and tons of experience. What I've found is that their sense of worth in this instance is determined by their looks. Which is ultimately controlled by the opinions of others. Because there's nothing else to gain self worth from, their confidence takes huuuuuge swings and makes them miserable.

    Girls that find their worth in their accomplishment don't care as much if you find them attractive as they know they've done things with their life. Therefore they're much more stable in their happiness and they generally have more to offer.

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    If you have "tons and tons" of experience with hot women, I'm curious why you choose a TV show as your example.

    Anyway, your presumption above is that the hot women are not accomplished in other areas, and hence are insecure because they are depending entirely on their looks. Some certainly are, but this assumption is flawed in the population at large. What about the really smart, well-balanced, thoughtful, accomplished, hot women? These women have the same love/hate relationship with their bodies, and pick on imagined physical imperfections, trust me. Why?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustinKredible
    Girls that find their worth in their accomplishment don't care as much if you find them attractive as they know they've done things with their life.
    Every girl cares a great deal if you find her attractive. In fact, girls who are not hot seem to care a great deal more than the hot girls do.

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