k...have to vent a lil bit, just want to make sure i'm not crazy for thinkin this was weird.
So my boyfriend's friend was having his bachelor party saturday nite and he had wanted me to find girls for it. So i did, it was $500/girl in the door plus tips. For 4 hours...which is pretty decent. but at the last minute one of his "boys" told him that he had some girls that would do it for only $250/girl. So he cancelled on me. Which is no big deal, until i got a call later on tonite. I guess the so-called friend had brought only 1 girl and she was ugly as hell.
I figured they would be asking me to call up the girls i had for them and ask them to come over. But instead of that, they had the audacity to ask me to dance for them!
they are crazy. i'm not about to dance for my boyfriend's friends and pretend like i didn't get half-naked around them when we all hang out.
but i go out there b/c i wanted to see if they were exaggerating(sp?) on how the girl looked. They weren't lying @ all. She was old and looked like a crack whore. I guess the girl was only there for about 45 minutes and she left when i got there. I got all ready to dance, I thought i could do it. I wanted to help out the bf's friend, make his bachelor party fun. b/c he was soooo sad and just looked miserable. but when i got dressed and walked out to the barn. Yep...they were holding it in a barn. With florescent lights and cement floors, and a TON of mosquitos. Not a smart thing to do...but whatever.
i get out there and instantly feel out of place. Like a piece of meat. And while i'm used to that feeling(due to work) i've never experienced it around his friends. So i change my mind and get dressed. I want to leave and go home, tell my boyfriend to have fun and call me if he needs a ride. but he tells me to stay. So i stay but kept getting rude comments from this guy. Keeps yelling things like "Where are the strippers???" and he came up to me and said "well you obviously failed at taking your clothes off, why are you still here?" And if that didn't hurt, he would say loudly "why's the bitch still here?"
guess i want to know if i was wrong for backing out of it. I just wanted to help him out. But it was just too weird. I moved to the town i live in now b/c i wanted a fresh start, i didn't want to be known as the "stripper". I just wanted a normal life. I think i lost that illusion tonite.
What upsets me even more is the fact that my boyfriend called me up asking me to dance for his friends. Did he not think that maybe i'd feel awkward? or did he just want to flaunt around the fact that he's dating a dancer?
i'm sorry this is so long...![]()



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Something like that, I woulnd't have even considered.

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