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We have a lot of couples on weekends and I always get a bit tongue tied when talking to them. I chat to the woman first but it feels awkward asking for a dance.
Only a few girls approach them so they are usually left well alone.



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We have a lot of couples on weekends and I always get a bit tongue tied when talking to them. I chat to the woman first but it feels awkward asking for a dance.
Only a few girls approach them so they are usually left well alone.



I usually always approach the woman first, and I focus more on talking to the woman than the man. If you do this the other way around, the woman may get a little upset, I have noticec from past experiences.
"There is an inner beauty about a woman who believes in herself, who knows she is capable of anything she puts her mind to. There is a beauty in the strength and determination of a woman who follows her own path, who isn't thrown off by obstacles along the way. There is a beauty about a woman whose confidence comes from experience. Who knows she can fail, pick herself back up and go on... This woman is you. You are strong, you have inner and outer beauty, you are amazing" (anonymous).



I’ve danced for several couples .. generally if the woman is blushing and smiling it’s a fair indicator they will be interested.. talk to them the same as any customer.
OK, I've responded to questions like this before from a female customer's point of view.....IMO, it's probably a good idea to sit down and talk to the both of them, but pay slightly more attn to the girl. Long story short, try to do something to make sure the girl is comfortable being there. My first time at an sc, the dancer asked me if it was my first time, etc and told me that when I'm ready to come talk to her for a dance. As she walked away, she gave my shoulder a little bit of a rub and as silly as it sounds, it was that that made me feel comfortable (and less threatened, I guess). We both ended up getting separate dances from her.
Other times I've gone to clubs, I do notice that a lot of dancers ignore us, but believe me - if you come up and talk to me, you'll see I'm not a jealous nut-job and that, yes, I am willing to spend my money on dances. I imagine there's a lot of couples that feel the same way.





Great responses,I agree 100%!!!!!
In this new age of the AOL swinging couples,its still law of the jungle,regardless of how many couples are inticed into the lifestyle.
Always go for the female,and let her lead the way.
Fuck him.
Get her rocks off,the fantasy is HIS,but controlled by HER.
If even for a moment,in most cases,if for a moment you focus on him(half naked alpha female)its going to turn to shit,at the club,and later on for him at home.(oh lawd he gonna be eatin shit,and wont be back soon)
Trust me,if you play this wrong,you DONT want to be in thier car on the ride home!!!!!
She is the target,always,she will give permission when its time to even look at him!!!!!
If she isnt the target,she will fucking tell you!!!!!!!!
"I want you on my man"
You gals dont mince words when it comes to your men like that,period.
Wanna score???
walk up to a couple and say this....
"I was sitting across the room,you made me sooooooooo hot.I had to come over and ask you,what are you doing with a guy like this???Does he have a huge cock or is he really really rich to have a girl like you".
Always flatter her and shadow him.
lol get comfey,your going to be at that table for awhile.
(please dont say it like that,it wont work.Say the same thing,only in your girl to girl words,not the words of a crusty dj)
It is his fantasy,but SHE controls it.
Lot's of past threads on this topic. Usually the topic of couples is mixed with approaching and dancing for female customers, so here are a few existing threads to check out.....
"Couples in SC's"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28776
"Are Female Customers More Fun?"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26978
"Customer wives or girlfriends - how do you act?"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25202
"Why am I suddenly seeing more women customers?"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28799
"Do you girls that dance? Like to dance for?"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26877
"Females" (NOTE: Thread is in Ladies Only)
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26990
"Do dancers have an issue dancing for couples?"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25668
"Approaching Female Customers"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28868
"Curious"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=25919
"Do the ladies like dancing for couples?"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28898
"Women giving other women lap dances"
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26708
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.





^^^^^^^ROFLMAO^^^^^^^^^^
Keep it up verf,I swear i will start a thread about re-elections for the bennies of the girls!!!!!!
Fuck most of the mods,Pryce should be payin you!!!!!!!
I agree with MnM as far as the woman controlling the situation. I am not really the jealous type, esp in an sc situation. HOWEVER, no matter how confident I am in myself, it is somewhat intimidating being around a lot of (mostly) gorgeous, naked (or almost naked) women.
Believe me girls, there can be a lot of money made with couples, but I really think you're best off putting the ball in the woman's court.
My wife and I go to clubs together and are seldom approached. When we are approached, I find the dancers tend to the relaxed/having fun types and not the hustle type. Sure that is the niave male talking, but it seems true to me.
We have had girls come over and talk to my wife and ignore me, and that bothers me. I have had girls tell me that they are intimidated by my wife since she is very good looking. However, my wife will tip and compliment girls we like, which should be considered a direct invitation. Seldom do the girls follow up. I find what works best for us, if when the girl comes over, and politely offers to sit on my lap while introducing herself to us both. We like to get dances together, first my wife then me.
Bottom line is why not ask. If the wife is the jealous bitchy type, you aren't getting a dance from either of them anyway. If not, you may have found a good customer.
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