Do you think it is unusual for a man to spend 4 out of 7 days a week in a strip club?
Do you think it is unusual for a man to spend 4 out of 7 days a week in a strip club?
Depends. Does he work there? LOL
Ok seriously...Why what's he doing?
Yeah, at first it may seem like a bit much, but we don't know his financial position, spending habbits or how long he stays there during each visit.
I know one place that gives away a free lunch from 12PM to 3PM, guys might stop in there, pay a $3 cover, get a drink and a sandwich, watch a few stage sets, tip about $10 then leave. Not all that bad considering.
However, if he's going all the time, spending hundreds per visit, or is obsessing over one particular dancer, it may be a different issue, but we need more detail.
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.
I personally feel a little sorry for some regulars. I can't help it. For example, there's this regular that's there every time I come to work. He looks a bit depressed. I see quite a few like that. I can't help to think these guys are a bit miserable in their personal lives. I mean a SC is not that serious.
No, he is actually a regular. We don't serve food only drinks, so occassionally he buys himself a drink and whoever else wants one. If I am not available or with another custy he will buy dances from another dancer. He usually spends about 200 each time he visits. He tells me he also visits a club in Columbia, SC, about two hours away, every other weekend. He says he owns his own business as a computer repairman. I am grateful that he comes in and spends money but I can't help but to wonder why he spends so much of his life at the club. He is in his 50's and not married. I have asked him why such a nice guy like him doesn't have a girlfriend and he says by choice. He claims to be able to get anyone he wants but doesn't want the commitment. I am still confused, maybe I just don't understand some people, lol.





Not unheard of, but otherwise yes.Originally Posted by greenidlady1
Former SCJ now in rehab.
OK Green, seems like a fairly common story. He's financially independent, and likes the laid back, no strings attached set up of the SC. Not unheard of.
BTW - for a more humorous take on the topic check out this thread....
"You know you're a SC regular when..."
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=37021
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.
Those are hilarious, lol![]()





I'd be more worried if he spent 4 days out of 7 in the club to see one girl exclusively...





No one, including Brad Pitt, can 'get anyone they want'... but a lot of folks don't want the people they can get... that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them.. if you ask one of those people why they are single, what do you expect them to say? Not many people want to start a pity party about their social lives... The part about not wanting commitment may well be true, though...Originally Posted by greenidlady1
Um, he's under a bit of a delusion, methinks, for the first part--If you weren't married, could he have YOU? He wants you, after all--but he's being dead-straight about the non-commitment part.Originally Posted by greenidlady1
Was it Clark Gable who was caught with a prostitute and asked why, when he could have any woman he wanted? And he replied "I don't pay them to have sex, I pay them to leave!"
And again about the attitude of getting anyone you want, in the immortal words of J Giles: "I love her, and she loves him, but he loves somebody else, you just can't win!...Love stinks!"

Charlie Sheen.Originally Posted by pet_rock
the money some guys spend in a SC is cheaper than buying their wives (who treat them like shit) a brand new SUV every year
Wanting a little companionship from someone that will treat him like gold is normal, especially if he's single. And if he can afford it....
now that I think about it, if I were an older single guy and had the money to burn, I'd probably be doing the same thing.
Originally Posted by Emily
Amen. I'm not in a SC 5-7 times a week, but I prefer the purchase and confidence building. Gold is an excelent feeling
People are not ruled by their memories.
I don't care how much disposable income the guy has, I think he needs a hobby. And of course the "I can get any woman I want" statement is utter bullshit.
Agree. No further comments.Originally Posted by Stringer
Giselle Rine W. , -------- 127 Chesterfield.
You weren't on Match Game in 1974.



You mentioned that he's a computer repairman, so there is a possible clue you can seek. If he ever brings a laptop into your club and starts to play Strip Solitaire, then you should maintain a safe distance from him.Originally Posted by greenidlady1
My latest conspiracy theory: I am convinced that Dick Cheney is, in reality, Elmer Fudd.





I don't think it is unusual. Why are strip clubs called "Gentlemens Clubs"?
As women we all tend to assume that girlfriends are a dime a dozen, and that just isn't true. Lots of these guys have been divorced after being married during their "prime" years and the pool of women out there isn't made up of very many beautiful available ones.
And many of these guys don't have the "game" and jivey personality needed to get a lot of "free" action, do they?
One of my good regulars called me from his town of 3500 people on Forth of July, telling me he was bored. He's in his 50's and divorced with grown children. He's a nice guy, and jacking off twice a day is his favorite hobby.![]()
These guys get lonely, and being in the company of above average younger women dressed in sexy lingerie and 6 inch heels is pleasurable.
And the fact that the guy comes to see only you, and spends $200 each time he visits the club with a few dances to a straggler girl ONLY when you're busy is a GOOD thing, isn't it?
When WE get older, and our looks and bodies aren't a draw anymore, and if we are divorced or widowed, we'll be in the same position many of these guys are in, won't we? How easy will it be for us to find a new man?
Enjoy your regular while he lasts.





^^^ Rock on, Tina....
i know of an older man who goes to probably 3 clubs a day. he starts at one in the morning , goes to another in afternoon, and evening goes to another. this is a seven day a week thing. he has been married to 2 strippers already. i really dont' see anything wrong with it but it seems like it would get boring. i mean i love the mall, but i don't want to go everyday.
I don't understand regulars. I can understand a monthly or annual treat, but more than once or twice a week? Get a life and donate some of that cash to charity! I mostly see it as being too pathetic to face reality. Most regulars I've seen are dirty old men with groping tendencies.
At my first shithole club, there were 3 very wierd regulars:
1) A schizophrenic germaphobe whom we called Mr. Clean. He would always sit waaayyy back away from us and put the bills on the table like he was giving a lion some meat. I didn't have any problem with this zero-tactile guy, and he paid well. I dunno about the germaphobia though. He used our bathrooms, which probably hosted Howard Hughes's nightmare.
2) This guy who I think was slightly mentally retarded, b/c he didn't seem to have any other disabilities (I'm a nursing student, and I honestly think that he was). I think that he was in his mid 40s and lived with his mom. He came 3x a week, according to the boss, since the club opened 6 years ago. You couldn't have a normal conversation b/c he'd just smile stupidly and cock his head. He'd also try to grab and lick your feet, as I found once when I had to adjust my show buckle. You could hint all you wanted that you were ready to take the dollar, but he'd just stupidly grin and stare. He'd often stick out his tongue like a St. Bernard and look at you like he was expecting you to throw yourself on him in passion. He'd also try to hug and hold you whenever he could and sniff your hair. I refused to lapdance him b/c I was fine with being paid for a show, but not a pathetic substitute for a girlfriend/teddy bear.
3) Another guy who I think was slightly mentally retarded, which I deduced from slight physical handicap, speech impediment, and facial features that resembled fetal alchohol syndrome. He'd sit away from the table from open till closing time and try to ask strippers to fuck him. He's always say, "I've never fucked an Asian girl, you wanna be my first?"





Yep, a few years of marriage will take the "game" and jivey personality right out of you.![]()
"He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"
I think every club has at least one guy like this.
Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle
the money some guys spend in a SC is cheaper than buying their wives (who treat them like shit) a brand new SUV every year
Wanting a little companionship from someone that will treat him like gold is normal, especially if he's single. And if he can afford it....
now that I think about it, if I were an older single guy and had the money to burn, I'd probably be doing the same thing.Amen.I don't think it is unusual. Why are strip clubs called "Gentlemens Clubs"?
As women we all tend to assume that girlfriends are a dime a dozen, and that just isn't true. Lots of these guys have been divorced after being married during their "prime" years and the pool of women out there isn't made up of very many beautiful available ones.
And many of these guys don't have the "game" and jivey personality needed to get a lot of "free" action, do they?
One of my good regulars called me from his town of 3500 people on Forth of July, telling me he was bored. He's in his 50's and divorced with grown children. He's a nice guy, and jacking off twice a day is his favorite hobby.
These guys get lonely, and being in the company of above average younger women dressed in sexy lingerie and 6 inch heels is pleasurable.
And the fact that the guy comes to see only you, and spends $200 each time he visits the club with a few dances to a straggler girl ONLY when you're busy is a GOOD thing, isn't it?
When WE get older, and our looks and bodies aren't a draw anymore, and if we are divorced or widowed, we'll be in the same position many of these guys are in, won't we? How easy will it be for us to find a new man?
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.
Time waits for no man, nor woman either.
Giselle Rine W. , -------- 127 Chesterfield.
You weren't on Match Game in 1974.
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