Some girls who are dancing just send out negative vibes to the customers that they really hate their job. I have worked with some like that lately.
To me a girl who is going to do well as a dancer must not be uncomfortable with guys sexual comments or passes. She must be able to play them off and smile and laugh.
One girl I work with is one of those "don't touch me here, don't touch me there" types who after one dance guys can't wait to get away from. Several of us dancers were at a table with some guys who were kind of raunchy with their talk, but they were tipping us 10's just to talk and she was just a wet noodle. One guy took a $20 bill up to her on stage and she acted like she didn't want it. If guys are spending money but are cocky, so what. We are there for the money, and have to "play the game", right?
Girls who can't deal with the blatant sexual comments of the customers, who can't tolerate some touching, and who don't know how to gracefully move a guys hands, and have a playful personality in the club need to quit.
This same girl complains and gets mad with those of us who have some regular customers, and tries to bad mouth us, yet she hardly works the tables, and turns off guys who might like her because she is afraid to open up.
Prudes don't need to be dancing. Get rid of all the girls like that in the clubs and we may have a decent dancer to customer ratio.![]()



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