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    i'm currenly working as an erotic model online (read: i take my clothes of in front of a camera for money) and have been accepted by a few sites and am making pretty good money so far. i'm intersted in more live action sex work, though, but i'm wondering- how many clubs hire bbw women? i have natural DD's, a 39" waist and 51" hips, weigh 190, though most of it is lean muscle, so i am told i look 140- 150, and am 5'1. i consider myself beautiful, and apparently, plenty of other people do, too. but stripping is different from the web- there is a smaller client base, and the problem of finding a club that would hire me. there are always going to be sites that cater to the "alternative" *ahem*, but how many clubs are going to hire bbw dancers? i live in the washington d.c. area- does anyone know of clubs in the area that hire women of my stature? also, i've never danced before- where/how is a glood place/way to learn? are there any classes offered in the dc area, and are they worth the money? opinions from the experienced, please!
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    Not being a pig? But post a pic.

    I mean if you're getting paid online then you know something about you has attracted the guys.

    I like women of all shapes and sizes as long as they take care of themselves, and I know a ton of gorgious women in your weight group, its all how you carry it. Confidentially.

    Granted a lot of clubs have size requirements but don't let that get you down, you'll find a place, but please the evidence points to you being a hottie, don't doubt it.

    Its not a matter of IF you can, its WHERE you can!

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    the pic in my avatar is of me..... here are some others.



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    tnanks emily. i read that thread, but it's a slightly different issue than mine. i know i am NOT too fat to strip- i know i am beautiful, and i know that plenty of men are ready to pay to see my body. my question is just where i would go to find a club that hires women like me. it seems that there are many clubs that cater solely to the enthusiasts of thin women. where should i look for a job?
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    thanks for the support, mast!
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    The best way to find a club for you is to grab a guy friend and visit the clubs that you are interested in. If you find one (for lack of a better term) that has a larger woman working in it than you should have no problem getting a job. Best of Luck!

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    I think you have a sexier build than some of the skinny girls I see at a club sometimes.

    I'm def not skinny, at 5'9" 155(ish) lbs, but I'm toned. I do very well for this business and am the top earner for my club.

    I think that's an important thing that differentiates dancing from pictures and posing. You are seen from every side, even the bad side...and to top it off, it's gonna jiggle.

    Then there's sales skills, but that's for another day.

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    You are SO beautiful. I mean, really really pretty and I would LOVE to see you in a club. Bt I don't think clubs would hire you, honestly. You're absolutely stunning but you're not runway-model-perfect. Of course I'm speaking from California where Tanorexia is more common. Maybe in your neck of the woods, a dancer doesn't have to vomit her salad.

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    i'm definately not even closed to runway model, lilith.... but i don't think i'd want to work in a club that houses the bulemics anonymous meetings during daytime hours. i honestly haven't been to many strip clubs- i'm only 19! so i'll have to check out some in my area and see if they're different. and thanks for the compliments!
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    i think your very pretty. im sure youll find the right kind of club that will make you feel like home. let us know how it goes.

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    thanks candy!
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    My advice is to go out to the clubs yourself,get a look at the other dancers,and while your there ask for an audition.Be sure to take your stuff with you.

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    I think you're a very pretty girl and its true that clubs hire a lot of different types of women in order to provide a full range for their clientele. However because you're short, you may appear more chub than you really are. I know that at my club, we have thick girls, but they're either black girls or they're just thick and toned. i can't speak for you, but the better shape I'm in, the more $ I make. I'm 5'8" and I used to weigh 165 lbs. I cut down on my diet (nothing too extreme) and ran for 30 minutes a day. I lost 25 lbs in about 2 months. i'm not advocating you try to fight your natural shape because you're beautiful, but maybe if you work out for 5 days/week you could drop a little weight. Plus dancing is really hard and it helps so much to already have mucsle. Also a good book to read if the S FActor by sheila Kelley. it shows really basic pole moves tht helped me out alot. Good luck w/ your dancing!

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    Here in TN, it seems like the thicker girls do a whole lot better than the stick-figure girls. I watched two stick figures in a row dance and get NO tips, then the thick girl came on, just did a little introverted swaying (not that talented, IMO) and the custys lined the stage around her! Do not worry, chiquita, you will be fine. Your eyes say "I'm sexy" and if you use them to look at each customer, you will be very successful.

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    You have a gorgeous natural face!!!

    I'm from D.C. originally and I'm sure your look would go over beautifully there..

    But it will be very difficult to find a nice club to work at because of your body size-- the clubs that will hire you will proabably be complete dives....

    I can't get over what a sweet face you have-- you remind me of a friend I had as a kid!
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    aww, thanks!
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    I was about your size when I started dancing, I knew from the start that it would be a disadvantage so I made myself look as hot as possible..... we're talking the tan/nails/hair/make-up and found a gown that flattered my body like no other.... I got hired! I was 190 & 5'8, I danced for 2 yrs and quit becuase the weight was such an issue for me.... personally.

    Its been 18 months since I left.... I've dropped 45lbs and am about to start dancing again and am honestly more scared now than before!

    Keep us updated and I'll cross my fingers for you.

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    When I was a dj in Atlanta I would have loved to have you as a dancer! You are absolutely beautiful! At some of the clubs I worked at, the majority of the dancers were Pamela Anderson clones. That was what the owner liked. I tend to appreciate fuller figures and you are a knockout! Too bad I live in SW Virginia now....there aren't many clubs. I'd hire you in an instant.....I think many men would appreciate your beauty.

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    So ummm whats your website?

    So here is a joke to entertain all of you since i have nothing else to contribute:

    One time I'm at a club, this 70lb woman walks up to me and sits down. Shes sniff and rubbing her nose(coke for the uneducated) and I dont like drugs like coke at all. So we talk for a few minutes she asks if i want a dance. I said no you're too fat. she gets up and runs away. First time i ever saw a stripper run that fast.

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    *(~snickers~)* that's so wrong, yet still so freaking funny......
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    You didnt answer the question.

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    For what it's worth, I'd get a dance from you. You have a pretty face, and I appreciate a large set of breasts.

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    I have a question, why are the not over weight girls in this thread refered to as stick figures or that they have eating disorders or drug problems?
    you're doing what you think the clubs do to over weight girls, I guess.
    It's not my fault I chose to make healthy choices with my body and got hired at a club that prefers to have thinner girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by holottabootay
    Here in TN, it seems like the thicker girls do a whole lot better than the stick-figure girls. I watched two stick figures in a row dance and get NO tips, then the thick girl came on, just did a little introverted swaying (not that talented, IMO) and the custys lined the stage around her! Do not worry, chiquita, you will be fine. Your eyes say "I'm sexy" and if you use them to look at each customer, you will be very successful.
    Memphis. I know I keep harping about it, but it is a haven for the thicker gal. Myself included as I am six foot and weigh possibly all of one fifty or perhaps more as I don't own a scale.

    You would do REALLY well there as you are pretty in a baby doll sort of way.
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