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    Ok, where I work it is a contact club and I'd like to know how you ladies who also work in contact clubs start off on your first song and what you do towords around say song # 7 , problem is I kinda run out of ideas so I end up doing soft lap grinding , brush my hair against them , make alot of "fuck me" eyes , play in their hair , back off a bit when they get too worked up ..... Does anyone have any ideas for other things I can do ?

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    have u tried the one leg between their legs and brush your body against theirs up and down?? (if you know what i mean) Go up and down, go on your knees kinda like faking you're about to give a bj. What i'm trying to learn now and its waay easier than what it seems it's a handstand and land in their lap w/ legs up above their head. You can practice home alone in your couch. It just looks fun.

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    I bought a DVD recently called 'Lap Dance Lessons'. It was an excuse to make mild porn. >_<

    I just do the same thing you do. I find people who buy 8+ dances don't even care. o_o They're just there to be touched. :3

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    Body Slides are my personal favorite. Put both hands on their shoulders, press your body against theirs, pick up one knee and slide your "standing leg" down to the ground so that both of your knees are bent on the floor and you are kneeling. From here, lean back so they can look at you, run your hands on their thighs, whatever. To get up, I do this hot little number.... I put my head right by their crotch (bad girl! LOL) and bend my neck so my head is "down." I then start standing up by raising my butt of my knees, and as I rise to standing my hair grazes from their "crotch area" up to their kneck. It's hot, lol

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    Lilith was the DVD any good?

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    Have you ever seen the movie Showgirls? I like the lap dance Nomi performs on the guy, when Cristal Conners is watching. Its a good lap dance but it probably involves more touching then some people wanna do. And on the movie in the 'extras' they have a lap dance lesson from the girls from Scores

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    Quote Originally Posted by alicia0033
    have u tried the one leg between their legs and brush your body against theirs up and down?? (if you know what i mean) Go up and down, go on your knees kinda like faking you're about to give a bj. What i'm trying to learn now and its waay easier than what it seems it's a handstand and land in their lap w/ legs up above their head. You can practice home alone in your couch. It just looks fun.
    If your dancing in Dallas be careful, while giving a lapdance you have to keep one foot on the ground

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    Some ideas for contact lapdances:

    *Full body slides facing either toward or away from them
    *Fake bj's, using your sternum (breastbone) to give friction (they adore this)
    *fake titty fuck, same principle, but make sure they can see your boobs and look up into thier eyes
    *Straddle one leg and slide down it
    *Put your ankle on his shoulder, lean forward and caress his face
    *facing away from him, put your ankle on his shoulder, lean forward, and caress his legs
    *play with their nipples. You will know right away who likes it and who doesn't. I start by brushing my fingers over their shirt in the first song to get the reaction. If they seem to like it, I get progressively more aggressive until I have reached the limit of what I can do in my club. Spread this out over several songs.

    *You can try doing lower contact moves earlier on, and then progressively increase the contact and the drama-factor of your moves as the songs go on. I usually kick up the stakes just as the song is ending.

    *also, I spend the first song doing an "exploratory" to figure out what the guy likes best. What I am looking for:

    --is he visual, verbal, or touchy-feely (Visual guys like the more show-y moves, like the ankles on the shoulder, verbal guys like you to breathe an dmoan in their ears, and touchy guys want more contact, less dramatic visuals)
    --Where does he particularly like to be touched (Try ankles, backs or knees, inside thighs, butocks, back, neck chest, inside elbows, hands, face. ANywhere he touches you, he will probably want to be touched.)
    --What moves does he particularly love? I will remember these and trot them out jsut as I am asking fo rthe next song.

    * Try to appear as if you are getting progressively more aroused as the songs go on.
    *Almost any move that you have done once or twice before looks even better the 3rd time around if you add some fake masturbation to it.

    ANd remember, if he is alredy buying multiple songs from you, he already likes whit you are doing. Add enough noew trick each song to keep it interesting, but don't forget to keep re-using his vavorite moves, That's what got you multiple dances in the first place.


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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    Quote Originally Posted by Crissychan
    If your dancing in Dallas be careful, while giving a lapdance you have to keep one foot on the ground
    Definately! And if you're dancing in Fort Worth (namely Baby Dolls), you can't touch at all! Big fines!! Which makes it even more challenging since they only have tall chairs in the areas where you give table dances.

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    I tried the headstand thing! Guys love it! It is fun!

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    any ideas on how to give a lap dance im new to this

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    Quote Originally Posted by colleen
    *play with their nipples.
    Haha! Nipples! I am surprised how many men like having their nipples touched, twisted, and tweaked.

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    Regarding Dallas and the one foot on the ground rule.....lol...I first started out dancing in Texas.....what happened to the not allowed to touch AT ALL if topless rule? In my first club.....one girl was busted just for touching a guy's leg while she was topless....freakin hefty fine too!

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    Quote Originally Posted by kazzy
    any ideas on how to give a lap dance im new to this
    Sheila Kelly's book The S Factor is excellent. It has many classy moves and lots of photographs to show you how.

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    thanks xx

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    Those are great suggestions, Colleen! I use some of those myself and they are very effective.

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    The S factor shoes step by step pics of pole tricks, which are awesome, but this website will be your best reference will be this website! I also have the Fawnia dvds. Theyre good if you'd never danced before, but dont buy them if you've danced longer than a month or two.

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    Default Re: new ideas for lapdances?

    Yup Nomi's lapdance in Showgirls is DA SHIT! lol But hey my Showgirls DVD doesn't have the lap dance lesson on it, WTF! I got ripped off! Did you get the special edition DVD or something? I just have the regular one.
    In a black light trance, then go go dance...

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