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    I'm going to go with yes, because he made an offer and by taking the money- it was like you accepted. You could have been walking away to a secluded spot to 'do the deed' .....thats probably the excuse they would use to arrest you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim
    I'm going to go with yes, because he made an offer and by taking the money- it was like you accepted. You could have been walking away to a secluded spot to 'do the deed' .....thats probably the excuse they would use to arrest you.

    I could see them arresting you with some kind of "intent" BS

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    Hell, I could see them tacking on some kind of theft charge if you claimed that you promised to do it while having absolutely no plan on doing so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by venusofwillendorf
    seriously though.... if an undercover copper offers me 500 for sex, and i take it then walk away and not give him any, maybe saying "what money?" when he asks about his payment... can he arrest me for anything?
    Theft of his money by deceit, I would think. It's not unusual for the cops to have the bills marked and serial numbers recorded in order to prove the evidence passed from him to you.

    I'm not a lawyer, so this is my layman's understanding. Your offer and the exchange of money are key elements in making the arrest and charge of prostitution, and I believe the allegation is further supported when the suspect heads to a motel room or gets into a car with the cop. Under the law, that's considered taking a substantial step toward committing the act. I suspect the further you go down that path, the stronger their case becomes. Obviously, the arrest and charge are not contingent upon the completion of the act since the cop isn't going to follow through, yet charges stick under those circumstances anyway.

    Which brings up an interesting contrast. A cop would never wait until after the act of prostitution was finished to make an arrest in the case of full contact sex, but he waits until after the lap dance grinding finishes to make an arrest for that. I guess, even though the law in many states defines both acts as prostitution, the officer's difference in behavior indicates that he must think of the two acts differently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    Wow...huffy, aren't we?
    Eh, which one of us?


    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    We need to merge all the threads with strippers ragging on escorts already.
    Am I missing these? I'm really not checking the whole site like I used to, so if you say it it is, I'll believe you, but is criticism of escorts really an issue on SW? Even if it's an issue in other parts, I didn't see it coming up in this thread until someone else jumped to conclusions that were in her mind, not in the thread.

    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    You girls want to hear a little secret? Some escorts actually LOOK DOWN on strippers!!!
    Point me to their site; I want to go rag on them for the elitism of that.


    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    Really! I know a lot of you out there say "at least I don't fuck guys for money"...have a Coke and a smile already.
    Considering laws in most states define lap grinding as prostitution, anyone who does that shouldn't throw the first stone. But I still don't see that as the topic of this thread, so much as the "cheap" aspect.

    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    They look down on our tacky spandex outfits and the garish makeup that we usually wear to work.
    Now I'm sorry, but I have no respect for anyone who doesn't value camping it up.
    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    I don't the "Proud Whore" meant a disabled person who CAN'T work as part of her argument. I Think it's safe to say that she directed it at the bajillion girls on here who post weekly whining about how their SO won't get a job because he figures she already makes enough and she should be supporting his ass because he "lets" her strip.
    No, I know she didn't mean that. My point by making that absurd comparison was that it was just as absurd to use a broad brush to paint everybody else's comments with. Or something. It was clear in my head at the time. I thought the point about slacker boyfriends was completely irrelevant to the topic of the thread. It's a straw boyfriend.. er man.

    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    One last thing (whew!)...NEWS FLASH! While hookers can't talk about their job as openly as a stripper, we often forget that in the eyes of 98.4% of the population a hooker and stripper is the SAME FUCKING THING!
    See, again, I think stating this fact is singing to the choir. 'Cept at least you know how to bring up the issues without being preachy about them.

    -Ev
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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence
    Am I missing these? I'm really not checking the whole site like I used to, so if you say it it is, I'll believe you, but is criticism of escorts really an issue on SW? Even if it's an issue in other parts, I didn't see it coming up in this thread until someone else jumped to conclusions that were in her mind, not in the thread.

    -Ev
    From what I have seen (and edited if need be) were mainly singular dancers making ignorant comments about not being in the sex biz...that dancers were better than escorts...blah, blah, blah.

    There have never been whole threads that complain about escorts. Well, at least none that I have seen...

    I've tried to stay out of this, but basically, it comes down to this. Using your "sexual energy" to make money is being a "sex worker". You're selling some type of sexuality to encourage customers to give you money. Escorts are sex workers...AND, escorts do not have sex with every single customer they "service". While it seems absurd...some of these guys just want a hot girl for the party...and nothing else.

    But, even MOVIE STARS who choose to do the "Jessica Simpson" thing are selling SEX to make more money. In effect, she may be a movie/singing star (however that happened) but, the fact remains that she is using sex. Which is why the hard-core bible thumpers are going ape-shit over her latest video. She's not actually having sex with anyone...but she's using her sexuality as a way to sell more and make more. That would make her a sex worker.

    Whether or not you AGREE with being a sex worker (stripper), it remains that you are so and just NOT AGREEING with it, doesn't change the fact that you are. You don't have to sleep with all of your cheap customers...but you do have to accept the fact that you are a sex worker...

    As for the original posting...I've been offered everything under the sun to have sex with someone. It's just not something I would ever do. I have an SO and a toddler and it's not something I'm interested in. But, really, having someone offer $100 for a romp in the hay was kinda insulting. LOL I would always tell them to come back with a few mil and I would consider.

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    Actually it's quite amusing having to sit next to a guy who's trying to "pick up" a dancer, trying to get "extras" for $500.00 (usually $500.00) OTC, of course.

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    Don't know, $500 is a lot of money if you really need it.

    Only thing I don't like about going this route, is the logistics. The time, the place, and the set up. There are just too many things that can get fouled up.

    And the guy who usually asks for this kind of thing is married, has a house full of kids, is looking for one last fling. Or is just looking to kill some time bragging about his lates conquest to his buddies at the office. That's a lot of talk for $500, buddy.

    I like sex but only with the guy I'm comfortable with. And if I did start selling it, why am I coming to work here in this club? Damn, might as well set up a stand on a street with a sign that read "SEX FOR SALE" It is all the same and comes down to the very same thing.

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    I've never paid...
    You've paid every time; you're just in denial, which is fine I guess.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    From what I have seen (and edited if need be) were mainly singular dancers making ignorant comments about not being in the sex biz...that dancers were better than escorts...blah, blah, blah.
    Ahh, I see. Missed that (kinda glad I did). That is elitist.

    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
    Whether or not you AGREE with being a sex worker (stripper), it remains that you are so and just NOT AGREEING with it, doesn't change the fact that you are. You don't have to sleep with all of your cheap customers...but you do have to accept the fact that you are a sex worker...
    Nevertheless, that's such a broad term that there can be as many (or more) differences between the jobs of two sex workers as there are between the jobs of a sex worker and a non-sex worker. Meeting the criteria of the definition doesn't mean that all sex workers are employed in similar workplace environments delivering the same services. I'm not thinking of any particular person when I make this observation, but I think some people bandy that term around as if it's supposed to prohibit other people from pointing out differences and debating issues surrounding those differences.

    -Ev

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    You've paid every time; you're just in denial, which is fine I guess.
    No, you're so totally wrong. Boys like Mast qualify as charity cases.

    -Ev

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    Quote Originally Posted by venusofwillendorf
    seriously though.... if an undercover copper offers me 500 for sex, and i take it then walk away and not give him any, maybe saying "what money?" when he asks about his payment... can he arrest me for anything?
    Of course they can. Keep in mind that virtually all prostitution arrests happen before the person prostituting ever takes an article of clothing off. Once the solicitation happens and the deal is made, that is all the police need to make the arrest. What, never watch Cops before?

    On a side note though, I did witness a funny solicitation by a customer in a club once. It was about six months ago and I was sitting in a club alone at a table when I over heard the conversation directly behind me. A guy was basically asking this dancer what her price was to sleep with him that night and she kept telling him she wasn't interested. I actually thought the guy was an undercover cop by the way he was handling it. The dancer though did everything right. She was polite to a point then she eventually, but nicely, told the guy to get lost and left. Well, I'm still thinking this guy is a cop. I was wrong. The cop, in fact, was sitting at a table on the other side of this guy, also overhearing the conversation. Right when the dancer got up and left this jerk, the cop stands up and says, "You know, I wasn't planning on making any arrests tonight but JEEZ buddy, I can't let this one go. You're coming with me." and he flashes his badge at the customer and arrests him. How funny is that? You should have seen the look on that dancer's face. It was priceless!

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    Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    You've paid every time; you're just in denial, which is fine I guess.

    No, you're so totally wrong. Boys like Mast qualify as charity cases.
    Touche, pretty lady.

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    my HS English teacher used to ask girls "would you sleep with someone for a dollar?" and they would say no, and then he would ask "would you sleep with someone for a million dollars" and usually they would say yes. "so we have established the fact that you are a prostitute now all we are going is arguing over price." what a good guy.
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    I have been offered from 100-5000.....never have gone home/to hotel/ their car whatever with any customer.
    Wishes I had the "balls" a girl i used to work with does tho....funny story....


    Dancer friend was sitting at the bar on a very slow night, customer starts talking to her about how slow it is and all. After a few mins he asks since it is so slow and she isn't making any money would she be interested in making some? Of course she asks how, and he says well come with me to my hotel and f*** me. She chuckles and he says should I take that as a yes? And asks her how much? She tells him if he was serious 700.00 but she needs half upfront. Guy jumps up and bolts to the ATM takes out the money and tells her to take 400.00 now and the rest after. She takes the cash with a smile ..stands up ... puts it slowly in her g-string looks up at him with these bedroom eyes... leans in to his ear and says all sweet..."did you enjoy it as much as I did?" His face fell and he goes " huh?" She leans in again kisses him on the cheek and says " did ....you... enjoy it? Because you just got f***ed!!!" And walked away!!!!!! I was dying!!!! Funniest thing I ever heard, guy just tucked his tail between his legs and walked out hahahaha.


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    Call it mean, but I have done ^ that! LMAO all the the way to the bank

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    The offer that insulted me the most was when I guy offered to buy me heroin if I went with him. We weren't talkig about drugs or anything, just bam out of the blue.
    Made me really worry about how I looked if he was assuming I was junkie...

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    Alot of guys (even some in the biz) assume we'll ALL put out for junk or blow (no thanks, I'll take the cash)


    Great story about that girl...but I'd worry he comes back to f** her up in a bad way!

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence
    I was wondering if my girlfriend at home counts? She can't work because she's chronically ill. Does that mean she's actually a symptom of the Pimp/Hooker paradigm? I mean, really, put down the broad brush, it's a lousy detailing tool.
    Same here hun1 My hubby is a stay at home Dad who does everything around the house, inside and out. I guess he's my pimp, too.

    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence
    You're singing to the choir. This thread is a time, place and manner discussion. Namely, some guys pick the wrong time and place for their ill manner of asking for services that are not offered there.
    I kinda equal this discussion to this: Going to Wal-Mart, up to jewelry counter and asking for a Harry Winston diamond for $199. Sure Wally World sells diamond jewelry, but not Harry winston and sure the hell not for less than $200!

    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence
    Why is it wrong for a dancer to have a personal comfort zone that does not include sexual penetration? And to choose to work in a place where the business practice is to set grinding as the upper limit? And to think a man who doesn't understand the job description is a lunk head?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    I think 10k was the highest I've ever been offered too... but usually, it's $500. If they're on the small side and work in real estate, I seem to have a better chance at the $100 mark.

    This post cracks me up. What are you trying to say that all people in real estate are cheap or that they have small dicks. Or maybe both.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigoh
    my HS English teacher used to ask girls "would you sleep with someone for a dollar?" and they would say no, and then he would ask "would you sleep with someone for a million dollars" and usually they would say yes. "so we have established the fact that you are a prostitute now all we are going is arguing over price." what a good guy.
    That's actually (I think) a G.B. Shaw joke - but really. What a horribly inappropriate thing to say to teenage girls who are in some way subject to you. There is an English teacher who doesn't value his job.
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    When I first started dancing at this club, this regular (who had been around for a long time and a big big spender) offered me $3,000 for a blow job. It was kind of tempting, but I still said no.

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    I have never offered explicitly, especially in a club. But I have been asked in a club and even given a menu once. It was fun going over the menu and talking about a schedule and other arrangements, but I did not take her up on it. It went up to $500 for an afternoon. Locally the pro POP index is $250-300/hr regardless of what happens, so that was a bargain. Nice tits and all, but she was not trustworthy. I guess I need more than a convenient location.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    i met a guy in mine club, than we set down ,we are waiting for a waitress , he wants buy me a drink ,so he tell me " ok ill buy to you 6 martinies ,and than we will go have sex,ok ?!!!!"

    i told him very seriously - i am not a prostutute( i start feel irritated with that king attitude towards me) in seconds he got up and left .

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    Oh, yeah, this is where we tell all our witty combacks and such.
    OK, my turn.

    I was asked if I was interested in making some.

    All right, wait right here.

    Go back and get pix.

    See pix, see my girls? Already made some.
    You still interested.

    Yup. Works everytime.

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