So I have just discovered this site and I must say this is the best place on the net. See I have always been a fan of naked girls. Some guys sit and watch sports all day, some read the Wall Street Journal till there eyes bleed, but for me the naked female form is just the ticket. I am a decent looking 40 year old who is very happily married to a very liberal wife, who also enjoys going to stripclubs.
We live in a smallish town with topless, no grind, but some touch clubs. We have also been to a great club in Miami FL called Tootsies, that is nude on stage, full grind g-string, and a good amount of touching. Both can be very fun with the right dancers.
After years of going to these and other clubs, I still feel awkward like I just don't know the score and feel like an outsider. I guess I am somewhat shy and too respectful compared to other guys who seem to have a command of the place.
I always considered tipping on stage having a two fold purpose, first to acknowledge something I liked, and second an invitation for more. I am always complimentary, but I typically do not like to ask for dances, I think the dancers should ask me, that is their job after all. Seldom do they seem to take the hint and they head off stage right to the same guy they have been with all night.
Basically I want to be a good customer, someone the dancers feel comfortable with, but I am also willing to spend 100-200 bucks a visit on the dancers who really float my boat.
Alot of times I see the dancers swarming around the guys who I see as obvious assholes, players playing them, punks, etc. I do feel a case of good guy finishes last if that is not too cliche.
When I go alone (with friends but without wife) I seldom seem to be approached for dances despite the fact that I tip on stage, make eye contact when dancers I like walk by. Bad choices on my part maybe. The wedding ring, I don't know.
When my wife and I go together, it is pretty much the same, but I have been told by the occassional dancer who comes over that girls tend to be intimated by good looking wives. She does have fun, and she will tip, so it's not like she is there to henpeck me. She has also started to get lap dances which turns me on to no end.
So bascially I'd be interesting in hearing any comments about the above from customers and dancers. I don't want a girlfriend, or a BJ, just some fun, and energy. I want to be a good customer but not a sucker. Get my drift.



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