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    What makes a good customer

    So I have just discovered this site and I must say this is the best place on the net. See I have always been a fan of naked girls. Some guys sit and watch sports all day, some read the Wall Street Journal till there eyes bleed, but for me the naked female form is just the ticket. I am a decent looking 40 year old who is very happily married to a very liberal wife, who also enjoys going to stripclubs.

    We live in a smallish town with topless, no grind, but some touch clubs. We have also been to a great club in Miami FL called Tootsies, that is nude on stage, full grind g-string, and a good amount of touching. Both can be very fun with the right dancers.

    After years of going to these and other clubs, I still feel awkward like I just don't know the score and feel like an outsider. I guess I am somewhat shy and too respectful compared to other guys who seem to have a command of the place.

    I always considered tipping on stage having a two fold purpose, first to acknowledge something I liked, and second an invitation for more. I am always complimentary, but I typically do not like to ask for dances, I think the dancers should ask me, that is their job after all. Seldom do they seem to take the hint and they head off stage right to the same guy they have been with all night.

    Basically I want to be a good customer, someone the dancers feel comfortable with, but I am also willing to spend 100-200 bucks a visit on the dancers who really float my boat.

    Alot of times I see the dancers swarming around the guys who I see as obvious assholes, players playing them, punks, etc. I do feel a case of good guy finishes last if that is not too cliche.

    When I go alone (with friends but without wife) I seldom seem to be approached for dances despite the fact that I tip on stage, make eye contact when dancers I like walk by. Bad choices on my part maybe. The wedding ring, I don't know.

    When my wife and I go together, it is pretty much the same, but I have been told by the occassional dancer who comes over that girls tend to be intimated by good looking wives. She does have fun, and she will tip, so it's not like she is there to henpeck me. She has also started to get lap dances which turns me on to no end.

    So bascially I'd be interesting in hearing any comments about the above from customers and dancers. I don't want a girlfriend, or a BJ, just some fun, and energy. I want to be a good customer but not a sucker. Get my drift.

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    Default Re: What makes a good customer

    AHHHHHHH, after reading some more posts I am afraid I am a PL. I definitely have a ATF, but I don't consider myself a RIL. I've heard some SS over the years too. Is there a PL Anonymous? Help me.


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    Default Re: What makes a good customer

    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    ...I always considered tipping on stage having a two fold purpose, first to acknowledge something I liked, and second an invitation for more. ...
    Well there are things to consider when tipping the stage....

    1) How crowded is the place? If the it's a friday night and the place is packed, then just being one of many faces along the rail won't really mean you'll stand out or that she'll remember you. Now if it's a Tuesday afternoon and you're the only one at the rail, she's prolly more likely to remember your face. heh

    2) How the club is set up. Keep in mind the while the stage is lit, and you can see her, often times the rest of the club is fairly dark. Again if it's busy there is a possibility you'll just blend in and just be another faces in the crowd.

    3) So how do we as customers help to increase the chances that she'll remember us when she comes off stage?

    - Well one thing customers do is tip extra. If all you're doing is giving $1 tips, that doesn't signal a whole heck of a lot. Sure you may be a better candidate than the guy who's not tipping anything, but she's prolly gonna try to seek out the guys who really show and interest by tipping more than the normal stage tip.

    - Now tipping extra is fine, but some guys make the mistake of tipping a $20, but not saying anything. Not all dancers look at the tips that are given to them. Many think to look at the tip is a little tacky and a little unprofessional, and honestly I can't say that I blame them. So if you don't say anything when you tip her, it's likely the dancer doesn't notice someone gave her a $20 until she's off stage gathering her tips, but by then has no idea who tipped her.

    - So the best way to increase your chances of being noticed is to tip more than $1 and to say something. While tipping saying something as simple as, "Hi ______, do you think you might have a chance to come see me when you're done with your set?" will help her to keep you in mind. (Now if I've done that and she agrees to come over then she goes off and disappears for 30min without ever stopping by or checking in to say when she may be back, I know to find someone else.)

    4) Well now you've tipped the stage, and you've given an invite. Hopefully she's agreed to come see you. So now where are you sitting? Well if you are still sitting at the tip rail when she comes walking around, then you may be off limits for her to approach. In most places it's one of those unwritten rules that dancers really shouldn't pull a customer away from the stage while another dancer is up there. It's viewed as messing with another dancer's money. If you think she's gonna come right over to see you, best to move away from the stage at the end of her set, and sit somewhere where she'll be able to see you, and where she'll be able to approach you. Don't go sit in the dark corner. If she can't spot you right away, she may move on to her next target. (If you are ever at a tip rail, and a dancer pulls you away, be sure to throw a tip to the dancer on stage before you leave.)

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    btw - Wedding ring makes no difference. If married guys stopped going to the SC's the industry would collapse. Heck, in many cases a married guy is a preferred custy to a young single guy, because hopefully the married guy will be less likely to be seeking OTC activities.

    Best of luck!

    Here are a few additional thread you may find of interest.....

    "Club Customer Ettiquette"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=52158

    "Rules for Customers"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=36352

    "First Time"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=50655

    "Help me be a good customer"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=51349
    Last edited by verfolgung; 07-29-2005 at 06:28 AM.
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    Default Re: What makes a good customer

    Great reply thanks! I have learned more about SC's in the 24 hours since I discovered this site than the 15 years I have been going to strip clubs (last few years seriously, with only the last couple years getting LDs).

    When I tip I always try and say something specific I liked, like Nice Boots, or Great Hair, or Nice pole work, whatever, something personal. If I really like I will tip 2 or 3 bucks.

    I did not know about the sitting at the rail thing. Good info.

    I've had girls walk right behind me that I am interested in, and make definite eye contact and smile at them the whole way and they never come over. I don't know why, it is weird. That said, when I do seem to finally make the connection, I have seldom been disappointed, I guess I am kind of picky and maybe that shows. I am sure we are all an open book to the dancers, more so than they are to us.

    This whole concept of "extras" is new to me. I wish the "rules" were plainly established when you entered the club. In the same club some girls do not allow you touch and other girls I have given a 5 minute ass massage to. (Chicks seem to dig the ass massage, I know my wife does.) I always feel so awkward exploring what is allowed and what is not. What I never took into consideration was that certain girls may have different limits than others, and some may take more risks with the club rules than others.

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    Default Re: What makes a good customer

    I read some of the threads you posted, not sure why I did not find those myself, so thanks. I see there are all types out there, on both the dancer and custy side.

    A quick story: I have recently found an ATF at my local club, they used to have a lot of turnover, but seem to be holding on to the girls now. Anyway, the first time she dances for me, I owe her 60 bucks. She tells me to go and sit down and she'll be right over to collect. It is getting late, but I wait for her to come over. Like a half hour later I see her walking though the club, and right by me and goes to do some more dances with some other guys. My ride is leaving, so I go. And yes I felt bad for leaving, really bad.

    Anyway, couple weeks later, I see her again, and I am ready to give her the money, and she makes no mention of it. So, I get some more dances, and tip her generously. Since then, I go maybe once a month and get like 100 or more in dances. When she sees me walk in, it is straight to me bam the money flys out of the wallet. She is awesome so I really don't mind. One time she was kinda pissy with me at the end of the night, so I swore her off, then the next time I saw her, 6 weeks later, she told me they fined her 6 weeks ago and this was her first time back, which explains the pissy part. The last trip was fun, I was drinking too much and had to hang till closing to drink some water and sober up a bit. She comes out of the VIP and sits with me while waiting for a guy to hit the ATM machine to pay her. I thought that was nice of her.

    Bottom line, my wife jokes with me that I am a sucker, it's written on my forehead, but I just like to be a nice guy. Dancers who lift your spirits and sweat a little when they dance deserve every 20 they get from me.

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