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    Default Big Money regulars

    I am just curious if anyone has ever had a big money regular that didn't get weird at some point.

    I have never had a big money customer. One guy did offer to pay for my boob job, but I backed out because he wanted all kinds of personal info on me, so I made up some thing about another guy wrote me a blank check no questions asked, or something to that effect.(I paid for my own surgery).

    I have known dancers who earn anywhere from $1000 and up every month from the same customer. Every girl that I have known to make these kind of earnings from a single customer has ended up with major trouble with the customer resulting in restraining orders and court dates to being as bad as having to move to a different city or state.

    Has anyone ever been able to keep a big money customer with out the drama? Or is that why the money is so good? Just curious.

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    Default Re: Big Money regulars

    I did have one for awhile, and there was no drama, but I couldn't keep it going. He ultimately wanted more. it's not even sex (well, it's sex too), but it seems like they feel like they are entitled to special treatment that only boyfriends get.

    it gets sticky fast. I have a customer now that I could turn into this, but the money runs out fast. I'd rather have a $300/night regular come once a week instead of a guy who pays $5000 for a boob job and thinks he owns me...and then have to cut off forever.

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    Default Re: Big Money regulars

    I think potential earnings from regs varies regionally. I had some heavy spending regs in Puerto Rico with zero bullshit - talking some who spent WELL over $1k/month on me - but they only came in 2-3 times/month and spent high 100s to 1k+ each visit. In AZ I have regs who approach the $1k/month mark, but they come in much more frequently and spend ALOT less per visit than the regs in PR did. In Baltimore I had no regs, because I did not deal with the locals. Same (for the most part) in New Orleans. In other places where I worked consistently, I had regs who approached the $1k mark, but unlike in AZ they came in less frequently but spent more at once.

    From what I've seen over the years, IMO the girls who have REALLY big spending regs, in most cases, are having to expend waaaaay too much effort for the money, in situations that work out such that their ROI is no better than mine, all things considered. I don't play the regular game and never have. The girls who do usually seem to be the ones who are more dependent on regs and tend not to hustle as well otherwise. Therefore, when said regs start demanding more for their money (as they almost always do), the girls often wind up in less than desirable situations due in part to their own actions in trying to keep the $ coming.

    I'll dance for regs as long as it's beneficial for me to do so, not a pain in my ass, and I NEVER bother with the calling and such to keep them coming - if they come back fine, if not fine. I see girls all the time calling, begging custies to come in, and IMO that type of thing changes the dynamic of the custy-dancer relationship from HER having the upper hand to HIM having it - which is the first sign of trouble IMO. The second sign is when a guy spends an inordinate amount of money on one girl - if he's unbalanced/manipulated enough to spend an unusually high amount on a stripper (talking more per month than the typical good-spending reg for the area), he's likely capable of engaging in OTHER types of unstable behaviour, the kind the girls don't want.

    Sooooo, the point, Paris, is I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. If $1k/month is the most you see regs spending without going overboard in one way or another, and that's the most you're getting from your regs, you're probably 1) doing as well as can be expected in your area, and 2) much better off than the girls dealing with psychos.

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    I have one customer who comes in about three or four times a month and gets about one or two hours worth of lapdances. At my club there is no Champagne/VIP room and we can't even get off stage rotation so it's not the best but he usually gives me around 400 every time he comes in. So he isn't a super big spender - BUT he doesn't do ANY bs with me. I mean ZERO. We don't ever sit together in the bar. The first time I met him he tipped me a twenty on stage (he was at a table) I walked up to him, he stood up and we walked to the lapdance room, I mean in silence. He doesn't ask my name, if I have a boyfriend, nothing. And also after he leaves I usually have guys lined up, because they've seen me back there all afternoon and I've got all that money making momentum going. So far it is beautiful. I've had him for three or four months and the only thing I worry about is keeping him.

    And a side note: THANK YOU PARIS SO MUCH for all the great advice/info - good luck this weekend making some decent cash - I was thinking about going up north as well - but maybe no. I'll check out Stars and maybe someday we'll work together at one of them...

    Another side note: I think I'm gonna coin "money making momentum" as a phrase to use for work. Yesterday I sure needed it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday
    I have one customer who comes in about three or four times a month and gets about one or two hours worth of lapdances. At my club there is no Champagne/VIP room and we can't even get off stage rotation so it's not the best but he usually gives me around 400 every time he comes in. So he isn't a super big spender - BUT he doesn't do ANY bs with me. I mean ZERO. We don't ever sit together in the bar. The first time I met him he tipped me a twenty on stage (he was at a table) I walked up to him, he stood up and we walked to the lapdance room, I mean in silence. He doesn't ask my name, if I have a boyfriend, nothing.
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    I have had several big money customers. Even had one that would promote me to other customers so that I would make more money. While I was pregnant with my son I waitressed and worked the door in the club that I used to dance at. One of my regulars while dancing came in one night. He gave me 6 gift cards to use toward the baby. I was able to buy all new furniture, clothing, diapers for 6 months, and all the odd and ends. It really helped me out since he ended up comming early.

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    I have had one. He paid for everything, he was giving me over 2000 g a month. We were friends and we are still friends even though i dont dance now and im married. He is one of the few who had respect for my wishes of nothing more,(he is a old man)
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    I had one guy spend at least 300 dollars once or twice a week. It was great for about month but then he started telling me he wanted to kidnap me. THAT FREAKED ME OUT. He reminded me of someone you would see off of americas most wanted. After he kept saying it over and over I told him I did't like him saying that to me and asked him to stop. He didn't. He also wanted a picture of me and my son. Oh no! Now he crossed the line. I went to another club cuz he was really freakin me out when he said he wanted to kidnap me and MY SON. Never saw him again. Sometimes your better to be safe than sorry.

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    I have one regular now who is a millionaire and his wife is threatening his financial well being if he divorces her. The wealth is from his family, not hers.

    I only go to the club near him once every 4-5 weeks, but he calls and talks to me very briefly every day, except for maybe Sunday. I met him last fall and I think things lasting this long are attributed from me not being a house girl like most big city dancers are. Paris, you know the deal. Plus he does not want problems with his wife yet, and he runs a business and travels a lot, so he cannot always get out. The advantage of working small town bookings is that the customers don't see you that much and you can keep them around longer.

    He spends maybe $500 on me when I'm in town, he sent me money for a Louis Vuitton purse, bought me $860 diamond earrings for Christmas, and two weeks before for my birthday bought me a portable DVD plyer and warranty for $572, and last month sent me $1400 to buy a necklace. Last week he sent me $300 to go shopping. He has sent or given me money towards my motel room several times

    I NEVER ask him for money. I let him offer.

    I don't know the whole motivation with him. He sent his niece $10,000 for a wedding present, so he likes giving.

    He has not pushed out of the club. He lives in a tiny town 50 miles from the town of 25,000 where the club is. He wanted to stop by my room to say hi the other day, but I steered him to a restaurant. I had a beer with him then but have not seen him other than that out of the club.

    Of course at some point my having a fiancee' and his losing interest will come up. All the money I get is in cash.

    Time only tells with these guys. I have saved correspondence from him and when he asked me about the necklace, I wrote him telling him I don't expect any money from him and that anything he spends is his decision and not my pushing him. I kept a copy of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    I am just curious if anyone has ever had a big money regular that didn't get weird at some point.
    awsome post Paris.


    No.It doesnt happen(IMO),ever(IMO),and i have seen alot of reg's over the decades.
    I have never had a big money customer. One guy did offer to pay for my boob job, but I backed out because he wanted all kinds of personal info on me, so I made up some thing about another guy wrote me a blank check no questions asked, or something to that effect.(I paid for my own surgery).
    ehhhhhhh I got a prob with a girl paying for her own BA,but thats just me.

    I am also equally impressed with a woman who pays for her own, oddly enough.
    I have known dancers who earn anywhere from $1000 and up every month from the same customer. Every girl that I have known to make these kind of earnings from a single customer has ended up with major trouble with the customer resulting in restraining orders and court dates to being as bad as having to move to a different city or state.
    lol regs suck,regardless of what anyone here on the web tells ya.
    Bottom line is,its a custie who fell in love and needs to be milked till the teet runs dry.
    The probs girls have is when they let the reg break the fantasy of the club life.
    the moment it goes OUTSIDE the club is when it starts to go bad.
    bet on that!!!!!!!
    Regs fuckin suck unless you keep it in the club,under the rules of the fantasy.
    Has anyone ever been able to keep a big money customer with out the drama? Or is that why the money is so good? Just curious.

    XOXOXXX Paris Love
    A big money spender wants you out of the club.
    If he doesnt,there is never a problem with spending big money IN the club.

    Period.

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    I've had several who never got weird......BUt nothing lasts forever, and SCJ's are no exception. My average stint is 6 months to 1 year. The longest was about 2 years ( i club hop quite a bit!)

    2 have gotten a little nutty on me, but most have either faded out or I left the club.
    I think it all depends on how deep of a web you spin........ If you play major games with a guy sometimes it may end badly.......OR if a guy is fantasizing crazy nonsense about you I'd think he's more likely to go nuts

    But I don't think the time involved or the money spent are necc. indicators of wheter he's nuts or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina
    I've had several who never got weird......BUt nothing lasts forever, and SCJ's are no exception. My average stint is 6 months to 1 year. The longest was about 2 years ( i club hop quite a bit!)

    2 have gotten a little nutty on me, but most have either faded out or I left the club.
    I think it all depends on how deep of a web you spin........ If you play major games with a guy sometimes it may end badly.......OR if a guy is fantasizing crazy nonsense about you I'd think he's more likely to go nuts

    But I don't think the time involved or the money spent are necc. indicators of wheter he's nuts or not.
    gosh i like it when real life shit comes across SW!!!!!!!
    You and paris are so fucking on track!!!!!!!

    I think im getting slightly aroused here!!!!!!!

    This thread is awsome!!!!!!!!!!

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    I love the big money guys as long as their attitude isnt too bigshot esque.
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    I have one reg that I can honestly say has not gone nuts yet. He hasn't shown any signs of nutsiness either. It's been since Oct 2003-- but only time will tell. My guard is still up lol...

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