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    Yes I did it, I finally retired. Hung up the high heels, well at least to work in anyway.

    What a scary experience. I told all my work friends I was leaving and the ones I work with were like.. wha.....? Where are you going, what are you going to do? Poor things, little do they know that unlike them, I planned for this!!

    It was exciting and scary all at the same time. Starting something new and letting go of a lifestyle that I have known and become more than intimate with for , well half of my adult life. Wow, how amazing is that?

    It also revealed to me the small and pettiness of people that can invade the realms of stripperdom - like cockroaches they crawl into the cracks. Making it dirty and seedy - exactly like the propaganda stereotypes it to me.

    Remember that asshole DJ that I was griping about? He had the nerve to follow me out to my car on my last night to see if I was really packing up and leaving. I was simply amazed by the audacity of him and his ego. I guess he has had to deal with so many cracked out women he assumed I was one to. Oh well I am free at LAST!

    I only hope that my women friends that I have made on here and at work will one day achieve the level of success that I have and be able to wean themselves away from the addictive money and style of living that this profession promotes if they so choose to do so.

    Goddess Bless!
    Miss R

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    Hey congratulations to you Crow Best of luck to you in your future plans. Keep us informed though!
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    "No parking on the dance floor" - Midnight Star

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    Good for you Miss R!!!


    And yes, isn't it sad how the outside world views us??? And sad indeed of some within the inside do not realize that preparation for retirment is what you should be doing from day one??? I always gave a piece of good advice to any newbie who asked me for some tips.. always always always first thing out of my mouth, 'Save your money, spend only what you have to and realize this isn't going to last forever"...

    When I retired this final time, I had quite the time myself, and I did end up going back for a very very short time and completely realized that I was truly done...

    As far as the people on the outisde making comments, I have been called into offices, confronted etc about my past occupation, and I have always said the same thing, "can you make (insert amount of money here) in a matter of three months doing this job?' Can you judge me for wanting the best for my kids and getting myself through school? And, last, judge me all you want, keep your opinion to yourself, and if I am not dancing while working here, why does it matter?

    I throw confrontation right back at the person dishing it out... and if it just so happens that it is outside of the "real world" work place, it gets much harsher. I tend to be a pretty straight forward, pretty blunt person when it comes to this topic. I don't think anyone should be judged until the person doing the judging knows first hand on what they are talking about.. I don't go around judging anyone else's profession becuase I don't know the ins and outs, why should stripping be any different.

    Wow.. sorry for the long post.. I really get pissed off when I hear of people being so damn judgmental and uptight and clueless!

    Congrats.. what are you going to be doing now?


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    The girls and I are going to be slinging liquor. Bar-Tending that is. I'm so happy I could split something for wiggling.

    Thanks you guys, will keep everyone updated.

    Miss R

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    Congrats! I've been wanting out for a short while now, and I'm finally starting school in January. I look forward to being a "poor, starving college kid!"
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    Congratulations Crow, wish you the best!!


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    Cheers! Another Success Story!
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    Default Re: Free at last!!!

    Congrats, Crow ! I know the feeling !

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    What now?

    Remember being a dancer is not a bad thing.




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    ^^No not a bad thing of course not some just have other goals in mind. For those who stay in it know they are making a good choice for themselves.


    Congrats girl!!! I wish you the best of luck in your "after life" as a non-dancer. Good luck to you in everything you do!!
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Being a dancer is not a bad thing - if I made it out to sound that way PLEASE do not misunderstand me. I loved my job, I enjoyed most everything about it. My adult education was gotten mostly through dancing, the clubs I worked at and the people I met along the way.

    It is just that at times some of the people that are in it make it dirty and slip it into that niche that society slams it into. Ugh.. I think I'm making sense. Anyway, I'm starting to babble. More later in the saga of the blond and the girls!

    Big kisses.
    Miss R.

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    congrats. Good luck.
    Seems like you've been wanting this for a while.

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