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    im a semi-newbie, i danced private parties before i started at a club about 2-3 weeks ago. my first week i did really great, i was able to get plenty of dances and even a couple champagne rooms (i get 500/hr for it) BUT since the first week i've been doing awful! i feel like i lost my hustle or something. i think i get intimidated by teh other girls that i work with, especially at night because they are all practically pros and i just feel kind of out of place sometimes. its not that i dont think im as attractive as them, they just have the kind of confidence i dont have. i dont know what i can do to change my attitude about work, any advice? i really like this club and id like to do well.

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    talk to as many guys as possible. who cares about the other chicks, they aren't paying your rent. even if you end up doing 50 dances on the floor and no vips, you're still walking out a grand. (assuming your lap dance price is 20 bucks)
    and as i was always told, fake it till you make it.
    pretend you're the top girl at the girl and you will be.

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    Yea some of the other girls you think may be prettier, or make more than you, or are pros...dont think about them. Think about you and your goals. Thinking about "Im poor I need my car payment" or "Damn shes REALLY pretty" youre taking yourself farther away from your financial goal. Its called being side-tracked.
    If you find something unique about you that sets you apart from other girls try that as well.
    In this case you might want to try different hustling styles than just the same one all the time until you find the style that fits you best.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Hang in there girl. There is always that "new girl" that evryone pays attention to at first because you're all innocent and fresh. That of course wears off after the first couple of nights, but soon, you'll develop a better hustle and then you won't make $ cuz you're new; you'll make $ because you're good at what you do. Give it about a month and if you're still struggling, either switch clubs, or maybe dancing is just not worth your time. I think my #1 money-maker is how good I look. I hit the gym every day and always have my nails/toes done, and make sure my hair and make-up is good. Kepp talking to custys and eventually the money will find you. Good luck!

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    Sometimes when I try to make money... I CAN'T! Don't worry about the other girls and just go out and charm the hell out of the customers. My guess is that the first week you didn't expect much. Maybe now you are just trying too hard if you know what I mean?

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    this is all really good advice, i think its just my attitude about the whole thing. another problem i have is, that it is so hard for me to approach customers sometimes. i am actually really comfortable with making conversation and keeping it going, but its just that initial going up to them and saying hello. again, its a confidence thing, i feel like theyd either rather sit with someone else, or they woudlnt be interested in a dance anyway so why bother. i have never been insecure like this in my life!! i am the only asian at my club so i feel that it could work to my advantage but i havnet seen too much of it yet - well there is another girl she is thai, i think thats it though. i guess im just frustrated already. thanks for all your help girls

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    Come on, you're unique!! That alone should give you confidence. You're a saxy weeyotch and just think of manifestation......Think about it for long enough, and you're gonna get whatever you want!!

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