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    Default Are you trying me...?

    Hi everyone...I don't know if you already started a thread similiar to this or not but here i go...... When you are talking to a customer trying to make dance sells or so on and another dancer comes to approach you and sit down with the guy next to you....? trying to do her thing as well..., is she trying me of some sort or is that really how it works in the business.....? Cause i know i don't do shit like that .......!! What's your Opinion..
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    Default Re: Are you trying me...?

    If your new..they are just trying to get under your skin to figure out what your made of or they are trying to run you off..don't let them know it gets on your nerves..try being nicer to the girls.
    If you aren't new they they feel that your ok with this behavor..let them know quickly if you aren't.

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    Default Re: Are you trying me...?

    At my club, most of the girls will only do that if the other girl is a friend. For example, yesterday I was sitting in between two guys, chatting, when one of my good friends came over and said, "Which one of these sexy guys do I get to flirt with?" I pointed at one of them, and focused my attention on the other. If she and i didn't know each other, she probably wouldn't have done that. But every club is different. Maybe that's the norm at your club. I agree, just be nice to the girls and watch and see if they do it to anyone else.

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    Default Re: Are you trying me...?

    Dancers who do that are out of line. It is an unspoken rule not to approach a customer if he has another dancer sitting with him.

    Now if there is more than one guy at a table then the general rule is one dancer per customer. The only exception to this is if the customer requests more than one dancer for himself.

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    SouthernCharm is correct; professional courtesy dictates one pair of tits to each customer unless you have an invite. "Elbowing in" is considered beyond crass. However, if you're new, she might be trying to subtly hint that this is her regular and moving along might be in your best interests. Or, she might have been sitting with him and got up only because she was called to stage/the management needed a word/she had to freshen up really quick before they went to VIP. Just because no one was sitting there at the time you joined him does not necessarily mean he wasn't taken already.

    The best way to handle this (IME, YMMV) is to lean in for a moment and cheerfully say, "Oh, I'm so sorry, I didn't realise I was interrupting you two. Bob, it was lovely to talk to you." Give a quick hug/handshake/whatever and make to leave. If she is butting in without his approval and he indeed prefers you, then he will stop you. If he does not, move on - there was no money there for you anyway.
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

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    Default Re: Are you trying me...?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lilith
    professional courtesy dictates one pair of tits to each customer unless you have an invite.
    LOL!! Perfectly said!
    Eyeliner and charisma go a long way!

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