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    Predominantly White Clubs????

    You gals are really helpful!

    I just wanted to take the time out to thank everyone that is contributing their wisdom to this site. I would like to get into the "business" and had so many questions and no one to go to. I found this site and I know feel more prepared.

    Sorry for the Dorky-ness now here is my question:

    I live in the Massachusetts/New Hampshire Area. I have been wanting to dance for a long time and my husband and I finally are at a point in our relationship where he would be ok with it. I have been on every SC website (that has one) and for the most part these women are blondes with fake breasts. Not dissing white women or fake breasts at all!!! The women are really beautiful. I am 22 years old and am bi-racial. (Mom is white Dad is black. I normally pass for a Spanish person.) My attitude is: "great, I will have something different to bring to the table". My husband said that men like variety and thinks I would do well. But I keep have this nagging feeling like: "They have those girls on the website and working there for a reason." What if their clientle only likes white women with fake breasts?" Am I being unrealistic thinking I could be attractive to a prodominatley white club?

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    i work in a mostly white club with only 1 bi-racial girl on day shift and she makes very good money. variety is the spice of life. as long as the club staff and other girls arent ignorant assholes, you will be fine. standing out can be a very good thing, and even the most white of white guys can prefer women of a different race. also, you may wind up changing the opinions of some people by talking to them, which is always cool. the girl i work with says that she has regulars now who confess to her that they judged her at first and now are much more open because of getting to know her.
    btw... i used www.tuscl.com and the club reviews on this site to search out clubs. tuscl.com is a pay site though.. you have to spend like 5 bucks to be able to read the reviews, but i found it very helpfull. it allowed me to see what clubs guys talk about getting "extras" at and which clubs were known for their poor management.

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    Hi (-:
    I would try it and see! I think you will be fine and have the right attitude! Good luck! (-:

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    Think about a club with 20 girls, where 13 of them all have bleach blond hair and implants. While some girls ARE gorgeous this way, not every girl looks their best this way. The key, I think, is to be the best you you can be. This varies from girl to girl. The most money I made in one day happened on a day when I had brunette hair, brown eyes, small boobs, no make-up, and a mismatched costume. Go figure. I also hadn't washed my hair that day. It's always a gamble. Some days are blond days. Some days are implant days. Some are short girl days. But, there are going to be days that are YOUR days. If you're comfortable with yourself, you'll be fine. All it takes is one person to make your night.
    "Am I being unrealistic thinking I could be attractive to a predominately white club?"
    No! You are attractive.

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    Most clubs worth working in are predominately white. I am black and have danced for a long time.

    Your husband is right about guys liking variety. Have you visited various clubs and noticed the flow and racial mix.

    Most of the clubs I work at are small and I am the only black girl. And in many of them I am one of the top selling dancers. You just have to experiment with different clubs and find your niche.

    I would recommend your taking the Dancer Wealth classes, www.dancerwealth.com, which teach you how to sell and deal with customers, and you'll do just fine.

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    In strip clubs and with women more broadly, different is always good. Don't try to second guess or handicap what clubs might work for you on the basis of what you think their clientle consists of racially (economically, perhaps, but not racially).

    Being that you're in the NH/MA area, you're not going to find any clubs worth a damn in NH. MA clubs have pretty significant contact and distance restrictions that may or may not work for you as a dancer--they certainly don't work for me as a customer. RI has a lot more options, so don't rule it out immediately.

    But so long as you're objectively attractive (beauty is more science than opinion) and with an attitude and personality to boot, don't get hung up on how you think you'll do at white clubs. At my home club--where the clientle is probably 98% white, I have five girls in my regular circle; not one of them looks remotely like another.

    Repeat after me: Different is good.
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    You gals are really great. Thanks for the info and the support.

    Yes, Tina, I have been to clubs but, I haven't really seen a real variety of girls. I have been to clubs where there is nothing but black women and when the bi-racial or white girl got up she got snubbed. And vice-versa with the white clubs. I have already been told I am not white enough for the white crowd and not black enough for the black crowd. But I don't want to be in any "crowd". I just want to be me!!! I am going to go into this with a positive attitude despite what I have been told.

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    Don't listen to what you have been told. A black club is a tough one to work in anyway, and you wouldn't fit in the average black club.

    That is rare to see a black girl go on stage and get snubbed. Most clubs I have experienced will have more white customers than other races, and usually clubs will only hire a few women of color, so some nights you may not see any and others 1 or 2.

    I would choose the best volume clubs in your area, and try to get hired. Wherever you get hired take it from there, and keep us posted.

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    i say go with who you are i have worked in clubs and there has been a variety all men do not like the same thing trust me i danced for 3 years and i saw nights were what would have been considered the homelyest girl in the club make more $$$ than a feature dancer it is all in a guys taste not to mention you are attractive in your own rights and yes your husband is right it is all in a guys taste they like variety good luck

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    The one piece of advice I'd give is this. When you get hired, don't think of yourself as a bi-racial dancer, just think of yourself as a dancer. One thing I've noticed is that a lot of the newer black girls tend not to approach the older white guys, perhaps thinking their prejudiced or don't find them attractive. But the first club I ever worked at, there was this 60 year white guy with a full head of gray hair that came in every week, dressed like he was headed for the country club for golf. His favorite dancer, and the only one he got dances from was this 20 year old little black girl. She made a ton of money on the days he came in. Personally, I think bi-racial girls are hot, and a lot of guys do too.
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    I am bi-racial as well and the only problem I have had is darker girls snubbing me and trying to get between me and my $. I'm not at all trying to perpetuate stereotypes of black women, but many of them feel threatend when a new light-skin girl comes in because they view me as more competition. Most of my clientele are older white gentelmen because they want to try something new. It is difficult fot me to make $ w/ some of the black guys because they may prefer someone a little thicker than I am. Again, I'm not saying this is true for everybody, but in my expirience, the only real problem I have being a bi-racial dancer is competition w/ the other black girls and selling dances to black guys. I absolutely encourage you to go to a club where it is mostly white, because you'll stand out. And from your picture, you're obviously gorgeous, so I think you'll do great. Good luck and keep us posted!

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    I've already commented on this on another thread. http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...5&page=6&pp=15 I'm biracial myself and light-skinned. Black girls can't stand me and I don't care. Black men dont' like me, but that's fine with me. You are your only competition, so dont' worry about them. As I said in my other post, the other black girls are too busy talking about me to get out there and get dances. Or they are making fools out of themselves trying to steal my customers. I'm too busy making money to bother with their BS. At the end of the night while they're gripping about how they didnt' make any money, I'm counting my $$$$$$$$$$.

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    ...I live in the Massachusetts/New Hampshire Area....
    Check out the Clubs & Reviews section of this site to get a general idea of the clubs in the New England Area. Plenty of reviews and plenty of threads on the topic.

    I've been to almost every club in the eastern MA, NH, ME & RI. Most of the clubs in the area have a fair amount of diversity.

    If you have a question on a particular club, feel free to post it and I'll try to do my best to answer for you.

    Well, we already know you are looking for a fairly diverse club. Is there a particular style of dance or club you have an interest in? Are you looking for a topless or all nude venue? Do you mind contact? Feel free to let us know, and some of us from the area can try to point you in the right direction.

    Best of luck!

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    Also, here are some links to the Club Chat section you may find useful:

    "Boston Clubs"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=34841

    "Best Club In Metro Boston"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=41990

    "Visiting Mass"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=41499

    "Massachusetts or Rhode Island"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=47406
    Last edited by verfolgung; 08-08-2005 at 08:14 AM.
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