How many of you are married??? have girlfriends? and if you do, how do they feel about your SC going if you do tell them? just curious
How many of you are married??? have girlfriends? and if you do, how do they feel about your SC going if you do tell them? just curious
Probably should make this into a poll...
I only go to SC's when I DON'T have a GF--when I HAVE a GF she's the one getting all my time/attention/effort.
So far I've never had a GF who wanted to go with me to a SC...![]()
I am married and as long as I'm not an addict, my wife is fine with it...and will periodically go with me.
"The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
-Humphrey Bogart
"Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
-Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
"Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
-His reply
"If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
-David Daye
I happen to be single, but my colleagues go to SCs regardless of whether they are single, attached, married, or even if they are women. It's usually just a fun social thing for us, but some of the guys have wound up dating some of the dancers.
Personally, my ex-gfs have all encouraged me to go to SCs with them when we were going out. Never took them up on their offer tho...
I...date...a couple girls currently, both of whom have been to my home club with me, and I will say right now, they're the ones that need to be restrained in the club, not me. It's amazing I haven't been thrown out yet.
Good times, people, very good times.
PS - I wouldn't bother with a woman that didn't like strippers at least half as much as I do.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
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I am very happily married and my wife is fine with me going to SC's and quite enjoys going with me when we have a sitter for the kids. She has even recently gotten into getting LDs. Now that said, I only go to SCs about monthly, I do not spend more than 200 on dances and drinks. I also have no other vices, don't gamble, don't watch sports, don't drink too much, etc. I like to look at naked chicks, plain and simple.





Single, in that I don't have a regular gf, but, (ahem), am a bit more than friends with a couple of girls I know.
I don't tell my more conventional friends that I sometimes go to strip venues - it's my little secret. I'm a friend of several dancers: they do know I go to strip venues - not least because they've invited me to meet them there towards the end of their shift and give them a lift home.
Phil.
God, isn't that the truth?Originally Posted by Casual Observer
I think your current gf's might like them about twice as much as you do, don't you think?![]()
I've gone to them regardless of relationship status. My fiance was curious what a strip club was really like, so I took her and she had a great time. We've only been once, and that was the only time I've been in the last 10 months or so, but she knows what goes on there and is totally comfortable with it.





Currently unmarried and available.
If I ever get attached to a gal, I'm sure my SC'ing days (sans a friend's bachelor party, or the two of us making an occasional trip together) are pretty much history. There's simply not enough money or time to handle a relationship and keep the hobby, particularly once you start getting children involved.
Needless to say, I would certainly hope my SO would do her best to quell any urges I might have by doing a little lap dancing for me at home.
I shall enjoy the fruits of being uncommitted in the meantime.
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Former SCJ now in rehab.
I'm also happily married. While my wife does not appreciate me going to strip clubs, she trusts me not to do anything stupid. I make sure that I never betray that trust.
I just wish that girls would lay off the perfume and glittery lotions. It really aggravates her when I come home reeking and sparkly.
Of course, with so much going on in my life right now, I don't often have the time to go. I'm down to about twice a year and only spending up to $500 per visit.![]()
-=# Archangel
"Who is to say what is a sin in God's eyes?" (Pearl from The Scarlet Letter)
"Every man dies; not every man really lives." (William Wallace from Braveheart)
Oh, and I do usually go with other married guys. Well, most of them are married, anyway. A couple of the single ones are dating girls from the clubs.
-=# Archangel
"Who is to say what is a sin in God's eyes?" (Pearl from The Scarlet Letter)
"Every man dies; not every man really lives." (William Wallace from Braveheart)
I have been advising younger single guys I know: "If you can find a girl that will go to the SC with you on the second date, marry her. "
^ Any advice that ends in, "Marry her" is immediately suspect.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.
If you are inclined to get married why not flush out the conservative hen pecking overbearing bitches first. If you like going to the SC before you get married, why not after. I know too many hen pecked guys who are repressed cause they would have to lie to look at another woman. Shit, my wife smacks me on the arm to point out hotties at the mall or beach. I won the wife lottery, everyone else should too.
i'm completely single.
i go to the sc too avoid getting married and the dangers of dating. but still allows me to learn enough about the beast in order to tame one for myself eventually.
I am divorced part of the reason was my ex wasn't cool with me going even though I never cheated on her... Just going to a stripclub and LOOKING was cheating in her eyes. I now find comfort zones with low expectations in SC's and have developed many usually "platonic friendships" with dancers OTC. It's kinda a limbo stage in life where I don't have to risk too much emotional attatchment, although I have fell for a few, I usually know now there is often too much drama for me to deal with upfront before any substantial feelings develop.
I on the other hand am the married wife who enjoys going to sc's
He does not care for them too much. he says its a waste of his money and just a cock tease!
I disagree I enjoy going to see women![]()


Former wife objected,strongly, to my going to SC's. She regarded it as cheating with prostitutes and told all of our friends that she had to divorce me because of it. None of this is or was true. In the past 10 years every girlfriend has had a mild to strong objection to my visiting a club. I go to clubs only when I am not in a relationship or the relationship is going sour. Sadly, I find myself with women who don't understand that.
Wow, superdude your situation sounds almost identical to mine... "Stripper Dating" from my experiences can either be extremely low maintenance casual no-strings attatched or ultra high maintenance with lots of heartbreak. I have experienced both and the older I get, my expectations unfortunately gravitate towards the short-term low maintenance type. What I have learned is many dancers are casual "serial daters" and attempting to cultivate anything serious usually ends in heartbreak. However, I do have a few long term "friends" who are now ex-dancers and these friendships do mean a lot to me...Originally Posted by SuperDude
I'm dating a very nice young lady that is a accountant for the government here in Kansas City. She doesn't mind that I go to strip clubs, just as I don't mind if she goes to see whatever male revue is in town. I trust her, she trusts me.....case closed!
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there should always be trust in a relationship i have no problem with my husband going to a stripclub i used to dance so i know everything about them most women are so hung up on the fact its a nude women when in all actuality your significant other is the one whos gonna reap the benefits of you being turned on and yes there are a lot of happily married men who do come in a strip club i would much rather my husband go to a strip club than a bar if he goes i wanna go to and he doesnt mind becausehe gets a better view
Single currently, but even when I am with someone it is usually either someone else in and or around the business, or someone comfortable enough with the business that they have no problem with going by the SC on occassion. I do try when dating to keep the SC thing down to a dull roar.
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Single. Rarely go to SC's, but when I do (2-3 times/year), it's for an "event"; i.e. bucks night, etc... I tell the GF and we usually have a laugh before and after...
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