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    OK, I am not being rude asking this...I just really am clueless. Could someone tell me what to do when lapdancing for a large or obese man? Obviously we cannot grind on their lap because of the belly so what to do?
    Again, please don't take this the wrong way because I am in no way trying to be mean or funny. This issue really comes up alot in my club.
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    On the plus size its easier to brush against them..... I loved larger custys because they always seemed to appericate the little things like a good smile , my hair brushing against them and playing with the hair.....

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    I'd rather have the bigger guys..more offten than not they are very nice and ver willing to spend lots of money for hardly anything.They really do appericate the smaller things like smiles,air kisses,little rubs here and there..odds are you wouldn't have to grind at all.

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    I don't really like dancing for the "fluffy" men. Yes they are easier b/c they do seem to appreciate the little things, but i get bored and when dancing i like to be able to move around. I have to be able to have one leg get up on the chair with the guy. If he doesnt' fit...i tend to give a crappy dance b/c i'm limited to what i can do.
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    I have a regular who is rather large. I agree with the other ladies, they do appricate the little things. Try and kneel in front of them, looking up and making good eye contact. You can put one leg on the couch and one in between his legs, you can rub on his leg that way. You can still "grind" them, even if your on a lil bit of the belly. Its the contact that matters imho. Most of the bigger guys are really nice. And its a good question!
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    I hug them because they seem to made specifically for hugging. They probably have heard a billion times that they are big teddy bears, but I tell them again and again anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuliaChild
    I hug them because they seem to made specifically for hugging. They probably have heard a billion times that they are big teddy bears, but I tell them again and again anyway.
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    They do like hugging for some reason. o_o And one guy spent an entire dance just slowly getting me nekkid, appreciating looking at my body and so forth.

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    hello ...havent been here in a while...but i have to agree with everybody too...I like dancing for the large men ..they have always been real nice to me ...and it is easy for me to dance for them even though I may be limted in the moves i could do...but dancing is a form of suduction and suduction can be done by the way you look at someone the way you touch someone stroking your hands threw their hair ..anyways you get the picture

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    i would prefer a rather large man over a rather small one, you don't have to worry about a place to sit! i danced once for this tiny vietnamese guy (weighed probably 95lbs) and i couldn't even FIND him on the couch.

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    Thanks for all the replies ladies!

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    Okay Im weird, I hate dancing for the "Whales". My legs end up tired and I am tired at the end of the dance. How would anyone find their "dick" (sorry to be so blunt) to do a lap dance?

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    I just rub my breasts over the general idea of where their thing is. I'm not a grinder so it doesn't bother me any. I just rub the whole body. o.o;

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    Quote Originally Posted by hannah83
    I don't really like dancing for the "fluffy" men.
    ROFLMAO.... I LOVE the term "fluffy".... THAT's funny

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    "Fluffy" - Yeah, I'd say that's politically correct!
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    i don't like dancing for them becuse larger people have and oder i don't mean to mean or imply there not clean its just true. And i if there is no way i could possiable fantum ever fucking you it makes it harder to dance. I am not attracted to most of custmers but it i don't even feel its physical possiable with you its harder to do a good dance.

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    I guess I'm lucky with larger custy's.... I had a great one tonight I just sat on his lap and rubbed his shoulders.... he went nuts for it! I think some girls avoid them, but it's just more money for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99
    i don't like dancing for them becuse larger people have and oder i don't mean to mean or imply there not clean its just true. And i if there is no way i could possiable fantum ever fucking you it makes it harder to dance. I am not attracted to most of custmers but it i don't even feel its physical possiable with you its harder to do a good dance.
    Tell them to take a shower. Being a big guy dosn't make you smell, not showering makes you smell bad.

    I'm "fluffy" as can be and I've had way more than my fair share of lap dances, and I don't think a dancer has ever had any trouble giving me a dance.

    I guess you have to realllllly big to get to a point where you lose your lap, and you're not able to find your dick.

    Hey, I'm a big guy and I think girls would rather give me a dance then some other guys, but hey maybe it's because I'm really attractive or something so it's diffrent



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    ^ Lol, you are about a cutie-pie thought. BTW the blonde is hot!


    As for the Q; I always make the scooch down on the couch till they are almost laying down, them I do a slightly modified dance. Modified meaning, I'm kinda short from hip to knee so I do more of standing up grind, rather than a full out straddle.
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    Answer: Recruit 2 other dancers to hold up the fat rolls. Three if he is really big.
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    i am sorry vette i did not mean to offend you but you were not that kind of guy i was thinking of when i said that i was more thinking about an old old fat guy i have had to that before and it was no fun. You are cute and i am sure the girls dig you and you don't smell. agine i am sorry. (please no old old fat guys post pics to make me feel more bad then i do lol lol )

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    Talk and dance for them like they are your best bud. Some over weight people have self esteem issues (not all of course) . Smile, eye contact, and a fun easy going personalty is the key . I always did shoulder rubs during dances and caressed their face since sitting on their lap was difficult. Hugs and nose kisses are also a charm.

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    I just lean back on them and grind. I do with them what I normally do, but just act like I don't see their size. they appreciate it. My legs hurt the day after, but my purse feels good as hell.
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    I'm in a very foul mood today but this tread has cheered me up. I'm a big guy and I have had a lot of lap dances and this tread has made me remember the great times. I can see where dancers have to change their routine for us but you should not look at us as any different. Like a best bud or whatever. To us you represent the "hot chic we never got". Or that girl in high school we never asked out. The little things are what I look for and when I find them the money flows! The dancers that like dancing for big guys, thank you your the best, the others don't know what their missing. I would think a night of dancing for pleasant fat guys would be far better than skinny assholes.


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    Im not a 'fluffy' guy, but it is really nice to hear ya'll say how much you appreciate your customers being kind. I think it is nice that you notice they appreciate the other ways you give them attention. to be honest, I am not as much into strip clubs because I am into all the subtle forms of attention as much as your curves but the dancer has no way of knowing that whispering in my ear and looking me in the eye can be more erotic than the contact (not saying I dont like that too!)

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