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    all right, i'm not trying to offend anyone, but i want to be a dancer and i need to know. i've never danced for anyone but my bf before and i've never been in a sc. but when i give my bf a lap dance, i get excited- i get wet and can even cum. *(~blushes~)* maybe this won't happen with custies, but it seems to be an automatic physical response. is this unprofessional? what do y'all think- when you're getting a lapdance, if the dancer needs a cork, is it repulsive? do you not care? does it enhance the experience for any of you? if it is definately a no no, i'll have to practice thinking about baseball i guess or a bikini wax- ouch! i'm sorry if i'm shocking any of y'all or mentioning the unmentionable...
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    I'm not a dancer yet, but I'd imagine coming home with pussy fluid on his pants might cause a problem for at least one married or partnered customer! If you're not dancing nude it probably wouldn't be an issue and I think you have to keep your panties on for lap dances in most areas. I think the customers would love the fact that you're genuinely turned on, as long as you aren't creating "evidence" that can get them in trouble at home.

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    I don't have a problem with it. You might find that it brings you more business. It would make me feel better and happier if the dancer got something out of it as well. But I like pleasing other people, so...
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    I think about my physics homework while I dance and that never gets me excited.... maybe if it did I'd make more money!

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    I wouldn't have a problem with it, but I don't think any dancer has ever gotten off from sitting on my fat lap.

    That said, don't worry about the snail trails or wet spots; my dry cleaner thanks you for your service.

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    While it would be a big turn on for me, I seriously doubt this would ever happen in a club setting, maybe the first couple of LDs you give, but most girls I get LDs from seem a little bored with the whole thing, gee another guy, another 20 bucks, another day at work. It is work after all. I'd love to be proven wrong, but I am guessing if a dancer actually got excited dancing for me, or anyone else, that would be an extremely rare occurrance.

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    This ALWAYS happens to me. *sigh*

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    Wait a minute...I thought this whole lap-dance thing was a FANTASY....as in fake! Why would you get excited? Hhhmmmmmmm?
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    I doubt this'll be much of a problem for you in the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by infra-red
    Wait a minute...I thought this whole lap-dance thing was a FANTASY....as in fake! Why would you get excited? Hhhmmmmmmm?
    She's not a dancer yet, and talking about getting excited while dancing for her bf


    But but BUT. Let me just be honest here, sometimes I get turned on during dances, and on RARE occasions came on his leg. I know some girls who get turned on sometimes too. Some of us just enjoy it more I guess It definitely helps my money - guys luuuuuuuv the idea of a stripper getting so hot and bothered during a regular lapdance she cums on his leg. I'm sure they'd like it more if I came on their dicks but ehhh, I don't grind that much THAT way - it can be a fucken hot dance without all that...
    I can't imagine being so robotic with laps that I NEVER got turned on by it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    I can't imagine being so robotic with laps that I NEVER got turned on by it
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    Quote Originally Posted by venusofwillendorf
    I'm sorry if i'm shocking any of y'all or mentioning the unmentionable...
    I doubt you're mentioning the unmentionable - look at how quickly you're getting responses from half the guy's who post on the pink side.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    guys luuuuuuuv the idea of a stripper getting so hot and bothered during a regular lapdance she cums on his leg.
    Yep, the classic male fantasy is the dancer getting really turned on by what she's doing. Very good for the ego if you think it's happening.

    Does it happen? Depends on how exhibishionistic a dancer is. With most dancers it's a job and they get on with it. With some dancers there's also a fair degree of personal pleasure involved. If a customer reacts to them, they make their pleasure in his reaction fairly evident.

    Will it happen to you at work? I guess that depends on how attractive you find your customer. Most will be older, not necessarily in good physical shape, and not always well behaved. You're phyically attracted to your bf - you might not be physically attracted to many of your customers.

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    Default Re: question for the custies- dancers getting excited?

    It's happened to me a few times but it certainly the exception not the rule. Definitely never with a first time experience, only with regulars. I'm sure your BF loves you "practicing" on him and, if I where him I'd be a little bummed if you WHEREN'T getting worked up....But customers are different. After you dance for your first few A-holes you'll have no trouble figuring out ways to avoid thinking about the lap you are grinding on when necessary.
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    I think my timing must have been right with a recent beautiful dancer I have known for a while, but never had any OTC time with her... Went back for a 1/2 hour VIP with lick and stick. She was very wet, so much so that it somewhat prevented a happy ending for me, but nonetheless a very enjoyable and somewhat concealed (from others) experience as we weren't alone in the VIP. First time this has ever happened to me inside a SC, but I think it was more of being at the right place and time than anything else.

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    I have had a couple of dancers who either reeeeeeeally faked it all very well, or who genuinely got turned on during the dance. Faking it or not, it was a beautiful experience. The mere thought of being able to be a part of that was tremendous.
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    i'm definately attracted to my bf...... but more than that, it seems to be an automatic physical reaction. maybe my anatomy is just configured in the right way, so that when i grind it hits the right spots?
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    Me too, Venus. If I'm in just the right position when I'm grinding, it hits me THERE!!! Sometimes I ride with it (pun intended)...sometimes I back off.....depends on my mood and who the custy is.

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    glad to see i'm not alone!
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    Don't worry sweets. You'll get over the excitement REALLY quickly.

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    Default Re: question for the custies- dancers getting excited?

    It is surely not an everyday thing, but it can happen. Probably some affection is needed, but it needn't interfere with your BF relationship. It probably won't happen if you hate your job either.

    I've had several dancers (I recall 5) who got excited enough to climax. Not that they said so or made the standard noises; it's just that I could tell by their reactions, not their voices (they were very quiet then and held on tightly), but I can hear their breathing and feel their temporary perspiration. Two were regular favorites of mine, and I theirs. One would sometimes whisper in my ear, "Oh god, I'm doing it again." And they climaxed every time, sometimes multiple times. If we didn't have some sort of affection for each other, not GF/BF or even OTC, I'm sure this would not have happened. Each has said that to me without my asking. No rules were ever broken, just the allowed hard contact. I paid regular LD rates with occasional minor tipping, like for one additional dance. They could count on my being a regular so no complaints ever. I love knowing how to do this, and it keeps me happy for days afterwards. Just remembered, 3 out of 5 were nude dances. This, even though it is not exciting enough for me to climax then. Not being married, I didn't mind the 'evidence', as it washes out easily.

    One of my first posts on SCJ I believe is about this. Some there didn't believe it, and that doesn't matter to me. I was there, and it was a wonderful feeling. And I got very nice hugs afterwards and lots of attention when I returned.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    I was there, and it was a wonderful feeling. And I got very nice hugs afterwards and lots of attention when I returned.
    You have to love them for the spontaneous affection on the other side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Don't worry sweets. You'll get over the excitement REALLY quickly.
    I have to agree here. I've seen quite a few girls honestly get excited (juices flowing, not Meg Ryan style). ALL were newbies.

    It's like any other job. No matter how much you love what you are doing in the beginning, you will eventually detest it if you do it for long enough.
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    Oh, and to answer the original question...

    Yes, it's most definately a turn-on.
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    i hear that, archangel.... i've done shoots for websites, and then shots of my face during genuine orgasms are really popular..... but even though i can almost always cum easily when i decide to, after 6 hours of holding the most absurd positions long enough for the digital camera to complete the shot, whith a headache and a tired photographer, and lights in my face, and having to fix my freaking makeup every five minutes, etc. etc., i'm thinking "but i don't want an orgasm... i want a nap!"
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    I know it hasn't happened often with me, though I try to "induce" it by using eye contact, soft caressing (as long as I'm respectful, I've found I can go pretty far, and the clubs I go to are pretty liberal) and compliments.

    Now, it's only happened to me once that I know for sure. After grinding me, she told me she was horny and started flipping her head back. I thought, "good acting." She didn't wet my leg, but when she flashed me, there was no doubt she was turned on.

    I have had other experiences where some dancers didn't want to leave, and two cases where the same dancer came back repeatedly after the first dance to ask for more.

    I'd like to think there was something about me they couldn't resist ;-) (Hey, it's all fantasy, right?)

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