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    Im not from the US, but I danced in Japan 1st time..i got into a argument 1 night with another girl over a customer and she retorted back "well ar least im not short, fat and stumpy looking"...ive always been told by guys i have a nice body but maybe im not what a dancer should be? im about 5'3, i wear high heels and i think im cute but this girl knocked my confidence a bit considering i was just starting out. The japanese guys liked me but in Japan they like that that waif look and som of the customers told me i was a good size but i had big arms, legs, butt etc..

    I dont know if im ok the way i am, maybe not as a dancer or if there are all sizes and shaps out there that can dance?

    Here are a few photos of m thru webcam..please honest opinons because i dont want to look like a short ass with big legs and little breasts that doesnt fit in a strip club..but i really wanna dance because i feel sexy when im doing it.

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    I think you look fine. Honestly, EVERYONE who vaules their income as a dancer should workout and eat right. Everyone should workout at least 3 times a week minimum just to mantain. There will be night where you are going to eat crap fast food on the way home and go to bed. At least working out would counter act that some.

    I have small breasts too. Guys LOVE boobies as long as they dont sag or are funny lookin. I dont know if youve been to your local SC...but take a look at those girls bodies not everyone is hot or is a supermodel barbie type. There are all shapes and sizes.

    Side note: dancing is more than feeling sexy and confidence...its also a BIG part selling techniques.
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    You look good to me! Definately a lot better than so many girls I have seen. Did you tell the girl that at least you don't look like a crackhead?

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    LOL^^ yea you look healthy waaaay away from crackhead status.
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    Go for it! I like that I see!
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    Based upon my extensive knowledge and field testing. I would say its more of dancing than actual looks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tenshigirl25
    ..but i really wanna dance because i feel sexy when im doing it...
    That's really all you need to know.
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    You look good to me. I would much rather take little boobs over some rock hard fake boobs. I think little boobs are cute.

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    You look fine for dancing honey. If your not in the ideal shape you want right now trust me you can dance you way to it (balanced with a healthy diet and out of work exersice). And OMG you will have muscles hurting and toning that you didn't even know exsisted!

    But all else go out there... Have fun... Feel sexy because you are a woman and you are sexy. Knock them dead! Then tell us all about it in the morning!

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    I particularly like the 1st pic, cute butt!

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    You're hot... Do it!

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    You look toned and healthy to me, sexy thang!
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    i don't see where u would be turned down anywhere. from what i can tell you have a perfect body for being a dancer.
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    You look great! Don't let someone else knock your confidence. So many people have insecurities which make them try to belittle people, so I don't listen to negative critisizism unless it's from people I trust.

    As long as you feel sexy and confident, you'll portray that confidence.

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    dancers come in all shapes and sizes and everyone is beutifull in their own way, youd be suprised to know that most men dont go for the steriotypical blonde tall fake tit girl, i worked at a club where the mousy red headed small breasted girl made a killing. everyone has a little special quality that attracts people to them just falunt yours.

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    you look great go for it

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    Variety is the spice of life. Ypu have the figure and the self-motivation to do it. Go for it. Don't let one jealous angry bia determine your profession.
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    Honestly you don't look anything like what the girl said. Some dancers get very posessive over their costumers.(We just had a dancer corner a girl in our locker room the other night and threaten her b/c the girl was making money off of the other girls reagulars.) A lot of the time if the girl is new it scares them away which is probably what this girl is trying to do.
    Also if your comfortable with your body then thats all that matters...You'll build off your confidence and the longer your on the stage the more confident of your body and surroundings you'll get!

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    Come o dirty SOUTH, we love thik legs
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    If you want to dance, just do it. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks!

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    Top end clubs, no.

    But your body is good enough for most clubs. Seeing your face would help, that's a large part of it too.

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    I'm short and a pudding but I make money. Oh no, I'm not a pudding. Sorry.
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    My rule is this : if guys believe you are hot enough to want to get you into their bed, you'll do well.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    tenshigirl25

    You look great...

    Not all men want the DD there are quite a few that like the "small and perkies".

    Variety is the spice of life and if we were all DD then it would be more like cookie cutter gingerbread men and no one would "stand out".

    My favorite dancers to watch were 100% natural and small breasted. They had the charisma the smile to either die for or knock you flat on yer arse!! They also had the presence and attitude that gave them the latitude to gain tips on the main stage as well as a steady stream wanting more private attention behind the big black door.

    One of the dancers I'm thinking of had lips that make Angelina Jolie's look ordinary!! She definitely used her lips as much as her hips to seduce the patrons, and like a snake charmer she drew the money out of their pockets like a real Deliliah in a room full of Samsons!!

    I think most would agree that you also do not want to see that a woman has had her boobs done. I've seen some really bad boob jobs and you can see the implants crease and fold under the skin. That is nasty to look at and no matter how "great" the rest of her is...the only thing that gets noticed is her implants.

    Anyway....
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    thanks for the comments, i feel better now that its more about sex appeal. i just dont know why some girls hate me and have to tell me im ugly or fat when something doesnt go right or this or that. im not ugly, i know im not but i guess it still hurts when u hear something like that. i kept thinking well if it wasnt true then why would someone say it?

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