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    Default New: Breaking the ice

    I have been sheltered most of my life and are very anti-social and shy, how do i break the ice and continue to keep their interest in a convo ( i understand that most girls are upfront and ask if they want to dance,, i want them to know that i'm interested in them not their money -- make them feel speshul).

    I would like to go about it without having 2 drinks

    I've already read the faq site about stripping and the faq's here just would like to hear your input and experiences if that's ok.

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    oh i'd also like to ask, when people ask me what am i doing in WV all the way from Australia i'd prefer not to mention that i' decided to come here because i met him over the internet lol -- is there a way around it or a lie :/

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    Default Re: New: Breaking the ice

    Say whatever you want--you came over for school, you have family there, you have a girlfriend there, whatever.

    As far as breaking the ice, it is something you will get used to. Read some of the threads in the Hustle Hut about how to initiate and hold conversations with customers. Think of what you'd ask a friend of a friend about at a party. You may not be by nature a social person, but there are plenty of us dancing who are introverts by nature--we just act socially when at work because that's part of a job. Think of it this way; you don't have to be good at math to be a cashier at a store, you just have to know the basics. It's the same way at work. You don't have to be a brilliant extrovert to talk to guys; you just have to have a few basics of conversation down.

    Also, some guys just won't talk much. Don't take it personally.

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    You should have guys drooling all over your Aussie accent! If you don't have one, get one! Then just go on about kangaroos and wallabies and koala and such if you run out of things to say.

    It'll work both ways--he'll ask you about Australia and you ask him to tell you all about the US of A--even after you've been here 10 years and know more about it than he does!

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    Default Re: New: Breaking the ice

    Once you've worked for a while, you develop a script. You change it and tweak it until it's perfect, interesting, clever, insightful, sexy, cute, and/or special. Then, you have it over and over again.
    I left my home and moved to Texas. Forget my real reasons, though they are as random as the excuses I give...
    I was bored. I was cold. I got on 35S and kept driving. I heard you guys where the only ones in the country who like pretty girls. The economy is better. I was heading to Mexico when the charges got dropped. I really, really wanted to live in 'Bush country.'
    Here's your chance to have fun, stretch the truth a little, entertain yourself and others, be creative, and turn into whatever you want for a night.
    I love my job!

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    Default Re: New: Breaking the ice

    It's really exciting, i guess when i socialize i should stay off the topic of being prepared for a thousand army zombie attack haha...thanks you guys are awesome, i've been going through threads and sha'll continue.

    I just find it very hard to communicate i guess i'll just look about the room and find anything to blabber on about or ask some non personal question about them.

    Pet-Rock -
    I went down to the SC with my friend who works there, they were having a special night for the strippers and they brought some male strippers for there entertainment.
    Everyone just kept on asking me to talk -- since they loved hearing my accent, i hope i'll have the same reaction with customers.
    The manager took advantage of the situation and asked me to strip there -- she thinks it'll be excellent.

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