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    Angry Custies playing mind games

    What's up with that?

    I've had a custie who motion me towards them, act very rude and dismissive once I've sat down with me, and motion another girl to approach them while I'm still there

    Also what about the loudmouth custie last night, who boasted that he made half a mill a year and then wanted a $20 floor dance and was gropy as hell and rude?

    Just feel like kvetching today..

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    They're pricks. If you buy into what they're selling, you let them win. Move on and be happier somewhere else.


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    i get some customers wasting my time and telling all kinda lies just for fun and stage names and goofing off. I have no time for that.

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    I had one guy tell me he was a plastic surgeon.. Okay so you dress like a slob in wal-mart clothes and your shoes come from pay-less and your a PS Doctor? Right.. But okay, so guys like to dress down. I sat for a minute and smiled and nodded.. then the "doctor" says to me, .. ( and I swear he said this, right to my face.) I can make you a virgin again.


    I'm not kidding, he said that.. So I politely asked him to tell me exactly how that worked. he hemmed and hawed and gave me some weird ass story that made me just go.. Unnh. Then I called him on it and told him that if he was a doctor, I was the virgin mother come straight down from heaven. It was amusing.

    Even his friend outed him and said don't believe him, he's really not a doctor. I smiled and went.. "No, really?" Goodness. How dumb do these guys think we are?

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    Many custies pull this sh*t all the time. The SC is the only place where a pretty girl will give a jerk with a crapmouth a few minutes before she figures out what he's up to. On the outside, no pretty woman would look his way & he couldn't get away with the verbal abuse anyway.
    You can observe his facial expression and demeanor to figure out whether he's just there for an ego trip.
    Oh, strippers should all write at least one psychology dissertation or thesis apiece- we could illuminate the world, albeit not with info that would flatter mankind.

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    No shit - and then they wonder why at times we have bad aittudes. Well DUH?

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    LOL.. i actually had a guy come in and tell me he was a pitcher for a MLB team.

    and he was mid forties, and had a huge beer gut.
    riiiiiiiiiight.

    The thing is, he was serious as hell. I laughed out loud when he told me what his "occupation" was, and he acted appalled that I wasn't taking him seriously.

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    Oh, oh! i remember another good one... a guy who claimed to be a gyno. I then quizzed him on where he went to med school, where he did his residency, etc - and he was stumped.

    He couldn't name the hormone that is detected by pregnancy tests when a woman is prego (human chorionic gonadotropin.. and I was only a bio major for a semester, lol) so I called him out.

    Its sad that some people have to fabricate stories because they are so unhappy with their lives. But then again, maybe its just a fantasy for some of the custies...

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    They think we're idiots and they need to boost their pathetic egos.

    One of the benefits of being a smarter dancer is that you can fuck with them right back. If the club's slow and there was nothing else going on, I used to do it all the time.
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

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    A lot of these guys are chauvinstic, and think dancers are whores. These guys go to clubs and massage parlors, treating the girls like playthings. And their women and daughters better not think about working there.

    They just have no respect for the industry and see us as servants to them as opposed to their equals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer
    LOL.. i actually had a guy come in and tell me he was a pitcher for a MLB team.

    and he was mid forties, and had a huge beer gut.
    riiiiiiiiiight.
    Well yeah, that was Red Sox pitcher David Wells. Boomer doesn't exactly look the part.

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    a hideous and repulsive guy who looked like his face had been squashed by an 18 wheeler told me last week his "co** is as big as your arm" and he had dildos molded after it. ewwwwwww
    i guess you "had to be there"

    another guy claimed he invented the fax machine.

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    when there are random ones here and there all night it's one thing, but some nights (last night for me) the place is crawling with them! something about those $2drink tuesdays...

    lol sthnrngrl77 ha thats funny! the fax machine...
    Oh, I musta took a wrong turn at Albuquerque.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SthnrnGrl77

    another guy claimed he invented the fax machine.
    I often claim to dancers that I invented linoleum. THAT makes 'em all swoon for me.

    "You invented linoleum? Why.. my kitchen floor is MADE with linoleum, and I walk on it All The Time! Lets give you a free lap dance".


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    Quote Originally Posted by luvbuniz
    What's up with that?

    I've had a custie who motion me towards them, act very rude and dismissive once I've sat down with me, and motion another girl to approach them while I'm still there
    Two possibilities, 1, he's such an asshole that he's not even aware of what he's doing (drunk, stupid, etc.) or 2, he's such an asshole that he's purposefully trying to be as big an asshole as possible...

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    Funny, I tell dancers my real name, where I really work, what I really do, that I am really married, and you know what, I bet it comes across as BS. The envrionment just seems to foster cynicism.

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    I don't tell dancer's shit.

    Oh Aqua Teen Hunger Force is on... gotta go!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    Two possibilities, 1, he's such an asshole that he's not even aware of what he's doing (drunk, stupid, etc.) or 2, he's such an asshole that he's purposefully trying to be as big an asshole as possible...
    Definately #2. It was early and he tried the same schtick with 2 other girls after me and then he was left well alone after word spread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer
    Oh, oh! i remember another good one... a guy who claimed to be a gyno. I then quizzed him on where he went to med school, where he did his residency, etc - and he was stumped.

    He couldn't name the hormone that is detected by pregnancy tests when a woman is prego (human chorionic gonadotropin.. and I was only a bio major for a semester, lol) so I called him out.

    Its sad that some people have to fabricate stories because they are so unhappy with their lives. But then again, maybe its just a fantasy for some of the custies...

    LMFAO BELLE, I KNOW WHO YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT!!! I called him on his BS too. He is the same dude that will sit there all night and nurse his cheap beer while getting a free look at the dancers and not buying a single dance.

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    LMAO - yea, elle.. that one is a real winner.

    Do you know about "Dr. Tan" too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John
    I often claim to dancers that I invented linoleum. THAT makes 'em all swoon for me.

    "You invented linoleum? Why.. my kitchen floor is MADE with linoleum, and I walk on it All The Time! Lets give you a free lap dance".

    No! Oh my Gosh! MY kitchen floor is made with linoleum! I walk on it... well, occasionally.

    Bunniz - he is just not a very nice man. There are guys (not every guy. I realize not every guy) that do like to come in solely for the privilege of rejecting girls that they would never normally get to reject. I understand the enjoyment here in theory, but in practice, it kind of eludes me. You just have to buck up, not care and move on to the next customer who is probably not like that.
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    They like to play these games because they don't think we're smart enough to distinguish between BS and the truth.Or maybe they want to practice the BS on us and see our reaction before telling their stories to girls in regular bars.

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    People are idiots. Anyone who has ever seen the fat chick sit stageside and loudly announce that her tits are bigger, knows that men have no monopoly on being an asshat.
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

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    As long as the custy mind game does not seriously offend me I will play along, at least as long as they are paying me anyway

    If it is part of his fantasy to have me be impressed that he supposedly created the fax or linoleum or whatever then that is fine with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lilith
    People are idiots. Anyone who has ever seen the fat chick sit stageside and loudly announce that her tits are bigger, knows that men have no monopoly on being an asshat.
    ROFLMAO!! It always cracks me up when fat chicks decide that they are The Sexiest Shit because they have huge fat tits. Most of the time those big fat tits are sitting on their waistbands, too. Yeah, honey, you're definitely the queen of the red-hot mamas.

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