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    Hi, I am brand new to the dancing buisness. I am dancing in connecticut for the next 5 days! I am a grad student, and I am strapped for cash. I have been reading other messages on this site it is very helpful! I know I have the body and the looks, I am sorry if I am being repetitive, but my nerves need to be calmed.I guess I am concerned about the contact issues, what really goes on, I have searched the net, and I have read some bizarre things. I really am not into having anyone touch me, I don't think I will even mind be naked. I guess I am just nervous, any advice would be helpful at the moment, Thanks, Logan

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    Wow, you have some guts! I hope you do well while on your trip.
    Maybe we can help you? Where would you like to work?
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    An agent placed me in connecticut I don't want anyone to know that I am doing this! Any advice would be greatly appreciated! I am scheduled to work at a club all day Fri, Sat, Sun night, Monday, and Tues, this is my first experiece, I really need some help! Thanks for responding! I am up for any new expereriences..

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    well good for you! what kind of club is this as far as contact?? You'll get used to the dances and such. Remember you don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with. It's always a little tough at the beginning physically, mentally and emotionally but it will definitely pass. Most of all, it will be fun. Take it as that. Make sure you have everything you need in your bag. As far as dancing goes, don't break your head over it, just have a good time and go with the flow. Make sure you have a good attitude and smile, it will work wonders. I find these type of girls make the most money. Good luck!

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    Thanks so much, I really appreciate people taking the time to write! I know nothing about the club, I am searching for info on it. I guess I am having a hard time with the moral aspect, I am a college grad, and have a professional job, but grad school is sooooo expensive, I keep thinking about my family, and friends, they would never understand. I have been trying on sexy outfits all day, I am kinda excited for the experience of it. I am a little nervous about the contact, do guys tend to get out of hand? It is a nude club, but the manager said you don't have to go nude. I will probably go nude. Dancing is something I always thought about in the back of mind. I think dancers are so hot! When I would go to clubs with boyfriends, I always would think I could do that! Any tips would be great! I have serious butterflies r/n!

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    I'm in the same predicament. My family and most of my friends do not know I do this. It's the hardest part for me. Not all men that will go in will try to touch you, most will be respectful, if they do just tell them that is not allowed. I was very nervous as well. I hold a regular corporate job during the day, I have a Bachelor's degree in marketing and dance part time. You have to live your life the way you want to, nobody else is paying your bills. I'm just trying to get ahead in school loans and credit card debt. My advice to you is have fun, don't become too friendly w/ the girls there just to avoid problems, just be polite, mind your own business and don't get drunk or get involved w/ drugs. I don't regret a thing since I started dancing 5 months ago. The hardest part is the waiting period until you start for the first time because the nerves. After that is all much easier and fun.

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    Thank you so much for your response! I am in exactly the same situation! You are right, no is going to pay my bills, I figure i mind as well do it now! I am trying the agent thing right now, she is going to send me to different clubs, I like it b/c I get out of this state, it is way too small! I worked in a restaurant all through college, I know the drama that can come with the territory, I am planning on keeping to myself. It is so nice to hear from other women i am glad I am not alone..

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    Default Re: leaving for tommorrow for 5 days!

    Most of the clubs in CT are generally a light-contact.

    The only state in New England with fairly liberal contact rules is RI.

    Some of the clubs closer to the NY City Border, may be a little looser on their regs, and some the dancers my do what they will; however, dancing in CT should not mean you'll have to do anything you're not comfortable with. There may be a few clubs where "grinding" is more of a norm than other places.

    Check out the Clubs/Reviews section of this site. It appears many of the clubs in CT have somethinng written on them.

    Best of luck!
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    I'm sorry that this is off topic, but my name is Logan too! Sorry I've never met another girl Logan. Good luck with the trip and I hope it goes okay. Just be confident and smile and try to have fun. think of it as a chance to reinvent yourself for a few days!!

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    I live in RI, I would never dance there, too small, I would probably see my dad or something, or someone I work with! Anyway, I am a lil nervous, I just hope I packed enough things, I really hope that I am doing the right thing. I am excited though, I think it will be really empowering. I will check tommorrow morning to see if anyone posted, I did read the reviews, there was only like 1 thing written, but it is good to know that it is low contact, I am not into the contact thing, i don't mind being nude, I just don;t want anyone touching me, it really freaks me out, that someone could just grab me b/c I am in front of them . I am off tommorrow, I will post when I get back, I am so glad that I stumbled upon this site, I feel much better ! thanx

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    Default Re: leaving for tommorrow for 5 days!

    try talking to rhiannon about the area. she probably knows the best clubs to target!

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    Hi everyone, thanx for the advice, I made really good money over the stretch. I just really hated giving dances sometimes, I guess it is just something I will have to get used to. It was difficult to walk in the shoes, but most people couldn't believe that I just started dancing. Over all I had a really good time, I was really beat after working so much, but it was worth it! Any pointers on how to make the dances better? I couldn't wait for them to end, unless I was a little intoxicated, which I tried not to be! please say it gets easier!

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    Congrats on the successful trip!

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    it does get easier in the way that you get more used to the dances. The pain and bruises are bad in the beginning but will soon fade. I know lap dances can be annoying, remind yourself you're an entertainer and making good money. At first I used to be so much more uncomfortable now i don't think twice because i think money quick and the majority are not too bad. Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with. Just be like NO IT'S NOT ALLOWED. Also you should be able to count on your bouncer and mgrs if anything gets out of line. This job does get tedious and you may feel a little discouraged at time. Make sure to enjoy your time off and save part of your money.

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    Hi, thanx for the postive reinforcement, my next assignment is in Albany,NY, but I am not going for a month, I have a lot of work to do at my job! The money is fantastic! I can't believe I am acutally paying almost my whole summer school bill! I do have a ton of bruises on my legs it looks like I got beat up. Anyway yeah I have to keep in mind the money, and the fantasy, i am selling a fantasy. I kinda felt disconnected after awhile, it just got really tedious. The bouncer was checking a lot on the girls, some girls just do more than others to make money. The club I was at was not the most high class club. There was definately $ making potential, I think the more I do it the better it will get!

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    Thanks Kryssy!

    I totally hear what you're saying about RI, Logan. You can't go anywhere without bumping into someone that you know. One of the perks (and disadvantages!) of living in such a teeny tiny place. I finally moved from there in April.

    Being that you would prefer no contact, RI clubs are pretty much out anyway. As already mentioned, RI is probably the most liberal in NE, and contact is a given whether it is 1- or 2-way. Most clubs, it's 2-way though. I'm sure there are girls that don't allow contact at all, but there is not much money in the area for them.

    Personally, I'd skip any Providence club and head to Woonsocket. is in my opinion, the best club. It's topless only, with 2-way contact. Had I stayed in RI, I probably would've ended up there. I auditioned and got hired there quite a while ago, but decided to retire instead. Excellent management and DJs, the girls are encouraging and genuinely nice. Catty stuff is at a minimum. One of our members, , would be the best to talk to about the place as she's worked there for quite some time now. She could give you the scoop, and also encourage you a bit.

    If you're looking for absolutely no contact, I believe that MA does not allow contact, and is fully nude. I'm not too familiar with the area, though. People you could talk to are , , or even Sirona again. I can't think of anyone off the top of my head that actually dances there, so forgive me, I don't mean to leave you all out. I think that many MA dancers commute to RI, because of the earnings potential in contact dances.

    Wish I could help out more. But if you contact anyone in the area, I'm sure they'll be glad to steer you in the right direction.

    Good luck to you!

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    Good Job, I'm glad you made some good money.

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    I don't want to dance in RI at all, I have a job where dancing would be frowned upon. I have heard the same thing about Mass, a lot of girls commute to RI, b/c the $$ is better. My friend worked at the FOXY in Brocton, and didn't make too much $$. I was thinking of trying Centerfolds in Boston. I may just travel around a bit. Thanx for the advice. I am moving in Jan to go to grad school in Texas. It will be easier to dance out there, b/c I don't know anyone!

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