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    Okay. Can anyone give me a detailed description of an ultra-sexy, fully nude lap dance I can give to a customer in a higher-end, low-contact club? From what I've been told the contact at this club includes two-way touching of non-sexual areas, so what does that mean for moves like body slides and grinding?

    A couple of guys I know go to this club and tell me with the "right girl" anything goes in the VIP room. So, I guess I'm confused about the limitations enforced upon lap dances.
    For example, if I was to do a body slide, ultimately I’m touching him, but if I make it clear he can’t touch me, would that be within the rules of a low contact club?

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    Default Re: is there such a thing as low-contact grinding?!?

    If your not comfortable with 2 way cntach ( comming from your people) then dont work at this club. The customers are going to expect contact, cuz they get it from everyone else

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    Default Re: is there such a thing as low-contact grinding?!?

    Quote Originally Posted by KateJ
    ...A couple of guys I know go to this club and tell me with the "right girl" anything goes in the VIP room. ...
    Hrm...how do they know this? Is this first hand experience for them or are they just going off rumors of what others have claimed?

    Saying you can do stuff if you find the "right girl" doesn't have to mean that the problem is wide spread there. Yeah it sucks that there is a problem at all, but there is likely to be one of those "right girls" at many places. Doesn't mean you have to be one of them. I guess it would sound different to me if they said anything can go with "most girls" or "every girl" there. It's important to find out if this is really considered the norm. there.

    As far as light contact grinding. It's kind of an oxymoron. There's usually some dancers who push the envelope making no-contact into light contact, light one-way contact into medium contact, and medium contact into high mileage mutual two-way contact. Personally "mutual contact of non-sexual areas" falls under my definition of medium-contact, not light, but that's just my opinion.

    The thing you really need to do is find out what the local laws are that govern the area your club is in. If there's a difference between what is legal and what is accepted at the club as SOP than you'll want to understand those differences. Then decide for yourself if you can work under those conditions.
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    Default Re: is there such a thing as low-contact grinding?!?

    Quote Originally Posted by KateJ
    Okay. Can anyone give me a detailed description of an ultra-sexy, fully nude lap dance I can give to a customer in a higher-end, low-contact club? From what I've been told the contact at this club includes two-way touching of non-sexual areas, so what does that mean for moves like body slides and grinding?
    Every dancer has a different comfort level, so you'll naturally get a range of degree of contact in any venue. The practical problem is that the "higher contact" dancers make it more difficult for the lower contact girls to sell dances. After all, the typical custy is going to think, why should I pay "X" for a low contact lap dance, when I can touch "Y" for the same price?

    As far as your problem is concerned, try and sell the illusion you are being turned on by what you're doing - low moans of pleasure, etc. The exhibisionistic dancer is a classic male fantasy, so give it to him. Also, if you don't want the custy touching you, touch yourself to the limit of the rules and your comfort zone - another good old male fantasy.

    Quote Originally Posted by KateJ
    A couple of guys I know go to this club and tell me with the "right girl" anything goes in the VIP room. So, I guess I'm confused about the limitations enforced upon lap dances.
    Love this one. I would never try it myself, but I know this is a classic male manoeuvre. Dancer "X" does this, so you should be doing it as well. Works best on newbies, who haven't wised up to this classic piece of customer BS.

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    Default Re: is there such a thing as low-contact grinding?!?

    Quote Originally Posted by KateJ
    Okay. Can anyone give me a detailed description of an ultra-sexy, fully nude lap dance I can give to a customer in a higher-end, low-contact club? From what I've been told the contact at this club includes two-way touching of non-sexual areas, so what does that mean for moves like body slides and grinding?
    I'm perhaps no expert but I would say you could do those moves but minimize the amount of time you are actually touching the person receiving the dance in the more intimate ways.... perhaps if you have a bf who is cool you could practice and he could use a stopwatch to get you used to cutting off after 2 seconds or something... is that a silly idea?
    Quote Originally Posted by KateJ
    A couple of guys I know go to this club and tell me with the "right girl" anything goes in the VIP room. So, I guess I'm confused about the limitations enforced upon lap dances.

    well sure some gals will do anything and some guys will say anything... that doesn't mean it's necessarily true or that it won't ever catch up to them...
    Quote Originally Posted by KateJ
    For example, if I was to do a body slide, ultimately I’m touching him, but if I make it clear he can’t touch me, would that be within the rules of a low contact club?
    I would think so...

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    Default Re: is there such a thing as low-contact grinding?!?

    [QUOTE=dlabtot]I'm perhaps no expert but I would say you could do those moves but minimize the amount of time you are actually touching the person receiving the dance in the more intimate ways.... perhaps if you have a bf who is cool you could practice and he could use a stopwatch to get you used to cutting off after 2 seconds or something... is that a silly idea?


    No, that's not a silly idea...it's a great idea--if I had a guy to do that for! I think my main concern is that if I was to grind or do a body slide or something that it's within the norms of the club, and not considered an extra. Because I don't want to start something with a customer that will give him the idea I'd do more. Basically, I'm comfortable touching a guy in that manner because I know that's as far as I'd take it. What makes me nervous is if the guy interprets heavy contact as a prelude to fondling, etc. I have no problem telling him hands off, I just don't relish seeing the effect in my earnings.

    Judging from your response and the other responses above (thanks you guys) I think I'm better off looking for something a little more tame, see how I handle it, then as I grow more confident and adventurous, try these other, "looser," clubs out??

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