I don't really like to be touuched by the customers.
Given the choice between earning $20 a dance with contact and earning $20 a dance without contact , I'll choose without everytime.
I don't really like to be touuched by the customers.
Given the choice between earning $20 a dance with contact and earning $20 a dance without contact , I'll choose without everytime.



I don't like to be touched in the intimate areas.
A custy gave me a nice foot massage yesterday and that was the exception![]()
B! Say it ain't so!![]()
(My god, i was allowed to post...!)
I'll take it, and stomache it, but i'll only like it if i can steal your panties while your onstage and have a clear b-shot to the nearest fan where i can sniff to my heart's content...Originally Posted by Bridgette
Or not...
Man, even typing that made me feel like a douchbag...





I dont mind being touched in a club where its ok. Here in SD if they are seen touching us and we go along with it we can get tickets, arrested and/or fired. So I get very pissed if a guy tries to do that b/c I dont need sh*t on my record.
All that aside, I dont mind it when a guy touches me. I just dont like guys trying to finger my clit or coochie! I dont f*cking know where your nasty @ss fingers have been so dont touch there....like I need some nasty infection to deal with!?Besides guys think they are getting me off by trying to massage my clit..um no.
Then the boobies; they are not radio knobs so dont treat them that way. They have sensation and would like to keep them sensational and not crusty red at the end of the night.
Hip driving....worst of all for me. Dont even go there or your dance will be a super air dance. This one guy tried to push his penis through my thong one night. I told him that if he tried sh*t again then Im going to stab his balls. He stopped trying and let me do my dance.
Im not some sort of prude but I have boundries and limits. Im still human and no one likes straight up being abused...well unless they do like that.
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you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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Ix-nay the ontact-cay for moi *shudder*
There's that Domme tendency showing again, B... :sigh:I don't like it. I'm the driver, you just sit back and take it
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Wow, well, as a custy, I must say that I like the contact. I always thought that dances were a "look but don't touch, the girl is in the driver's seat" kind of thing, until one day when I was in a club and the girl grabbed me by the wrists, and placed my hands on her breasts. I then entered the world of contact and I've never looked back. Now I only go to clubs that have a reputation for "high mileage" or "max contact." I never want to do anything inappropriate or unwanted by the dancer, so I try to feel out if she's comfortable with the contact or not. But if I get the feeling that she's not into the contact, she only gets one dance from me. The girls who obviously don't mind my touching, and encourage it, get a lot more. Something to keep in mind, since most of you girls seem awfully profit motivated.
LOL! I love posts like that.




Okay, since nobody else is going to I will..Originally Posted by stripclubgoer
Yes, it is obvious you are a -customer- and since you have entered the world of as you so bluntly put it High Mileage and or Max Contact and of COURSE you never, ever want to do anything inappropriate ( as the High miles kind of contradicts the inappropriate comment right away, but hey.. hes the custy right? ) try asking. before you try to "tune in your dancer" or stick your nasty decease ridden fingers up into her cookie.
You are SO right that you would only get one dance from women/girls like me, no wait.. you might get more than one because you know, when you get right down to it.. I absolutely LOVE guys like you who wanna lick on me. SURE spread it around, why the last guy I just did a dance for licked me right there to and let me tell you it was JUICY! Yummy. And of COURSE I adore having my nipples twisted till they nearly fall off as you grab my breasts and leave trails of bruises there. Yes'siree'bob, thats big fun. I LIKE IT!
Not to mention, lets talk about my cookie, sure stick your warty, you just scratched your ass fingers in there. Yeah.. last guy I danced for did that too.
As for your cash - keep it, Your little twenty or forty dollars really doesn't matter. Some of us are not that desperate to make a dollar.
Please.. if you can't tell this is sarcasm, then you have a problem. Also, when you go into a strip club and you find that thoughts like my earlier comments ruin your fun.. well hey, it's guys like you that ruin my night. Plus, it's guys like you that we girls/women that don't get more than one dance from you go in the back of the dressing room and talk bad about. Yeah, right, that might be why some of the other girls at that SC ( Thats strip club for you dude ) run away when they see you. Just a little thought or two .. because frankly - some people like mister strip club goer there needs to get a grip on that line that defines a stripper from a hooker. They call it a strip TEASE for a reason, not because it's just a cute name.
R
First of all, the kind of contact I'm referring to does not involve sticking anything in anyone's "cookie", as you so gracefully put it. It also does not involve leaving bruises anywhere on anyone's body. I'm sorry there are guys out there who play rough, but lumping all men who enjoy a high contact dance into that category is simply an unfair stereotype. You ladies must surely understand how annoying it is to be unfairly stereotyped.
Second, as far as "tuning in my dancers", it is usually pretty easy to tell which girls give the good dances. I can usually tell before I even go back for a dance. They're the ones you don't see a whole hell of a lot of because they spend all their time in the VIP. Imagine that!
Third, if you think that I, or any other guy for that matter, care what strippers are saying about me in the dressing room, you're out of your mind.
Finally, let's be realistic. People rant and rave about the "fantasy" and the "tease." But come on, men do not need to pay for fantasies. We are quite adept in that department. You can be my fantasy from accross a crowded airport terminal, free of charge. Men also usually don't have too much trouble getting teased by girls who won't put out, another experience which is easy to come by, free of charge. So can you really blame guys who give their business to girls/clubs where they know that their money will buy them a little reality for a change?




If you want reality - and tuning in your dancer was talking about twisting nipples .. if you would of read any of this thread you would of caught that right away.. ( back to reality ) you take your little money, and
A - Look through the yellow pages and call an escort ( which is fine by me )
B - Go to your local street where all the .. unnh, thrifty young ladies hang out and can work with you and your budget.
And yes, I KNOW that you are well equipped to fantasize, thats why your sitting at home alone and posting on the strip club boards about what you do in the proverbial strip club.
Also - girls that talk about you in the dressing room.. WARN EACH other about the gentlemen like you that expect to get more than their little dollar will purchase, in the strip club. Once again, if you would of been reading, you would of caught on.
Welcome to strip clubbing 101.
R
SCG - Now really. Thank you for your insight. but truly - you think that your post, which amounts to "customers like to touch dancers" is really groundbreakig news to us? You think that we are all now going "Ahhh! that is why I'm not making money. Because I keep telling the customer to stop spreading, their thick, disgusting, mucousy, ecoli ridden saliva all over me! And because I tell them to take their filthy, sweaty hands, that have never known a sexual touch that was not upon the penis attached to the same body, from my breasts, who have surely not done anything to deserve this treatment from me. As it turns out, customers LIKE to do that! Thank you SCG! I shall head back into work, now armed with this new knowledge of what customers like! To touch me! Onward!" We know that customers like contact. It's one of those "givens" - like an a priori assumption in both the virtual and literal stripclub world. Now THIS thread was asking how many of US actually LIKED contacted. Not just tolerated it with a smile so that the customer would buy another. And we are answering that here, because, here, none of you are paying us anything (unless there is some process that I am being really left out of. If so - THANKS A LOT you guys!) so we are not in slightest (while on here) concerned with what you like in a dancer - well, maybe we are in the greater sense. But not with an immediacy.
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As you'll read if you spend much time here at all, there are plenty of ways to turn a healthy profit without the amount of contact you're referencing. Can it be frustrating sometimes? Sure. But it's simply not necessary to max out the contact to make a living or, if you work smart enough, to make as much or more than dancers who do it. Many who post here are living proof of that. And there's a segment of the customers to target who don't even want it. Besides, a dancer who tries to perform contact beyond what she's comfortable with is going to give a lousy performance, which won't exactly bring in the dinero.Originally Posted by stripclubgoer
-Ev




Fair enough. Let's get specific about the level of contact then, so as to avoid stereotypes. Am I correct in assuming from your posts that you have played with a stripper's nipples but have never fingered a stripper's pussy? Am I to assume that, since the type of contact you're referencing does not involve sticking anything in anyone's cookie, that you have no desire to ever finger a stripper's pussy? You enjoyed it when a stripper put your hands on her tits, and are looking for that type of contact again, but you would not enjoy it and would pull back if a stripper lead your fingers to her vagina. Is that correct in describing the level of contact you're talking about?Originally Posted by stripclubgoer
That's a wonderful observation but totally irrelevant because it's a complete mischaracterization of the intimacy you get when you pay for my company.Originally Posted by stripclubgoer
Who wants to blame them? I just don't want them as customers. Well, actually, I do blame them a little bit, in the same sense that I would be miffed with someone insisting upon getting Chinese food at Pizza Hut. Quit wasting staff time trying to order what's not listed on the menu. It's Pizza Hut.Originally Posted by stripclubgoer
I work in a no touch club. In the vip room I do allow a custy to touch the back of my legs and my back, but absolutely no touching of my tits, ass, or kitty. I hate when a custy tries to pull a fast one and lick on my nipple...that is totally repulsive, considering someone else five minutes ago could have tried the same thing...i clean myself with baby wipes but not everyone does...i only give one warning before i walk out of the room, and I get paid in advance...getting touched inappropriately is not in my job description!!!!
"The body is meant to be seen, not all covered up."
~Marilyn Monroe


I never minded much if someone wanted to rest his hands on my hips while I danced for him, but the guys with "roaming" hands always made me nervous...having to worry where someone's hands are heading next and whether or not I'm going to have to relocate them takes my concentration out of the dance.
Whatever the market will bear............
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Originally Posted by Mia M
No two way contact for me. Actually, no one way contact for me either. Wherever I am, I try to find the club with the least amount of contact and work there. Customers will ask why I work there, when I could do so much better. To me, touching or being touched by strange men is not "doing better". The income difference between contact and no contact isn't that big to have me even think about having them touch me.

No I don't like touching. Most dancers are acting and faking they are enjoying it for your money. We are not there to be groped or fondled. I wish customers would get that.
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