Hi, I'm pretty new, but already the most common things these guys I dance for say is "wow, your boyfriend is a lucky man", etc. I thought it strange they would assume I had one, and several of the dancers assumed a guy got me to do this also. I am in fact single, but I'm not looking at the moment really (too busy) and am definitely not looking to date customers. When they assume I have a bf, I go along with it, but when they ask, what should I say? Saying I'm single does make them more flirty, and is this the idea? But it also leads to more aggression from some (like "well, you'll never get one now doing this"). Also, if I act like I have a boyfriend it's easier to say "no" when they want me to do more than I'm willing. I can already tell that I have to be less ambivalent with what I will and will not allow in the lapdances (there is so much variance in our club from very light contact girls to all the way extras girls that the customers can be pushy).
So, with that in mind, is it better to say I have a bf or not? I tried telling one guy "yes and no..." and left it hanging, and actually he didn't make me explain too much. Is that a good line? thanks all!



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