About a month back my fav dancer started complaining about the problems with various custies, other dancers, bouncers, the industry in general etc. From being a fun hour or two of harmless flirting and dances, it has changed to a constant tirade of complaints. Whilst initially I was flattered with her occasionally discussing problems regarding her OTC activities, I am really not interested in her ITC problems. In the last two weeks I have politely reminded her that I come to an SC to unwind and I miss the bubbly person I once came to visit.
She has been in a relationship for all the time I have known her and it seems a stable one. My views are… her boyfriend doesn’t pay for her company and he gets boyfriend benefits… he is entitled to these problems not me… Can I say this without burning the bridge?
I realise that this is a bit selfish but I have come out feeling I have not got what I came to the SC for, which is to be entertained and to unwind.
Any advice?



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