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    Default How do you keep in touch

    How do you keep in touch with your regular custy's, e-mail or phone? Or do you just hope they pop in?

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    Default Re: How do you keep in touch

    if it's a good customer i'll give him my email. only one has my phone number
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    Default Re: How do you keep in touch

    Things to be aware of with these two issues:

    PHONE: Be aware that giving your phone number out can get you in trouble for prostitution. All it takes is an undercover cop with a bad day to make an example out of you. Another thing to consider is getting a phone number from your customer. The only challenge with this is when do you call him? Also be aware that a call from an exotic dancer can be the instigation of a divorse if his wife or significant other finds out and that's not good. I also think that's a bit invasive to call your customer unless he is very specific about it being okay. some guys give out their number and don't think of the consequences behind having a dancer call him some day.

    EMAIL: Not as intimate as talking by voice, but a very easy way to keep in touch. My suggestion is get a Yahoo email address which is free and you can also create a profile for yourself online. Let it run while you are at work and in your profile include your stage name, the club you work at, and when you are going to be there. It's free advertising.

    One other suggestion about all this though. My partner, Jamie, came up with this and it's brilliant. If your club is cool with it, get their business card and ask when they usually come into the club. Whether it's once a week or three times a year, keep the card. Get a 3 ring binder and the plastic inserts for it designed to hold business cards. What you are going to do is write down three short bullet points about this person on the back of their card. It could be their favorite type of food, favorite color, their home town, ex-girlfriends's name, whatever. Just three simple and personal things. THIS way, the next time you know he's coming into the club to see you, refer to his card before he comes in to refresh yourself on the information about him. When he sits down, you'll sound like a hero to this guy because you remembered he loved French cuisine or that his dream car is a Ferrari, or whatever.

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    Speaking as a Brit, I'd have to say that a dancer giving out her phone number then being busted for prostitution seems a bit OTT. Providing she stays within the law and the rules and regs of her club, how can she be busted?

    Many dancers I know use mobile phones, and quite a number have two mobile phones - one for dancing and one for personal use. They give out the "dancer" number to guy's when they know they are in the habit of coming in and regularly buying dances. The key is that they only give out the number when they know the man is going to be repeat business.

    What they then do is text the custy their shift times when they're working. This is a lot more discrete than a phone call and avoids the hastle of custy's wanting long conversations on the phone. The "dancer" phone can also be turned off for a day or two at a time if the dancer wants peace and quiet.

    As to causing problems in a custy's home life; firstly, texting is discrete and secondly, caveat emptor - if exchanging numbers with a dancer is going to give a custy problems with his private life, why did he exchange numbers in the first place?

    The down side for a dancer giving out her phone number is "date the dancer" syndrome - many custy's think that when they've got a dancer's phone number it's the prelude to a date. (Very bad for the male ego to know that you're only being texted because you're worth 2 or 3 private dances.)

    E-mail. Fine, but very impersonal. Within the UK at last, several ISP's don't seem to be able to forward e-mails from one to another - leading to messages going astray. It also relies on dancer and custy having regular access to a computer. I look at my e-mails one a day. If both dancer and custy look that infrequently, they are not going to have a very quick response time.

    Also, what happens if a dancer e-mails a guy and asking him to come in and see her, then finds out several hours later she has to cancel her shift? At least with a mobile you can send a text. With e-mail you might have a custy turn up at a club, only to find the dancer's not there - not good for business.

    Business cards? I wouldn't leave mine in a SC. My bosses wouldn't be too chuffed if they found out I had, and I'd be very worried about the club or dancer phoning me at work.

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    I know that there's been talk of giving out a phone number equating to prostitution, but it's hard to imagine, at least in Colorado, without some overt action or speech to advance the arrangement - although if the contact is heavy enough to bring about charges on its own, yeah, I guess I could see it.

    I've gotten a couple numbers and a few e-mails. Frankly, I'm more comfortable with the e-mails. If I like the dancer enough for a repeat visit, I could e-mail my plans to see if she's going to be in the club.

    My problem with the phone number really is for her safety, worrying that if she's giving it out to me, she could be giving it to too many people.

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    For overseas SW members. Giving out phone numbers, or more precisely not giving out phone numbers is part of an interpretation of the local “Rules of Engagement” usually at the county or city level that a given SC operates under.

    For Example: The Rules of Engagement for US soldiers, spell out what they can and can not do when increasingly deployed around the world and dealing with local populations.
    This concept of the rules is usually at a tactical practical level.

    The Rules of Engagement for strip clubs are more likely the administrative rules at a tactical level that govern how the club operates under in it’s deal with the local government, typically in the US a county government as represented by the District Attorney and the Sheriff of the county.

    Many local areas curtail (as part of the deal for letting the club operate) communication
    between customer and dancer. I have seen an occasional new dancer getting lectured by management for giving out a phone number to a customer.

    In some areas it might be actually prohibited.

    I guess it is more like the unwritten administrative code that the club and dancers are supposed to know. In many clubs (and areas) it would be considered a lack of training for a dancer to not know this.

    Your bafflement from European perspective, is that we have these subunits of the
    Federated state governments that are called counties. The concept actually came from England. However when the American government formed it, took as a pattern for its state government organization the English county government as it stood in about the 1400. When I was in England, I got the impression that the county as a political sub unit doesn’t seem to exist any longer.

    Each state in the US federal republic system gives different weight to the role and power of county government. In the SE and SW US, the county government is a real vibrant
    and a needed sub unit. In New York City Metro area, it is redundant and fading away.

    I somehow feel I have failed in my explanation of the give telephone number and you get in trouble thread. But it is related to local government and legal oversight of the local strip club.

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    Email contact is something that tends to work for all involved.
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    I use my cell. My home phone is for family and friends only.

    My cell is also fro friends and family, but for custys too. But the only guys I give that out to are smart about it. I only give my cell out to special custys (custys I deem special anyway).

    I have my golf pro, CPA, car dealer, banker, judge, Dr.'s, and a few attys on there. Other than that, not too many. I'm very picky. You have to be able to offer me something other than dances to be on my list, lol. (Obviously, from the list,lol.)

    For the other ones that stop by pretty regularly, I give them the # to the club and tell them to call me there. I have a pretty set schedule, and I rarely vary from it, so if it's a Wed, and they call; it's a pretty good chance I'll be there.

    I have given out my email, but it's usually to people I laready knew before, but not really liked enought to give my home #.
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