Ok, I'm know I'm hassling with all these questions, but this thing is driving me crazy. I've now (in this first week of work) had about three or four guys absolutely gush over me...like go on and on. This is not to brag (some guy told me today at work flat out that he thought the waitress was the prettiest girl there). And most guys I dance for are appreciative, which seems nice and normal. I don't think I'm the prettiest girl there, not objectively. BUT I am of a certain kinda cutesy type I guess. Just the light blond, bubbly talking, nasal voice...whatever. I've also twice gotten guys swearing I'm American because I have an 'American accent' (yeah, what's the difference between that and an 'ontario accent', I have no clue!).
So, I talk to these guys and they do this gushing thing, but then after a while (and I really appreciate the compliments!) when I ask them to dance they say "no, they'd feel guilty". I'm too "nice". Another girl there said she thought I just had that sweet little girl thing going on, and maybe some guys don't want that. I know I can't please everyone, but these dudes in particular definitely seem to like me, so how can I convince them that what I would like is some $$$ and to therefore dance for them?



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