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    I tend to go on auto-deaf and start the obligatory nod-smile-giggle when guys start with the all too common 'you are so pretty' blah blah blah compliments. I'm sure if these guys paid any attention they'd notice the glazed look in my eyes and the slight amount of drool beginning to form at the corner of my mouth as they continue with that inane line of chatter.

    The rude ones get either the breeze as I move along to the next or a smartass, equally or more cutting comment back as I smile ever so sweetly and walk away. Either way, I just let it roll off and get the next dance elsewhere. If it really bothers me I'll bitch about it for 30 seconds in the dressing room later as I'm freshening my lipgloss for the next custy. In any case it barely tips the meter on my Time Waste-o-Matic.

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    One of the best forms of revenge is telling/warning the other dancers about the assholes. I watched my fave and her partner walk up to this group of guys sitting next to me and try to hustle them. Not 5 seconds after they started chatting the guys up, the guys started making backhanded compliments and trying to get laid. As soon as that mess started, my fave and her partner started laughing and my fave looked at her partner and said "Ohhh, these are the 2 assholes that Rachel was talking about." *Looks at the guys* "Yeah, she said you two were trying to pull some stunts with them too. You 2 aren't worth it. Bye fellas." I remember it so vivdly because I was in stitches by the time they walked over to me.

    They'll get the picture when they stop getting approached period. Sometimes that stupid stuff isn't worth the $2 tip you'd get for putting up with them.
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    Sometimes people can be such jerks. I think they get off on putting us down. When girl customers come in and talk shit, that bothers me the most. Usually if I overhear them talking about anyone I say, " I have an extra outfit and a pair of shoes, if you want to go up get ass naked and we can critique your body" Usually that shuts them up. The guys do it because I think some of them get off on "rejecting" us. Because in the "real" world you wouldn't even look their way, and to them it's some kind of insecure defensive thing.

    Sometimes it gets to me, but I try and remind myself that I am not the one who has nothing better to do than pay to come into a stripclub and put people down. They are the ones who have to pay to look at pussy. I just try to take their money make a smartass comment and move on. Somedays, that's hard to do though. I remind myself that outside of here, do I really value or respect their "opinion". Nope. Fuck them. If you don't like me... then Fuck you. Don't dwell on it, because someone else does. Instead of getting upset I try and let them see me unfazed still making my money. Who is the real loser here?

    The worst comment I have gotten was a guy rubbed his chest pointed at me and said, "I have a bigger chest than that one." He thought I couldn't hear him. I walked up to him and said "I hear you have a bigger pussy than me too." He was speechless, and I got endless apologies from him and the rest of the guys he was with, and blamed him being drunk as it was his bachelor party. Poor girl that is gonna marry that ass. Obviously he was too immature to understand and appreciate the differences between women.

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    Nasty comments from customers roll off me like water off a duck's back. Sometimes they piss me off, but they won't make me get really upset and definitely not to the stage that I want to cry. These asshats are clashing with my persona, not the real me so I can adjust my feelings and deal with it appropriately.

    Comments about my body have happened, but if one cannot learn how to handle these things well, then they need to toughen up. I'm not saying that you should have to put up with insults and it's understandable that consistent bad comments are demoralising, but unfortunately it's part of the business. Learn how to deal with it professionally and effectively.

    I probably should not say this, but on some occassions I have hurt customers. I have fast reflexes and when people try to touch me in inappropriate places, I grab their hands/fingers and bend them backwards. Honestly, they know the rules.
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    Agreeing with Heidi ^; I think any open-minded girl who is about to get married should send her man into a strip club and have a good male friend go with him (or just go yourself) . I am speaking about non-dancers here BTW. They way he treats women there will say volumes about what he really thinks about you too. Don't you think?
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    1. I danced when I was pregnant and still made pretty good money so I didn't quit until I was 7 months, when I was six months I had a customer say to me "you look like your 3 months pregant" I loved the fact I was able to take that rude comment turn it around and say why thank you so much, I'm actually six months.

    2. After I had my baby I tried to return to work at my old club only to have the GM (please keep in mind I was making good money working at other clubs and was only about 5 lbs over my pre pregnancy weight) anyway the gm told me I would be allowed to return but I had to hit the gym hard (this coming from a roly poly fat guy)

    3. This happened to a friend of mine. We were working the other day and she ordered some Chinese food. Now this girl is about as skinny as they come. The owner walked through the dressing room and starting lecturing her about eating fried food. What a way to ruin a girls lunch...
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    We have new stories about rude customers every day.They are rude not only to dancers but cocktail waitresses,too.

    One comment I remember from last week,this very strange looking man,maybe retarted or something sat right in front of the stage,watched the whole nude show,staring directly at one place on my body and then when I came to thank everybody he said:"You're not getting any money from me,you're not pretty enough".

    Another one came up to the stage with 1$ and said:"You know,I would f*ck you,but you're too tall for me!"That's nasty,I've never even seen this guy before,and he was very overweight and had grease on his face and hands from eating chicken wings .Then I heard he came up to another girl and said :"I would fuck you,but you need to lose some weight first!"

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    I bet when he said that you wished you were shorter.
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    I used to work as a male dancer and bouncer to pay for Penn State U. (now in Ft. Myers with NO College Loans and my own business thanks to stripping ), and women can be as bad as the men. Plus, the women can be (I think are) worse with touching. Having my junk stuffed into a sling where every woman can check it out, doesn't give them the right to grab on it, or maybe it was because they were sorority girls .
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    customers are idiots more often than not. If they feel the need to be rude then I have no problem being rude right back. If they're not rude then they seem to think the club is actually a dating service, which is also annoying. Every once in awhile you get the good ones who understand I'm there to put on a show, and they can appreciate that.

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    Yeeesh. We have this one girl in our club who is hilarious. She is like, the biggest bitch you'll ever meet in your life to the customers who are rude. Once we were driving home and she made our driver stop the car, got out because she saw a girl who insulted her earlier. and slapped her in the face!! Haha it was pretty funny, but extreme.

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    Or that customers think that dancers are automatically all headcases with baggage or into drugs.

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    Thanks to the rude customers, I'm wary about my man going to a strip club. I mean, in a strip club, men feel no obligation to put up a polite front. What if my man's naked personality is like that? Every man claims to be a chivalrous gentleman, but the truth comes out in the right circumstances.

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    rude comments that they've told me: I won't get a dance from you because you won't get my dick hard, I could stare at you all day and I wouldn't get turned on, I'll buy you a drink if you let me touch your pussy, you look like you have meat on you, have you ever thought about dancing better on stage... etc.
    rude comments I've heard said to the waitress: I'll tip you when you show me your tits, why don't you get up there and dance if you want a tip,

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    Yes, I've heard that one alot too... "when are you gonna start dancing?" Maybe when I tone my ass and get a tan, you asshole. And then I'd proceed to stick my shoe down your throat. Yeesh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krazyjane
    Thanks to the rude customers, I'm wary about my man going to a strip club. I mean, in a strip club, men feel no obligation to put up a polite front.
    As a man, I must take issue with this proposition.
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    jane your starting to get the all guys are bad dancer defense thing. It's only certain guys. Just like not all of the girls were bad. Some of them were really sweet.

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    Just head to a SC with him and see how he acts.

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    My mother used to say that anything that can be done at night can be done during the day.

    If your man is a good man, he'll be good no matter where he is or who he's with. Bottom line.
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    Bridgette, that's a good one! I'll do that next time... Dirty look, get up, and just walk away! BURN! Ya!
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    Maybe these guys subscribe to the "being an asshole will make women like you" philosophy.

    Which does seem to work for a lot of guys.

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    ... Hey, hey, hey... Only for the short term if at all, and definately not for me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21
    ... Hey, hey, hey... Only for the short term if at all, and definately not for me!

    yeah, but a lot of guys only care about the short term

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    True ::extremely pissed off face
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    Ok, sorry about the broad generalization. I'm not married to him... yet. I'm sure that he's too smart to see strippers as emotional punching bags / sexual harassment outlets. He's never been to one, and says that prolly the only times he'll go to clubs is for bachelor parties once his friends start getting married. Ah well, we've been dating almost 2 years. I'm sure that if he had any bad tendencies, they would have been exposed by now. Don;t worry, I don't despise men!

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