I just got back in dancing, the club I'm at is super convenient, but the customers are a little on the rough and touchy feely side. What's the best self-defense reaction if they become to touchy or even try to assault me?. Thanks alot.

I just got back in dancing, the club I'm at is super convenient, but the customers are a little on the rough and touchy feely side. What's the best self-defense reaction if they become to touchy or even try to assault me?. Thanks alot.

Well first you have to ask yourself if its being convenient is worth dealing with that stuff. maybe it's worth going further away and being in a nicer spot.
That being said, in any club you can get aggressive custy's and bad situations. I would definately recommend learning some basic self-defense moves and not being afraid to use them.
The handful of times I have been in what was or could have been a bad situation I have found a hard, quick punch, knee or heel to his balls has usually managed to calm things down.
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My best defense is, I jsut dance away from the groping hands without actaully making an issue of it. I also try to keep them ehntertained by giving them something to look at (I work in a bikini club, so flashing and licking my nipples goes a long way here) or redirecting their hands to something they can touch. Sometimes I jsut hold on to thier hands and stare into thier eyes as I dance, sort of a light domination.
I also play the classy card here, too. It tends to make me less attractive to the worst type of guys, who figure I won't let them touch me, and makes me more appealng to the nicer ones.
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yep collleen, i have gotten good at encorporating "duck and dodge" in my lapdances lol. i try to just keep moving out of their reach, if that doesnt work i remind them that the club doesnt allow them to touch, that way i dont look like a prude like if i were to say " i dont like when u touch me" and its true, the club doesnt allow it.
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I prefer duck and dodge as well. It saves your breath of reprimanding deaf ears. If someone is trying to grab my pussy I just stradle their lap or one knee and push down hard on their leg, they can't get in there then. Or, facing away from them sitting on their lap cross your legs. They can't get in. Or just bend a way that is slightly out of reach (thus duck and dodge) I will warn them that they are crossing the line and if they continue I will have to stop the dance and report them. All else fails a good firm NO! Will usualy suffice as well as get the attention of others in the area, and hopefully prompt a "Everything okay over there?" which will usually scare the custy into behaving.
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