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    Wanting to start dancing...

    I have so many questions though. First, is it easy to get sucked in to the other stuff that goes along with it? For instance, drugs, private parties, etc? The most important thing is how do I go about an audition? Is it normal to feel stupid at first? Is the money that great and are the girls hard to work with? Sorry, I just have so many questions any advice would be helpful.

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    Its only as easy to get sucked into negative things as you let them whether your working at a SC or wall street. If you go to work do your job and don't start any drama then you'll be successful.

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    I don't even want to THINK about what I looked like my first time on stage! I'm sure my dancing is completely different now than it was.

    I will tell you this. I'm not very popular at any of the clubs I work at. Not that the girls hate me, just that they never talk to me. I tend to keep to myself, collect my money, and go home. If any drama starts, and someone asks me my opinion about it, I usually say, "Don't ask me. This doesn't concern me. I don't want to get involved." Some people have taken this to mean that I'm a bitch, but I'm not; I'm just reclusive. I don't really know any of the girls outside of the club. I've seen drug use, but I usually just turn the other cheek and go back to work.

    This is obviously not the way for everybody. The point is, any job will be exactly what you make it. There are tons of dancers who go out and have the time of their lives drug-free in a club. There are those who can't take their clothes off unless they have a drink first. It's different for everybody.

    As for an audition, I'm gonna tell you what hundreds of people have probably already said, but it IS true. :-) Just. Have. Fun. Remember that no person auditioning you wants you to fail. If you trip, or get dizzy, just laugh it off. I'd like to think that they're looking for personality, because they know the movement will come later.
    "This above all: to thine own self be true."

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    If you are prone to go along with other people and don't have a strong sense of "self" then it is possible you will get sucked into those things. How old are you? I find that the younger people are the more impressionable they can be.

    Secondly, the money can be good and addicting even for the strongest of us. You may find that you aren't partically crazy about dancing later on but once you make 500 bucks or more per night it's hard to give it up. Also, you tend to acustom yourself to a lifestyle over time that you must dance to support. Just my two cents. Hope this helps.

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    If you are a weak person, it's easy to get sucked in.

    If you love yoruself and are strong, it's pretty easy not to.

    The best advice I can give is to not hang out with the party girls after work. It's best to distance yourself from all dancers since it's really not a good place to be making friends. They are not your friends. They (party girls) are usually miserable people who escape their reality with drugs, and you know what they say....misery loves company.

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    Default Re: Wanting to start dancing...

    it's good thing you joined this board before you started, I wish I had had something like this when I started.
    I was a wreck.

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    Default Re: Wanting to start dancing...

    Thanks to everyone for replying to my thread ; ) I am actually going tomorrow to try and audition for a few places (fingers crossed) and hopefully things will go ok. I am sooo...... glad I found this place b/c I truly do feel much more confident in my decision and I feel like some of the things I have read on here will be a great help to me.

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