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    There have been a couple of regulars lately not mine just club regs, and they seem really nice. I always have small talk w/ them and they say I'm very beautiful and classy and they seem like they genuinly mean it. However, when other not so great looking girls are on stage they seem to tip them but not me. I find that some not good looking girls that are rather raunchy and way more touchy feely get more of their attention and dances. Like it doesn't pay to be classy. Or does it?

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    Nah, it doesn't pay. This isn't the ballet. If they wanted to see a "classy" woman, they would go to the country club. The women aren't actually any better than any of us, but they sure seem to act that way. To you its classy, to them its snobby, and not likely to give dirty dances. I recommend raunching it up a bit and not paying attention to club regulars anyway. They tend to be picky assholes who are looking for the trampies extras girl anyway, since they are there all the time and know who does it.

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    thanks katrine, now by this i don't mean i don't give sensual good LD's. I just don't talk like "hey baby want me to grind on you and make you feel good"? I just can't . or throw myself At them at the bar. I just do it when and where is appropriate. you know? I don't like to be fondled at the bar or sit in custy's laps unless they're a reg that i've given dances to before ( I can sit on a leg for a min if he's a gentleman)

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    They tend to be picky assholes who are looking for the trampies extras girl anyway, since they are there all the time and know who does it.
    This is usually true.
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    Well, do you want to appeal to the guys looking for trampy girls?

    There are guys looking for classy girls and they will treat you with respect. And they are definitely not into the trampy girls. Cater to your target market.

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    hey girl, do not believe what customers say to you, like for us custormers should never believe what the girls tell us. Also the girls may not be attractive to you, but not the customers.

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    It is better to work in a club that all the girls are on the same level looks wise. If you are a 10 and you are working with 5-6s then you may get a lot of compliments from the customers, but you aren't really what they were looking for in that particular club.

    Some customers want really uber beautiful women to look at, others like the idea of the average woman being naked and sexy and expressing herself. You just have to be in the right place for the right fantasy in this business.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    Well, do you want to appeal to the guys looking for trampy girls?

    There are guys looking for classy girls and they will treat you with respect. And they are definitely not into the trampy girls. Cater to your target market.
    That is what I would have said. The trampiest girl in my club has now taken to running around in a little stripper skirt and NO UNDERWEAR. (We all wear panty hose, so it's not as bad as it sounds, but still pretty bad!) I am on the classy end, and have been wearing slacks suits and dresses that you could wear on the street (and in fact I frequently do dress at home or at the gym and only change my shoes wehn I get to work!). Well, guess which one of us made MORE money the last two days, and even had a line forming for dances tonight??

    THe guys you attract with the classy look generally have MORE money than the ones who go for the trampy look. The tramp fans are usually nasty bargain hunters and creppy extras seekers who you don't want to cultivate anyway.


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    sorry to say but in this biz.. it pays to be a raunchy little whore... i found that out over the years...

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    Quote Originally Posted by tragic-beauty
    sorry to say but in this biz.. it pays to be a raunchy little whore... i found that out over the years...
    No kidding.

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    Well - are you making more money in lapdancing? What percentage of income in your club is from stage tipping? Maybe you would do better to be a little less "classy" on stage - and I feel honour bound to mention here that "classy" doesn't mean what it used to mean. "Classy" now has connotation of cheap and tawdry that is trying too hard. Anyway - back to the point. If stage tipping is a small part of income in your club and you feel that your "classiness" is very advantageous to you in getting laps and lap related tips, and that forgoing that attitude, even only on stage will be detrimental, then screw it. If stage tippingis significant at your club and you feel like you can safely let it go, even a little, you might consider it. I've personally never seen a "classy" stage show that I like - I prefer a whole lot of energy, goofiness and interaction. The girls who think they are a naked Pavlova - well, they don't bug me exactly, but it has limited appeal, in my experience.
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    ^ I'll second that.

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    I've found it works to act "classy" on the floor to weed out any of the customers who want to bargain for the dances and the dance quality, but to be raunchy on stage. This way you still get tipped by the majority of the guys and, to the folks who think of you as "classy", you seem to have a wild streak, if that makes sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alicia0033
    thanks katrine, now by this i don't mean i don't give sensual good LD's. I just don't talk like "hey baby want me to grind on you and make you feel good"? I just can't .
    I don't think I could even say that with a strait face I'd fall over druing the LD.

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    No matter what you do you in the club you'll cater to a different demograghic.

    And sadly that's what most guy that come in the door are after.

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    A couple possibilities - you say the customers are club regulars... have the other girls you are talking about been there a long time, maybe it is just an ongoing thing? ... I sometimes get lds from dancers I have known a long time, simply for that reason

    Or maybe they just want a raunchier dance and that's what they are getting from the other girls...

    Does it pay to be classy? with the right customer, yes, with another, no

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    I dont tip less than $5 everytime a girl comes for the money, if they do a sexy dance I will double that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by poriland4
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