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    Ewww, I was sitting with this custy the other night and he was very polite and while i was dancing for him I lean towards him and he tried to grab my face and kiss me, I pushed him away and continued dancing but he became octupus man in like 3 secs flat so I flagged our manager Cowboy down to kick him out.....

    Has a custy ever tried to kiss you? Do you let them, sorry but it makes me want to vomit.

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    They try it a lot, usually at first I tell them no and move my face further away. After that point I have had to restrain a guy by holding him back with both hands on his neck area while I continued dancing andtelling him that if he did it again I would stop the dance. I also hate it when they stare at my face like they want to kiss me. It also makes me want to vomit.

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    One dipshit kissed me recently, it happened so fast I didn't have a chance to back away.

    I wondered why he thought that was allowed. Turn to my left and there is a dancer lips locked with the most hideous grey haired worn down track suit wearing loser ever... so that's why some guys think it's ok.

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    I think saliva is the grossest thing ever. The idea of getting customer spit in my mouth is so revolting - I really can't even just move and keep dancing, like if they try to touch me inappropriately. I pretty much just have to walk away. I never even occurred to me that other girls KISSED their customers.
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    Ew. No other words seem to fit!
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    ugh...i got shivers reading this thread. The closest to kissing a custy i have EVER gotten is kissing his cheek when he brought me a present. I can't imagine kissing a custy on the lips....makes me feel sick just thinking about it
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    gross. Guys are so terrible at our club, especially during the day because the manager is *never* back there. I've come to just forcibly holding their hands by their sides if they try to either move my hips down hard on them (c'mon! like I'll allow that if I don't do it voluntarily) or like this one guy last night who tried to smush my face with his hands so I'd kiss him. It freaked me out cuz I thought he was going to smother me. I danced really far and was really almost violent to get him to not touch me for the rest of the time I was there, but he bizarrely kept buying dances. I guess he liked me fighting him, who knows. Yech. Besides feeling like I was going to be suffocated, the other worst was a guy who, when I said *no* to kissing, tried to stick his finger in my mouth. Eww!!!!

    From now on I'm only working the evenings/weekends with the manager I like who actually does his job and shows up in the back once in a while.

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    Yes and ever since then a few bouncers think I kiss as "extras" and I tell them all the time how disgusting that is to me, but they won't even let my face anywhere near a custy's without accusing me of it anymore! I can't even let my long hair fall down over our faces during a dance or the bouncers think I am trying to cover up some NASTY kiss! EWWWW I would never!
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    yes this happened quite a few times. Many of them are Brazilian men. I don't get it. I back away immediately, they haven't succeeded. GROSS

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    I have a regular who is a major nerd, like in his late 40s, claims to be in his 30s, wears a bad tupee' (sp?) and wears the same shirt everytime i see him. He comes in once a week and spends about 200 for dances. He tried to kiss me on his 4th weekly visit, i pulled away and even pushed his face, explaining this is never acceptable. He told me, get this, " My mama says that you should get to kiss a girl on the 4th date, and this is our 4th date". WOW!! I could not believe he was that naive, I have been trying to avoid him now as i don't want a weird stalker freak, he may be innocent but also could be just crazy psycho, so i am still nice.

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    Wow. It's rare to see the words "kissing" and "vomit" in the same sentence, much less throughout a thread. What a visual.

    I think the more likely connection is, "he tried to" + "vomit." Right? It's the fact that a revolting hairy octopus is lunging at you that causes you to hurl. Or even a nice guy, presumably. He tries = vomit.

    What if he doesn't try? What if she does? Either because she wants to, is simply used to doing it, or it's part of her game.

    Kissing (even GFE kissing) is so much a part of my home club experience that I can't imagine the club without it. Admittedly, this is mostly with regulars and surely depends on who you are. But kissing is almost entirely absent in many other clubs, even high-contact ones. It's easy to see this difference because for me kissing is always dancer-initiated, so when it's not there, it's not......there. That's fine, too.

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    Now I know how to test a dancer I would be interested in regularly seeing at the club. Thanks for the tips, girls.

    Now maybe this guy was obviously repulsive, dirty and stinky. But I guess the idea is that if you don't know someone out of the club, if he wants to express affection other than by $$$, then he is a disease-ridden, perverted, exploiter, criminal. What would happen if he wants a hug instead? Anyone here ever allow a kiss if they politely ask first, other than by your long-lost uncle?
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    Ugh! I was talking to this old guy at work last night and I had my face too close to his, I guess cuz he landed one on my cheek! THe bouncers at my club are so great, I saw one heading over out of the corner of my eye until he saw everything was okay when I pulled back and the guy didn't try it again. I was like, "Don't puke, maybe he'll by a dance". And he DID... a lot of them... Ugh. I'd forgotten about that until now. Ick.
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    Ewwww....Nasty!!!! It freaks me out enough when they try to lick and suck my tits!!!
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    I don't allow kisses period. Doesn't matter if he's old and dirty or some young hot studly dude. Even if he asks ever so politely, I'm still going to reply (politely) no.

    I can't even necessarily explain why the kissing of custys=vomit.....but it does. It's just not appropriate, and I would think of it in the same light as an extra.

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    Absolutely. I would not kiss a custy for all the tea in china. It's not jsut the gross old ones, I jsut would not kiss anyone. You never know if the guy has a cold that has not yet manifested or something even worse.

    Besides that, kissing is intensely PERSONAL to me. It is about the only activity in a club where you are actaully swapping fluids.


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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    Wow. It's rare to see the words "kissing" and "vomit" in the same sentence, much less throughout a thread. What a visual.

    I think the more likely connection is, "he tried to" + "vomit." Right? It's the fact that a revolting hairy octopus is lunging at you that causes you to hurl. Or even a nice guy, presumably. He tries = vomit.

    What if he doesn't try? What if she does? Either because she wants to, is simply used to doing it, or it's part of her game.

    Kissing (even GFE kissing) is so much a part of my home club experience that I can't imagine the club without it. Admittedly, this is mostly with regulars and surely depends on who you are. But kissing is almost entirely absent in many other clubs, even high-contact ones. It's easy to see this difference because for me kissing is always dancer-initiated, so when it's not there, it's not......there. That's fine, too.
    If you're a good decent regular that i have a great time w/ I don't mind hugs or kiss on the cheek. that's about it. If I had a gun to my head I rather have my boobs and cookie played w/ than deep throat kiss someone. NO SIR

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    Hey Quaid, I'm from Vancouver! I worked for Independant though in Fort St. John and Grande Piraire (which sucked) and I have an ex in Drayton Valley :-P

    As for kissing, GROSS! Never gonna happen, I agree that's too personal. I am cool with hugs and kisses on the cheek though.
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    Excuse me while I sound like a little sissy girl...
    EWIE EWIE EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!

    OK. That sucks, I'd be pretty mad....thankfully you had a bouncer tho. And it's super disrespectful...I just love how guys have a blanket excuse. "I'm drunk/horny/just divorced/blah blah blah.."

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    I'll get and give pecks on the cheek, (or in one or two cases on the lips), with dancer's I know fairly well.

    Both they and I regard it as a courtesy, and not as a gesture with any sexual connotations. It's also a "pleased to see you" gesture.

    I would not expect to exchange "courtesy" kisses with a dancer I didn't know.

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    Kissing is definitely NOT!

    No matter the custy's fantasy or delusions the reality is even though they my buy a dance they do not buy the dancer.

    The worst that I know of regarding this was when my husband and I went to my favorite club in Edmonton, Alberta.

    We went to Diamonds Gentlemen's Club to see one of my favorite dancers and one of the girls took a man to the VIP area for a private dance. Well the SOB spat in her face because she would not do something she felt objectionable.

    The bouncer literally threw the man out and onto the pavement. My husband and I offered some comfort to her...needless to say her night was pretty much shot after that but she remained a true pro.

    The SOB was banned from the club immediately and his ID tagged for future reference.

    My husband was helping the bouncers that night and knew the guy would be trouble.

    Why do they think they can do things like that is beyond me! Just because they put money down doesn't mean they paid fo he right to do whatever they want.

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    This is my first post on this board but I am well known on TUSCL. I have had many dancers kiss me on the lips after a lap dance as an additon to "thank you". A week ago, my #2 favortie dancer was french kissing me all during our lap dances. Says she wants to hook up with me outside the club for "dinner and hang out at my hotel room". I haven't done that much kissing in 30 years. I'm 63 and she is 27. Is this just more stripper shit?

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    Quote Originally Posted by shadowcat
    Is this just more stripper shit?
    Is this just more customer shit?

    Because if it is you can keep it on TUSCL...

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    TOO is right. Either the dancer wants to kiss you or there's no way it's gonna happen.

    In my metro area, a lot of dancers will kiss guys on the cheek. Many will GF kiss regulars, sometimes even in the open. A few will GF kiss most of their customers. These are pretty girls (I don't keep track of the homelies).

    Other guys pick up on this and want GF kisses at least, but they're generally not for sale. So they try to take them. That's eewwwwww, vomit for Pinks.

    Sometimes dancers will DFK their favorites. It can be playful or passionate. People accept that.

    Sometimes drunk dancers will DFK dogs. That's eewwwww, vomit for Blues, because you know she's gonna vomit on someone sooner or later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shadowcat
    This is my first post on this board but I am well known on TUSCL. I have had many dancers kiss me on the lips after a lap dance as an additon to "thank you". A week ago, my #2 favortie dancer was french kissing me all during our lap dances. Says she wants to hook up with me outside the club for "dinner and hang out at my hotel room". I haven't done that much kissing in 30 years. I'm 63 and she is 27. Is this just more stripper shit?
    Prime example of the kinda dirt that makes me wanna puke. I knew a customer who kept pushing sex. I made soooo much money off him, I wanted to lead him on as long as possible... So I told him to get an STD test (hey, a few more days is a few more thousand bucks!). He had both kinds of herpes. Really freaked him out. Just an example here...
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