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    Sad Horrible First Night!!!!

    Today was my first shift and I tried so hard not to cry the whole time I was working....Instead I ended up balling when I got home...

    I feel so discouraged because I kept getting turned down for dances...I sold one dance all night...I obviously need to work on my hustling skills. (Tips would be greatly appreciated )I'm thinking maybe it's just this particular club that isn't for me. Hustling in this club includes any and all of the following: begging for drinks, telling the custy that he can either buy a dance OR pay you to leave, appraoching custys WHILE their at ANOTHER girl's stage (tipping her), or the infamous "wanna dance?" This is what all the girls do...except me...so I think maybe that's what I was doing wrong.



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    Default Re: Horrible First Night!!!!

    O God, I would shoot myself if I had to work in a club like that. Try out some different clubs in the area and you will probably be amazed at how much nicer they are to work at. I'm surprised that club can even keep customers in it with girls acting like that. If you do decide to stick it out you could end up banking there just by being respectful and nice to the custsys.
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    Default Re: Horrible First Night!!!!

    I totally agree, find a different club.

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    Default Re: Horrible First Night!!!!

    Sorry to hear that honey,but it was your first night,give it another chance and see what happens,maybe it will be better.If it's still the same,then like others said,try another club.

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: Horrible First Night!!!!

    First nights are always rough...don't stress out about it...and you should never have to beg for tips...from what i can tell your a gorgeous girl, they should be begging you to dance for them...its the begging for money that gives alot of dancers that poor self esteem everyone assumes we all have...you'll have a better night the next night you work...just smile, relax, and have fun!!!!
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    Shew. Sounds like you work at the club I visit. I've been "wanna dance"-ed enough that I'd be happy never to hear it ever again. Just keep your head up. Rejections happen. It happens to the biggest bankers. However, you will find your fan base. You have to keep pressing on, and not take it personally! Just always smile. Walk with your head up, a big smile, and know you're smokin hot. If you start to get down during a shift go in the back, work on your make-up, change outfits, or call someone. Take a break to do something to lift your spirits. Good luck!
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    Default Re: Horrible First Night!!!!

    Some clubs are like that...eh.
    You have a few choices:
    1) Find a club that suits you..meaning just keep trying other clubs in the area.
    2) Stick it out and find a way to stick out amongst the "wanna dance"-ers, find your stripper niche and refine your hustle. I say b/c youre new try different clothing, hustling styles (such as bubbly, sexy, sensual etc), and different stage music. Have fun and find your place amongst the girls...Dont worry everyones first night isnt the best. You have plenty of time to refine yourself.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
    -Kenpachi



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