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    Smiley So I had my tubes tied...

    I just had my tubes tied yesterday by laproscopy... and I was wondering if anyone else has had the procedure and how long it took to feel back to "normal" {whats normal anyways? lol} because I feel like CRAP! They used "Filchie clips" to crush the tube and render me unable to have anymore children.

    Also, I feel like a whole new person without a care in the world now knowing that I won't be able to produce children anymore... does this make me seem like a bad mother {I have two children, that I love with all my heart, but fuck having anymore!}. Would love to hear anyone's input.

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    OH MY GODDESS I WOULD LOVE TO BE FIXED! O_O

    Good for you for fixing yourself.

    You already have two kids but you should do what I planned to do when I got fixed.

    a - NOT HAVING A BABY - shower!!!

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    After my last daughter, I have 3 children 2 girls 1 boy, I had my tubes tied before leaving the hospital. I love knowing that I don't have to worry about getting pregnant by hubby. We don't have to think about condoms anymore or any sort of female birth-control.
    The only downside that I have faced after "getting fixed" is that my period cramps are worse than ever. The only last for a day, but are worse.

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    Well, I feel as if someone has taken a bat to my insides. Thank god for pain meds because I am in a whole new world of hurt! But on the plus side this experience has been such a relief. I have all I need now, as well as peice of mind because of the surgery. Thanks for the suggestion Lillith, I may have to look into doing something like that! Sounds like it could be fun.

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    My little sister had hers done last year, a couple months after she had her daughter: A nice, outpatient surgery. I actually yelled at her because she was up and around the same day, and the next day she drove from CT to see me in RI. She didn't take the time to rest, but she was lucky that no damage was done.

    You are definitely NOT a bad Mother for having this done. You're happy with your two, there's nothing wrong with keeping it at that. In fact, when I had my second, I FOUGHT with the doctor WHILE he was doing my C-Section, practically begging him to tie my tubes. But he refused (aside from the heavy drugs that they gave me, I was only 19) I'm glad now that I didn't do it, because I remarried and we decided to have one of our own. Wouldn't trade that for anything.

    I'll probably be looking into this myself. I'm definitely done now.. haha

    My Husband and I will probably end up flipping a coin or something-- Heads: he gets clipped, Tails: I get tied. Or something like that. Heh

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    good for you! of course you are not a bad mother. it would be a disservice to your current children if you kept having children you were not sure you could care for adequately. keeping your family the size you want it is your right, and furthermore, it is a responsible decision. you are making sure you do not stretch yourself too thin, so that you will have the proper amount of attention to give to your existing children, and so that stress and anxiety won't leave them motherless in 10 years! how could this possibly be wrong? congratulations on taking control of your life. i wish you a speedy recovery with minimal pain. Goddess bless.
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    I had mine done and healed up super quick with no complications.

    I had the surgery done on a Thursday morning. I went snowmobiling that Saturday and Sunday (complete with jumps!). I didn't use any of my pain medication.



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    I had mine done back in 1997 on a Monday and went to work cocktailing that Thursday. I didn't use my pain meds either. I didn't feel completely back to normal for about a week and half or two weeks.

    My scar is nearly invisible now. I have to really look to find it.

    I am very glad of my decision to have my tubes tied.


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    I have read that tying your tubes can cause hormonal problems and I already have fucked up hormones so I was worried about whether it might make it worse. Anyone have any input on that? I sort of wish I'd done it when I had great insurance because it would have paid for 80% of it but instead I got an IUD.

    And lilithmorgan, I have always wanted to have an "I'm not getting married or having babies" shower because everywhere I've worked they've thrown showers right and left for those getting married or pregnant but us single girls who don't want kids always get left out.

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    Bad mom? No way! My mom had hers tied a long time ago! Four was enough for her.
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    Default Re: So I had my tubes tied...

    Quote Originally Posted by poisonous101
    ...does this make me seem like a bad mother....[?] Would love to hear anyone's input.
    No, not at all... and while I will freely admit to being relatively "dense" and/or "clueless" about some such matters, am hoping it's a "mom"/female thing in this case that I'm not necessarily supposed to "get" 'cause, for the life of me just can't see where this question would come from, i.e., why would you ever think it would?

    Explain me, please? (anybody). Thx
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bunny
    I have read that tying your tubes can cause hormonal problems and I already have fucked up hormones so I was worried about whether it might make it worse. Anyone have any input on that?
    I'm not sure how it would affect hormone production or a lack there of? They don't alter the ovary itself and that's what deals with hormone production, not the fallopian tube.

    Right? Anyone else have any feedback on this?



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    Wow... thats young! The doctors didnt give you a hard time about the decission like they tend to with young women?

    Best of luck though...
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    it might alter hormone production though potential nerve damage with the laparascope.... we know remarkably little about the nerves dealing with the reproductive system, especially in women. however, this still seems like a slim chance. perhaps the damage rumor is a story about pre-laparoscopic tubal ligation? actually entering the abdominal cavity with a scalpel would be much more likely to cause damage....
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