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    What do you think about male strippers/stripping? Would you ever date them? Do you think they mess around with girls in VIP & would you be worried about disease if u were their girl? Do you think a male stripper would ever be faithful? Do you think any of them want or are in relationships?I know the answers do not apply to all strippers...but what are the generalizations in your opinion and any personal experiences?

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    Restate that whole thing with the words 'female' instead of 'male' and suddenly you have every prejudice made to female strippers. >_>

    Stereotypes are not real.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Restate that whole thing with the words 'female' instead of 'male' and suddenly you have every prejudice made to female strippers. >_>

    Stereotypes are not real.

    thats what i was thinking.

    anyways, why even ask this unless you were looking at someone specific. if you were just looking to date a male stripper i would suggest some therapy or you could try it and see how it works out it my solve your fetish.

    lets assume that you are looking at someone specific. they are a man, they are having women thrown at them everytime they work. unless they only stirp for gay men, and even then men will be throwing themselves at them. you also have to remember that people will get into the mood of things and offer money for extras. and sometimes that money is hard to pass up specially if rent is due.

    honestly unless you have something more specific, i would casually date and yes worry about diesease this should be on everyones mind. so if that means searching their medicine cabniet and writing down prescriptions to look up later may be in order. not everyone is truthful, and the risk of catching something incurable is worth the snooping in my opinion.

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    I've dated a male dancer and they are normal people who work in an enviroment just as hard as ours, sometimes worse, have you seen what women do at those places? My current SO is about to start dancing and I trust him just like he trust me that no extras will go on....

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    my only issue with dating a male stripper would be that he probably shaves below the neck, and this annoys me. (probably because i'm sicilian- men without body hair seem juvenile to me, and i feel a bit like a pedophile looking at them.) personally, i would think that if anyone knows what kind of crap strippers have to go through, it's other strippers. you already have so much in common! i don't mind sexually promiscuous men, but i am trying to always have safe sex now, so as long as he would be cool with that, i'd be happy. honestly, i don't think i believe the idea that non-sex-worker men are angels, either.... if anything, men who do do "extras" should have learned the importance of care concerning disease prevention. so many men i know have to be badgered into accepting ordinary precautions.
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    This is just a theory, dunno if it would really be true since males are, generally, more easy to get into bed than females.

    So here goes: There are fewer male strip clubs than female clubs. Therefore the masses have fewer male clubs to go to, which means that the clubs featuring male entertainers get more customers than the clubs with female entertainers, which are pretty much a dime a dozen (this goes for CA anyway). That's just supply and demand. Since the males get more patrons, they are getting better money in tips and dances. Therefore, they don't really need to perform extras, as they're making good money anyway. IF it was the extras you were worried about.

    If you're just asking if a male stripper would sleep with more women than if he were just a "regular" guy....um, no. Guys who like to sleep with lots of women will sleep with lots of women, regardless of their profession.

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    I married a male stripper and things are great! We've been together for 8 years, and no signs of any trouble, so I guess If you like the guy then go for it!


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Well, consider this!


    Male stripper gets 25 to life in sword slay



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    COLUMBUS, Ohio (AP) - A male stripper was sentenced Friday to 25 years to life in prison for killing a female impersonator with a samurai sword.

    Michael Jennings, 34, could have received the death penalty for the 2002 death of Gary McMurtry. His lawyers had asked a three-judge panel to hear the case rather than a jury because they felt judges would better understand their defense, that Jennings was insane at the time of the crime.

    OAS_AD('Button20');The judges convicted Jennings of aggravated murder, aggravated burglary and felonious assault.

    Prosecutors said Jennings, dressed in a black ninja outfit with a hood, broke into McMurtry's home, stabbed him 13 times and slashed his roommate Brian Bass with the sword when Bass confronted him.

    Jennings testified Thursday that he killed McMurtry but lied about it to police and his family for two years.

    "I did not want to admit to murder because that's not what I thought I did," Jennings said.

    He testified that he believed McMurtry, whom he had worked with for years, and another roommate, Scott Cole, were out to get him.

    "I do feel what I did was a move of self-defense," Jennings said. "I was sad and surprised that I actually did it. I didn't plan it out very well or I might have gotten away with it."

    Court records show Jennings was ruled incompetent to stand trial in December 2002 and was committed to a Columbus mental health facility, where he was injected with anti-psychotic medications under court order until he was ruled competent in February.

    He had been diagnosed with psychosis and paranoia before the attack, his lawyers said.

    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback
    Well, consider this!

    thats just stereotyping. which is wrong just because one guy did this doesnt mean that they are all like that. IF one dancer tries to give me a hand job(which i would decline, i dont like to break the law ) does that mean they all are? No.

    Your post has nothing to do with the intent of the thread. Please remove it, once removed I will remove this post.

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    i'm friends with a lot of male strippers. i dated one briefly. as hypocritical as it sounds, i hated it! occasionally he would come along to the club i was working at and watch me dance and give me feedback etc, and he was always totally supportive. then he asked me to come and watch him one night......

    i have to say i was pretty shocked. male stripping is a lot more high contact than what i was doing (i'm very strict on my no touching rules etc), and my boyfriend did a VERY raunchy show. part of his show involved crawling down a table and making out with the women sitting there as he passed them. and there's something just not right about watching another girl rubbing your boyfriend's bits on stage. i didn't enjoy it at all! i never complained to him about it, like i accepted that it was just his job..... i just didn't go to watch him again!

    other than the above mentioned boyfriend who in the end turned out to be a complete loony, all the male strippers i know are really great guys. one of them is married and has been completely faithful to his wife for 7 years. a few others are in relationships.

    just like female strippers, male strippers can be totally normal people too

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    Dunno if I'd use the word "normal" to describe me (I wouldn't!) but I'm more socially adjusted than many people I meet.

    Hey darcy - I come from Adelaide too, it's hwere I started!
    Chad Weston
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    how long ago did you leave adelaide? who did you work for here? i might know some of the people you used to work with!

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    I left early '98 and had been stripping off and on at parties and stuff. Didn't really get into it majorly until I moved to Melbourne. I go back to Adelaide semi-regularly - contacted josephine's to do a guesty but never get a response. Are you at crazy horse?
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    i've never worked at the crazy horse, i worked at 108 (across the road from the horse) for 2 and a half years, now i just do private parties for an agency called Bodz n Babz.

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    ChadW I'm at the crazy horse. Did you contact Josephines Revue or Madame Josephine?

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    regular guys with nicer bodies.

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