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    Yes, Ladies and Gentlemen...

    Peachez has lost her god-damned mind!

    My sister has been seeing a "man" (for lack of a better term) for 3 or 4 years now. This guy has never really been good to her and within the past two years it's really went down hill.
    About a year ago, they were "taking a break" for one or two months he got re-married and got the woman pregnant... to make matters worse he gave the new girl my sisters clothes that he still had around!!
    Then after that fizzled out he got back with my sis.

    He calls her a potpourri of degrading names... most of the time "Slut"

    He tells her she shouldn't dance, then bitches about her not bringing in money!
    Then she gets a job at Salvation Army and he goes to the strip club twice that month!

    He convinced her to give up her children to their father (which is her own fault). Then he wants her to take care of his baby since the Wife was deemed unfit.

    Now, for where I come into it.
    They were without transportation... my sister came to me for help so, I gave them an old car that I had. He was to make a monthly payment and promise to title it that day...

    They disappeared.
    No title, he slapped fake plates on it and my names still on the title... The car was relocated to an hour away from me.
    4 months later she calls.
    She had been living with him and his hillbilly family
    And I am not over-exaggerating on that statement....
    the house smelled like dogshit from the street!
    The back yard looked like Sanford and Son.
    I go to look at my vehicle.
    He bashed my car with a SLEDGEHAMMMER during one of their drunken brawls!!!!!!!!!

    So I am p*ssed to say the least.
    But I tried to remain reasonable because my sister said that she had a better plan.
    And he once again made an agreement (in writing this time DUH) to make a monthly payment yada yada yada
    Only this time I took his camcorder and digital camera as collateral.
    (although they are probably stolen merchandise anyhow.)

    So nothing happens. My sister is now living with me because of his continual mental abuse.
    I tell her he is to NOT come over and NOT call her on my cell phone.
    He persists in doing otherwise.

    Not to mention that when they were having issues he would call me to come pick her up.
    Then, if she called me to pick her up, he would talk sh*t about me for doing it!

    She goes to get some of her property from the hillbillys house, including her cat.

    The cat now has fleas and worms and weighs half of what it did 2 months ago!!!
    And of course her boyfriend wouldn't take it so, I had to save the day again. will I ever learn?!

    Then after all of that today he called my phone looking for her because she hasn't been speaking to him since the cat incident.

    I told him he wasn't supposed to be calling my phone.
    Then the dumbass came to my house!!!!

    So I ran outside with a baseball bat and put 3 huge dents in the hood...
    I said "Now were even, I don't want your money... go fuck yourself"

    hahahaha

    He couldn't call the cops because the plates on his car are phonies!!!

    I normally wouldn't get all Jerry Springer but there is only so far you can go before you snap!

    Now I've laid an ultimatum NO MORE RON or Goodbye~!
    And I've put a HRO on his ass!

    *sigh*

    thanks for the rant SW!
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    I think we share sisters..... mine goes after equally as stupid men.

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    Too bad I live in california... I'd offer to kill him for you... If my sister was with a guy like that... I'd pay someone to do him bodily harm. Like, lop off a limb or his penis or something. I know I shouldn't say this about hitting his car... But GOOD FOR YOU! His plates are phonies? Just call the cops. Just CALL them!
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    Peaches, you may have gone ballistic but your not a monster. The roach, whoever he is, he is the vermin that chokes life from others to feed his own. A real vampire. I happen to have a few wooden stakes if you will but show me the grave.

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    You are gonna have to shake your sister off to the side until she deals with what she see's in that guy. He is a destructive and manipulative person. I have experience with such a person myself but with the XX chromosomes.

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    Well.. I loaned my sister money when she went to college by co signing on a loan.. a small loan (I ranted here a few months back).. lesson learned.. I'll never help anyone, including family. My own damn sister and I can't trust her for anything.

    Sorry SP.. I hope that your sister gets her act together, first by kicking that loser to the curb. And DON'T Bail her out next time...


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    It's my opinion that the "victim" in these scenarios is just as bad as the "perpetrator". The abusers can't take advantage and abuse if no one lets them. There's a reason so many of these "victims" are perpetual victims - they are attracted to abusers/losers. They will only stop finding them when they own up and take steps to make changes within themselves.

    SP, why haven't you blocked this asshole's number so he can't keep calling you? Why answer his calls? And why answer the door when he comes around? Why not call the cops also?

    Your sister needs to look at what kind of people she's attracted to. You need to stop enabling her to be a loser with them - every time you bail her out, you encourage her to continue on the same crappy path. Don't let her and her asshole push you like that. It's not good for anybody.

    Ugh that guy sounds disgusting. I guess you could say your sis is at least attracted to a Class A Professional Loser and not just a standard petty loser. Heh. I'd probably see about getting a restraining order against the jerkwad. At the very minimum put him on permanent ignore. These dudes often find someone else to bug once they figure out they're not getting anywhere with you anymore.


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    It's my opinion that the "victim" in these scenarios is just as bad as the "perpetrator".
    Amen.
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    Bridgette hit the nail on the head... by bailing her out you are an enabler. I went through this with my best friend until finally I just gave up trying to help her. I told her I love her and dont want to see her hurt but she needs to help herself.. I cant do it anymore. I would get mad, stressed, upset because she was.. it wasnt fair to ME. She DID learn.. thank gosh and went and got her license (shes 24) got a job.... and is planning her "escape". Some people will never learn and always play the "victim". Some will finally wise up and start helping themselves.

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    Peachez, there is a very simple, rational solution to all of this.

    I will hire a couple of wranglers from Fort Worth to hogtie his sorry ass and leave him in the parking lot at Darlington Raceway wearing only a jock strap, high heels, and a t-shirt that says "Dale Earnhardt was a sissy".
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    get your sister into therapy. have a restraining order filed on her behalf and yours, and whenever it is violated, call the cops. if necessary, seek placement in a domestic violence shelter for her. verbal abuse is abuse, though i seriously doubt that that's all that's going on in this situation.


    now my turn to rant.


    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    It's my opinion that the "victim" in these scenarios is just as bad as the "perpetrator". The abusers can't take advantage and abuse if no one lets them.
    excuse me? i dearly hope you don't mean that. it is this kind of mentality that lets rapists get let off becaue the victims were wearing short skirts. it's this kind of thinking that allows people to call women who are raped and bear resultant children out of wedlock "whores". it's these ideas that keep women snapping viciously at other women who refuse to sit back and take it, who stir up trouble for everyone else by complaining, when their bosses harrass them, their coworkers grope them, or yes, even their clients at the SC gang up and rape them. because, after all, they were asking for it, right? and they rocked the boat and got the rest of us wet, too. they had the nerve to be born with vaginas, so who gives a shit. women are pussies. hell, that's where the name came from! and so what if they're told every day of their lives that they're worthless? so what if they're beaten every night until they fear for their lives? so what if he threatens her children, keeps her from eating, rapes her every time he feels the urge. so what if he outweighs her by 100 lbs. she should have fought back. she should have been stronger. it's her own damned fault if she ends up dead, i guess. after all, women are never innocent victims, are they? we're always guilty of something. no matter who mutilates us, we always deserve it.
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    venus

    If you read the first post again, you'll see that she was free of this guy, and then went back to him after he got married, knocked up his wife, then left his wife. Sounds to me like she was complicit in this whole matter.

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    ^Exactly. It helps if posts are read in their entirety. It helps to see where the responding posters are coming from, and why the respond the way they do.

    B said it best. You can't be a victim repeatedly, unless you allow it to happen. "Fool me once.. Shame on you.. Fool me twice.. Shame on me."

    SP.. I too, hope that your sister gets it together, and keeps this guy gone--for good.

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    I have one word for your sis..... SUCKER. Stay away from her if she won't receive any help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by venusofwillendorf
    excuse me? i dearly hope you don't mean that. it is this kind of mentality that lets rapists get let off becaue the victims were wearing short skirts. it's this kind of thinking that allows people to call women who are raped and bear resultant children out of wedlock "whores". it's these ideas that keep women snapping viciously at other women who refuse to sit back and take it, who stir up trouble for everyone else by complaining, when their bosses harrass them, their coworkers grope them, or yes, even their clients at the SC gang up and rape them. because, after all, they were asking for it, right? and they rocked the boat and got the rest of us wet, too. they had the nerve to be born with vaginas, so who gives a shit. women are pussies. hell, that's where the name came from! and so what if they're told every day of their lives that they're worthless? so what if they're beaten every night until they fear for their lives? so what if he threatens her children, keeps her from eating, rapes her every time he feels the urge. so what if he outweighs her by 100 lbs. she should have fought back. she should have been stronger. it's her own damned fault if she ends up dead, i guess. after all, women are never innocent victims, are they? we're always guilty of something. no matter who mutilates us, we always deserve it.
    I hate to quote all that but WTF, over?

    This is not the 1950's women can come forward now and find help. Hell how many guys would be willing to help out a woman just for the fact he might be able to get some? There are women abuse shelters, yeah they suck but when you realize that you are not the only one who is in a situation it makes you feel better.

    Now lets try a test:

    I told Dani, that I was going to leave her, marry someone else, knock them up, give the new wife all her old clothes, then decide i dont like my new wife, get back with dani(this is where I got hit), tell her she has to take care of my child(i got a bruise now), and that she can tell her sisters to fuck off(i'm on the floor being kicked).

    Now that my experiment is over and im bleeding you should see that people need to stand up for themselves. Sadly there are people who prey upon submissive people. Enroll your sister in a woman's self defense class, get a restraining order, and call in your stolen car to the police.

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    i did read the post in its entirety. however, i happen to know that many women living in abusive situations can become convinced of their own worthlessness and their abusers' love for them. it is very easy for manipulative and unethical people to brainwash those that are weaker than them. regardless of the fact that she was not physically restrained, she was apparently under the erroneous impression that this person is somehow truly devoted to her. regardless of how obviously false this is, blaming the victim does NOT solve anything. it only further aggravates the disgusting condition of this society that allows these situations to come about in the first place. perhaps she is a weak and foolish person. but that does not mean she deserves what is being done to her.
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