Recently I have dropped about 15 lbs, treated myself to some highlights, and have become way more comfortable dancing onstage. Overall I am doing better financially and the club regulars have taken notice of the overall positive changes. Hooray!
Now for the bad news...
Some of the other girls' regulars want to be MY regulars now too. Now I don't go around chasing after other girl's regulars and twisting their arms to visit me. They come in and invite me to their tables and pursue the relationship on their own. One of the girls is pissed, saying behind my back that I "stole" her customer. I'm not one to step on other dancers' toes, but I always thought it was the customer's call as far as who he wants to spend time and $$ with while ITC. (FYI... When she is not there, he comes in to see me. If the other dancer and I are both there, then he will spend his time with her ( which is totally OK by me...after all he was her customer first). ) She and I do not usually work the same hours, but she also gets pissed if he throws $$$ on my stage despite the fact that she isn't even working there the same time I am. WTF?
I also know that her customer is not very happy with visiting her anymore, stating that she keeps treating him, in his words, like a human ATM machine.
She and I haven't seen each other since her customer started visiting me, but I am sure she is going to have something to say to me about it when we do meet next time at the club.
Fighting about this is not an option. I want to handle this well. Has this happened to anyone else here?
Thanks for input.





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