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    There was a thread about this awhile back and my take on it then was bring on the female customers, since up till last night, it was mostly couples, and older females at that, who really wanted to have a good time. They would tip on stage and get dances and flirt with dancers and just look like they were having a grand time.

    However, last night we went to a local club, and at least 25% ot the customers were females, many under 21, not many tipping, just kinda standing around looking, giggling. Many of them were dressed up, and many were pretty hot. Sometimes I had no idea who the dancers and who the customers were. The place was crowded and it seemed to not have as many dancers as usual so getting a dance was a problem, I had to be much more aggressive than usual. Tipping on stage was pointless, since not a single girl I tipped on stage asked me for a dance, wierd.

    Sorry I digressed. I think I am going to have to change my position on this one, escorted females only please. I also heard, that at this club unescorted females also get in free. Bottom line, I don't think I'll be going back any time soon. If I wanna see girls that young, I'll go to the mall.

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    Tipping on stage was pointless, since not a single girl I tipped on stage asked me for a dance, wierd.
    Here's a clue that always seems to work for me:

    IF YOU WANT A DANCE FROM A CHICK, ASK HER.
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    are you a dancer or a custy? Seems like as a custy, a crowded night at a nice club that was friendly / safe / welcoming to females would be better than a slow night, being the only lady amongst a bunch of trench-coat creepy types.

    I'm a custy myself (male) and have noticed that this IS sometimes troubling... but from what I've seen, I'm certain that even the straightest dancer enjoys the audience of beautiful young women who dress up and wear perfume more than they like drunk, fat old men with bad breath and B.O. ... even if the latter is leaking cash and the chicks are cheap.

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    I'd rather they quit letting so many chicks in. They often turn the mood of the room to something more like a nightclub than a stripclub. Too many chicks kills a room.

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    when i was working in a club, we used to have a real problem with a few certain security guards who would encourage groups of hot 18 year old girls to come in. they'd fill up tables at the front, not spend any money on drinks or dances, and they'd either squeal and giggle every time they saw a naked girl, or roll their eyes in disgust and call us "sluts". because of this, most of us dancers would tend to completely avoid any girls who came in at all, even if they may have been intending to buy dances. it's a shame that silly little idiots like that ruin it for the girls who are legitimate, interested customers

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    If you're talking about where I work, I noticed a lot of female customers there last time I was able to work (Egads, 2 weeks ago?)... I dont mind them based on appearance and gender, but its when they go and dont tip, make guys pay for their drinks... its basically like having us there, but in jeans.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    Here's a clue that always seems to work for me:

    IF YOU WANT A DANCE FROM A CHICK, ASK HER.
    WORD!

    When I was in Portland, OR recently, my SO and I came in with a few hundred to spend. I had to chase chicks down, but I'm used to that now, since even when I WAS dancing and I went to clubs and worked at them, couples really spend very little.

    I pity the chicks that let their men drag them there kicking and screaming and admire the ones that just let themselves have some fucking fun!
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    Sheesh, sorry you had such a shitty night; however, I second the "if you want a dance, ask" suggestion. That's the only way I was able to get dance before the girls started realizing I was there to see them. Too many drunk bachelors can also ruin the room. Too many of something can easily ruin the room. Those kind of female customers give us legitimate ones a bad name. One rotten apple...
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    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    There was a thread about this awhile back and my take on it then was bring on the female customers, since up till last night, it was mostly couples, and older females at that, who really wanted to have a good time. They would tip on stage and get dances and flirt with dancers and just look like they were having a grand time.

    However, last night we went to a local club, and at least 25% ot the customers were females, many under 21, not many tipping, just kinda standing around looking, giggling. Many of them were dressed up, and many were pretty hot. Sometimes I had no idea who the dancers and who the customers were. The place was crowded and it seemed to not have as many dancers as usual so getting a dance was a problem, I had to be much more aggressive than usual. Tipping on stage was pointless, since not a single girl I tipped on stage asked me for a dance, wierd.

    Sorry I digressed. I think I am going to have to change my position on this one, escorted females only please. I also heard, that at this club unescorted females also get in free. Bottom line, I don't think I'll be going back any time soon. If I wanna see girls that young, I'll go to the mall.
    I don't go into any club or bar where the guy pays but the chicks get in free. Same goes for drink prices. Just a bunch of snobs with entitlement issues. (Made even more obvious by their lack of tipping.)

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    Default Re: Too Many Female Custies!

    which club?

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    Yes Paige and Velvet, it was Lido. We had a rockin' time there two weeks ago and I did not notice all the youg girls.

    As for asking for dances, yes I did ask for a few dances, but hey maybe I am just an old fashioned guy who believes the in the SC it is the girls who do the asking not the guys. If I am at a regular bar then the roles are reversed. To me it is that simple. Now, if the girl is asking, and she just hasn't gotten around to me, then I will flag her over. But if she just gets off stage and wanders around I don't ask, but then again with that attitude the dance probably would have stunk anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    I'd rather they quit letting so many chicks in. They often turn the mood of the room to something more like a nightclub than a stripclub. Too many chicks kills a room.
    Bam! You hit the nail on the head!

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    Well sorry about your exp. I was a recent SC custy, & found the club & girls lacking. They were mostly VERY attractive looking. Went w/a male acquaintence. He DID ask more than 1 girl to come back (we had just sat down). Not one he asked did. They basically just walked up & asked us to tip. He tipped, I didn't, (sorry you gotta do a lil' more than just demand $ from me, I have "friends" that do that, @ least they work me first). We sat a couple rows back from stage. Btw, I come from a similar type of place, VERY tiny, we never did LD's just walked/worked the room for $1.00 tips, so I get it. This place has a new Vip set to open so maybe they weren't interested in us fo that reason. It was also ladies night, I saw a fair amt. of ladies (m/b escorted tho). I doubt my male companion will ever return there, can't say I blame him. I know they need to make $, but a lil' fantasy, please. not a long convo, but ya know.


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    please allow me to join you in my disgust at these women, not as a hopeful dancer, but as a potential female customer myself. you see, i am planning on dragging my slightly shy boyfriend around to several clubs. i am bisexual, and we have an open relationship, so i will be perfectly happy to watch lovely women and pay them generously for the privelege, and of course, will not make any scenes should my boyfriend do the same, but rather, encourage him. however, so many dancers have been exposed to women with no manners that i am afraid it will take a little while to make it clear that i am there to tip generously and generally watch the women in awe! i hate how those other women act- they're ruining it for the rest of us! some clubs are even banning women. well, i like pussy, too, dammit, and i should get to pay to see lovely women provided that i'll be nice and follow the rules!
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    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    However, last night we went to a local club, and at least 25% ot the customers were females, many under 21, not many tipping, just kinda standing around looking, giggling.
    You're probably noticing the females because their presence in the strip club seems a bit more peculiar, but the males that brought them in are every bit as much a bum spender (and a hell of a lot more annoying). The last time that I was in a club like this, I remember one asshole who was going WOOOOOOO!!! about every thirty seconds. I got one lap dance with a gal (whom I had to flag down four times) that preceded to be mediocre because drunken douchebags kept bumping into us on the way to the bathroom.

    The problem IMO isn't so much letting in too many females, but letting in too many college aged punks who see the way that SC's are presented in popular culture and think that screaming, hooting, and hollering are part of the fun. Never mind, its taking those of us who come there to drop three digit sums of money want to head for the door, never to return.


    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    As for asking for dances, yes I did ask for a few dances, but hey maybe I am just an old fashioned guy who believes the in the SC it is the girls who do the asking not the guys.
    I'm in agreement with you that it should be the dancer's job to ask, but lets face it, dancers aren't mind readers, and many of them are young gals who are poorly trained, so it helps to take the inititave. If you're having trouble attracting attention, you'd be surprised how your luck will change once you've established yourself as a spender. You also might want to try your luck on a weeknight.
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    Default Re: Too Many Female Custies!

    Existing thread with similar topic....

    "Why am I suddenly seeing more women customers?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28799
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    I was at my fave club the other day, and couldn't help but notice at a nearby table a group of 5 or 6 LOUD young women (& their BF's) that were just hootin & hollerin constantly, having a grand old time....actually started to give me a headache. At least they seemed to be tipping. I think it has been the only time to date that I wasn't happy with other female customers in the club. But you don't ban an entire group of people (female) from an establishment because of the poor behaviour of a few.....it's a knee-jerk reaction to a problem. If that were the case, I guess you'd also have to ban men because of the drunken, slobberly, grabby behaviour of a few.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    You're probably noticing the females because their presence in the strip club seems a bit more peculiar, but the males that brought them in are every bit as much a bum spender (and a hell of a lot more annoying).
    Actually I was complaining, yes I know I am complaining, not about the escorted females, as they were fine, sitting with the SO having fun, tipping, but rather a large number of very young (under 21 by the X marks on their hands) attractive girls who basically just stood around and crowded up the room. None of them getting dances, and some of them tipping, but overall it just made it more like a bar and less like a strip club. You can usually tell the off hours dancers, as they know all the other dancers, these were just lookie-loos.

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    You seem to be focusing on the "escorted" factor here....I don't know about you, but if I had a choice of sharing a club with "escorted" GF/wife's that were bitchy, snotty & belligerant toward the dancers, or with a group of "unescorted' females that were at least in the club because they wanted to be there,and were respectful to the dancers & occasionally tipped, I know which group I would choose (as would most dancers, I expect).

    I know that there are plenty of well behaved couples out there. Same goes for groups of young women & men.
    But there will always be people that you don't like. Oh well. Gotta take the bad with the good.

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    I don't like it when a lot of women come in together and sit RIGHT by the stage...last week on a Saturday afternoon a group came in to give their boss a surprise party...fine, no problem, but these older women were there and the whole gang sat up in the perv row. No one ever really tips in our area anyway, but I feel uncomfortable dancing naked in front of some of these women. They look at me not like I'm sexy but like I'm a zoo animal or a circus act...I know this might generalize, but it's not pleasant for the dancer. Bridgette's right, it totally kills the mood. I felt so uncomfortable dancing in front of them. They wouldn't even smile...they reminded me of my mother (*shudders*).

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    well i was out of town this weekend. it is very slow here in brevard right now. they probley just had nothing else to do. i worked there last week and i really didnt notice any more girls than usual.

    btw how do we keep missing each other?

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    i'm surprised they were under 21 as i heard they are now charging the 18-20's 25 bucks to get in!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cpeters1
    As for asking for dances, yes I did ask for a few dances, but hey maybe I am just an old fashioned guy who believes the in the SC it is the girls who do the asking not the guys. If I am at a regular bar then the roles are reversed. To me it is that simple.

    And see, here I thought I was old fashioned... thinking that we have a stage and dance on it to show ourselves off so customers can pick out who they'd like to get a dance from. Kinda like putting cars on a showroom floor....


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    I'm very intimidated by groups of women at the club. If it were up to me, they wouldn't be there. Too many times they are sitting there sizing us up, saying who is "too fat", "too skinny", "too fake", etc. The guys are just happy to see a naked chick, and if she's not his type, will be way more polite about it than the women. Plus women will look at you like you have three heads if you want a tip for your dance and you are not the one they have collectively chosen as their favorite (usually the pole tricks girl because at least that they can sorta admire in a circus freak way). And somehow they think that one dollar is sufficient for the whole group. I won't even approach them anymore because I have sufferened through too much scrutinization and humiliation for way too llittle money.

    And if they are the "cool" girls who tip everyone...they are even more annoying because they want you "to work for it" (because if you are just a lowly stripper, they are going to make sure you feel like the freak show they think you are). I don't clap like a circus seal for a dollar. No, you don't get to bark orders at me to "spin around" so you can pull my g-string all the way out until it snaps into place on the dollar. You cannot smack my ass or grab my tits. And yes I will get pissed off if you do.

    I feel bad for male strippers.

    And to the chicks who are just there trying to get the customers to buy you drinks...GET OUT! it's bad enough when dancers do this. And the customers aren't going to talk to us as long as you're chatting them up for free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    I'm very intimidated by groups of women at the club. If it were up to me, they wouldn't be there. Too many times they are sitting there sizing us up, saying who is "too fat", "too skinny", "too fake", etc. The guys are just happy to see a naked chick, and if she's not his type, will be way more polite about it than the women. Plus women will look at you like you have three heads if you want a tip for your dance and you are not the one they have collectively chosen as their favorite (usually the pole tricks girl because at least that they can sorta admire in a circus freak way). And somehow they think that one dollar is sufficient for the whole group. I won't even approach them anymore because I have sufferened through too much scrutinization and humiliation for way too llittle money.

    And if they are the "cool" girls who tip everyone...they are even more annoying because they want you "to work for it" (because if you are just a lowly stripper, they are going to make sure you feel like the freak show they think you are). I don't clap like a circus seal for a dollar. No, you don't get to bark orders at me to "spin around" so you can pull my g-string all the way out until it snaps into place on the dollar. You cannot smack my ass or grab my tits. And yes I will get pissed off if you do.

    I feel bad for male strippers.

    And to the chicks who are just there trying to get the customers to buy you drinks...GET OUT! it's bad enough when dancers do this. And the customers aren't going to talk to us as long as you're chatting them up for free.
    Dang! You sound like a guy going off about women!

    Maybe now some of ya all will have some sympathy for what guys have to go through dealing with the Y chromo challenged (that would A FEMALE.) [Iz a joke - iz a joke - common I kid - I kid! We be friends OK?)

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    heh, yeah, I don't envy the men trying to pick up women! We're vicious, but no matter how bad we are to you, women are worse with other women.

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