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    Is my man on Drugs?

    Ive been dating this guy for two years now. At first it was tons of fun dating a known bad boy. Only I didnt know just how much trouble this guy would be. Now hes in legal hot water and Mr. Trouble is one big problem. Hes an emotional wreck. Understandable, his whole life was uprooted. But it seems like Im doing all the supporting and getting none in return. Hes never been supportive of my career even though I was a dancer long before we met. All of his associates are obviously long time drug users. He admits as much but says in order to 'hustle' any money of his own(and not live off mypussy money as he calls it) he has to befriend these people. And now people in my neighborhood have come to me sayingthings like "arent you aware that hes doing meth?" "Dont you know hes On Dope?" Maybe they think he is because of the people he associates with. Hes never done drugs in front of me. He knows I dont want to be with a man who does drugs. But sometimes his pupils seem unusually small. Sometimes He gets this violent temper out of nowhere. Sometimes he doesnt come home till six in the morning(always with an excuse though). And last weekend he was gone all weekend supposedly helping someone with electrical work. He hands me a jewelry box on his return with what looks like a two carot diamond inside. I noticed i could see the lines on my palm through the rock. I took it to the pawn shop to have it checked And the guy behind the counter almost laughed me out of there. Well I confronted him that night and said he was as fake as the diamond. So He tells me the real diamond is at the jewlers being set and he just didnt want to wait to see the smile on my face. He had the nerve to get mad at me for not playing along. I gave my heart and my home to this Idiot and Ive been planning for six months now to move to Hawaii with him. And I still plan on moving to Hawaii. I feel all uprooted and confused and hurt and lied too. Im pretty sure he doesnt have a real diamond waiting for me at the jewlers. Im pretty sure hes on drugs.

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    From my own past experiances. Yes, he's on drugs. Let's put it this way... When random girls call his phone, it's not because his FRIENDS gave out his number. When the "engagement ring" gets checked out because one of your friends says it looks fake and it turns out fake and when confronted, he lies and says someone ripped him off... and then doesn't persue it when you tell him that's illegal... He bought you a fake ring. When his friends use and sell, so does he... Trust me. Meth is a very addictive drug. You know how I found out about my ex doing it? I asked him if he wanted to do some. He agreed and called one of his friends. I didn't leave him right then, but I left the drugs with him that night... and him soon afterwards.
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    Trust your instincts.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
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    Far NorCal? Yep, he's on meth. (My hometown held the Guinness Book World Record for Largest Meth Bust in the late 80s...sad, really.)
    Yep, screw him. Move out, get to Hawaii ASAP. I feel for you. You gave him a chance, he blew it. Meth addicts have a 90% relapse rate. Never go near him again.

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    Default Re: Is my man on Drugs?

    Why were you in DENIAL so long? Look inward.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    You dance in Humbolt? Come north to Oregon (Portland in particular) until you can afford to get to Hawaii, and away from any drug activity. If you stay around it for too long, you may end up in a bad spot either financially or legally. Being a stripper does not look good to the cops, even if you had nothing to do with it.

    There are several dancer at the Tip Top who travel regualrly to Bend, and they do quite well there dancing. If you need to escape and work up some seed money you are very close to a good alternative to Humbolt.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    If he's doing/dealing drugs...just you living with him will make you ripe for arrest, as well. Guilty by association. I've never known anyone to "be friends" with dealers for "shits and giggles". And, dealers don't have friends...they have drug runners/makers. GET OUT OF THERE!

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    Robin, i think you answered your own question.

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    Meth is bad. RUN

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    Hawaii Has a huge Meth problem too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    You dance in Humbolt? Come north to Oregon (Portland in particular) until you can afford to get to Hawaii, and away from any drug activity. If you stay around it for too long, you may end up in a bad spot either financially or legally. Being a stripper does not look good to the cops, even if you had nothing to do with it.

    There are several dancer at the Tip Top who travel regualrly to Bend, and they do quite well there dancing. If you need to escape and work up some seed money you are very close to a good alternative to Humbolt.

    Thanks Paris. Ive been considering Bend as an alternative. I have a five year old son and I dont think I want this place to influence him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerNTampa
    Hawaii Has a huge Meth problem too...
    I always thought paridise would be a much cleaner and safer place to live.

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    Quote Originally Posted by robinbanks
    I always thought paridise would be a much cleaner and safer place to live.
    She's right. Google meth and Hawaii and you'll get all sorts of hits. It's called "batu" out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by robinbanks
    I always thought paridise would be a much cleaner and safer place to live.

    hawaii?! yeah alot of that stuff doesnt get put in the news because its "paradise". There are neighborhoods in hawaii i was ordered not to go into due to violence againsnt gringo looking guys like me.

    and meth is HUGE, almost as big as those somian fuckers damn 7' tall bastards. i still got the scar on my face where i got hit by one at a party.

    but then again crime is everywhere. stick to waikiki, dont go downtown at night and stay off hotel street. keep to the east side of the island. or if you goto the windward side kaneohe, or kailua is nice too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer
    Why were you in DENIAL so long? Look inward.
    Hes a pretty good liar. Actually the first time I met him one of his friends told me what a good liar he is. Why didnt I listen? I guess I just thought his friend was trying to make him look bad so hed have a chance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TJAndDani
    hawaii?! yeah alot of that stuff doesnt get put in the news because its "paradise". There are neighborhoods in hawaii i was ordered not to go into due to violence againsnt gringo looking guys like me.

    and meth is HUGE, almost as big as those somian fuckers damn 7' tall bastards. i still got the scar on my face where i got hit by one at a party.

    but then again crime is everywhere. stick to waikiki, dont go downtown at night and stay off hotel street. keep to the east side of the island. or if you goto the windward side kaneohe, or kailua is nice too.
    Thanks for the advice. Im still moving to Hawaii with out Mr. Trouble. I think Ill be alright aslong as I meet some nice fellow potheads.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveSexMoney
    She's right. Google meth and Hawaii and you'll get all sorts of hits. It's called "batu" out there.
    Isn't meth called "ice" as well?

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    yeah he's on it take from a old meth head. I never got seriously addicted liek years or anything but I have seen it all. I have even seen my bestfriend neglect her two children. I actually had to move them out of the house and tell her husband I was just doing them a nice favor but I confronted her with the truth. Once they finally get you to do it there will be no turning back and you will find a downward spiral you never believed you could be in and the only thing that makes it easy to keep going is more meth which is the sickest part of it. My husband was a addict when I married him he ha lied to me I spent 9 pregnant months ont he phone with cops, his dealers, his mom, the crisis line but I savedd this retarded mother fuckers life so my daughter wouldn't have some dad in jail and on drugs. It's worked out well for me since he's been clean since a week before my daughters birth we did slip once together with the above mentioned friend but I quickly recovered (as in after doing it once WITH my daughter with my parents for the weekend thank god no hard done) Now I personally am trying to kick my weed habit since it no longer relieves my anxiety just makes it worse! Be Careful how you break this guy off, Tweakers will jack you blind. My husband when high has taken a Ax to his parents garage and thats just one example. It is BIG everywhere... also my town was making a third of the nations meth in the early 90's according to D.A.R.E. so I know it first hand it took my bestfriends life for 8 years and she is just now 2 years clean. It can happen to the best of people.

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    Drugs or not. Lose the Zero and Get with a Hero.

    You don't sound convinced of any of his shit, nothing we're going to do but point that out!

    You can, however, touch my bat.

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    okay, first you need to take care of right now, and if you think he is in any kind of trouble, with anyone, make sure you do not have your money in the house. Put it in the bank or in a safe deposit box at the bank. A friend of mine got her house searched because of her boyfriend and they confiscated her $10, 000 she had hidden as drug money.

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    I won't beat around the bush.... he is on drugs, whether or not you believe anything from any of these posts. He is involved in a drug game. Anyone that is will lie about there use. I spent years of my life involved with people that were in the "dope game". No matter how much they tell you they aren't anymore, it only takes one time to get them involved again. You have a child that is old enough to see whats going on. Help him out; get away from the scene. Being a stripper will only make you an easy target for when the shit goes down and you could risk losing your son. Take the advice of everyone on here and get yourself away from it before you get involved any deeper.
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    I wouldn't even wait to go to Hawaii, I would go NOW!

    Pack some stuff for you and kiddo; grab all the cash you can, CC's, anything and move. Go to a nice hotel or even move out of the state. Because if he is on meth, and you don't leave; your already dead and don't know it.

    I know that's harsh, but it's true. He a time bomb waiting for the last second to go off. You DO NOT want to be around when he does, nor do you want your kiddo there either.

    Damn, I hate to tell anyone to be a snitch or to narc out anybody; but your life is at stake here. As a last resort go to the cops, tell them what's going on. They might even be able to do that protective custody thing.

    Anything to protect you and your child. You two come first.

    I wish you the best of luck. You have a hell of a road ahead of you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Xx cam whxre xX
    Isn't meth called "ice" as well?
    Yes.

    Are you crazy?! Don't go anywhere with that motherfucker! ESPECIALLY an island!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Does he use a hair product by Tigi called The Manipulator??? It's all over him. RUN; especially since you have a child and the dude lives with you. You really need to get out fast before the shit hits the fan and he goes CRAZY and you're in the middle. Good luck. Been there, done that. Mom once told me" If it looks like a fish, it smells like a fish, and it swims like a fish, then it's a fish." Take Mom's advice. She's NEVER been wrong about anything she's ever advised me of!

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    The shits already starting to hit the fan. Now theres been accusations that he was involved with a home invasion,wtf? He denied it but im outta here just the same. Its just too fishy for me anymore.

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