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    Default Flirtin' With The Help

    Okay, so I've notice a serious problem with myself. Whenever I'm at work, I flirt... With EVERYONE! I think it's my persona I slip into? I don't know. Yes, the girls... but all the girls seem to do that... especially after a few drinks. The real problem is with the bouncers. Seriously. I did it again last night. I think a lot of them think I'm serious. I work at a peepshow, too... But that's not so bad.

    What do I do? How do I go back and say... "Oops? Sorry, I just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm just a little unstable right now? Um... Sorry I'm such a dumbass."?

    Please tell me someone else has this problem?
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Default Re: Flirtin' With The Help

    Umm.. I don’t have that problem but sounds like you simply need to diferenciate who is flirt worthy and who is not.

    After all, it is work


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    Yeah, I've never felt like flirting with coworkers but I've noticed that alot of girls at my club will be all over the bouncers/DJ/ manager and then act real cold with the customers. Like they'll be grinding on the bouncer but give the customers air dances. I've always found this strange but I guess we all have our own opinion.

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    Nope, I'm equally flirty and friendly with everyone. I just... I don't know... I guess I figured the guys who work there were used to it.
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    Guys love to be flirted with. The guy at the Post Office today was as cute as pie with me because I had a Booby Top on (I swear it was over a hundred degrees F outside, I was wearng that shirt for ME)...but anyways, in the SC business, you have to be careful.
    To my total embarassment, a bouncer I slept with blabbed about it to his co-workers, and then they were on me like white on rice. I don't think he meant harm, but still, it made me feel bad.
    Why not take up a few hobbies where you can interact with non-SC males and flirt without fear of a bite in the butt? Something harmless like Gym, or Book Club.

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