First off I've dated alot of dancers , this seems to be mostly what I attract so its not a choice its a circumstance.
I'm not saying its a statis symbol in fact if given the choice I try to avoid being involved romanticaly with women in the adult industry because of the drama that usually follows , but that being said I also believe you cant pick who you attract, who you are attracted to or who you fall in love with so if the right woman came along and she was a dancer so be it .
now how I seem to end up with dancers so often ? That I dont know.
I'm not especially good looking , I dont make tons of money , and all in all I'm just an average joe.
My theory is that its just because I'm a night person , most of the jobs I've had are night jobs so thats who I come into contact with . I've worked in SC's and reguler clubs on and off since the early 90's so maybe its just law of averages at play .
plus because of the hours I usually work its very hard to keep a relationship with a woman who works 9-5.
reasons being that when she wants to go out I'm at work and even though at first its fun for her to hang out at my job it gwts old real quick to be at the same club every weekend when you dont work there .
so with a 9-5 girl I end up only getting to spend time with them once or twice a week.
dancers how every tend to work the same hours as me so we can hang out more and such .
now here is the myth , many of you guys who havent dated dancers dream about doing so because you think it will be glamerous and exiteing (NEWS FLASH) it is not the case .
Think about it if every night you had to have your makeup perfect , hair perfect , a string up your ass and had to walk around in 6 - 9 inch heels all night that would be the LAST thing you wanted to do on your off time.
So when you and if you DO end up with a dancer you'll most likelly see her most of the time wearing sweats , no makeup , baggy shirts , flipflops, old ratted out robe etc etc .... And that is perfectly understandable .
Now a dancer friend of mine did suggest that the reason I attracted so many dancers is because beccause with all the pervs, stalkers , and the like , it does'nt hurt to have a 6ft5 black guy around the house when she's at home or to pick her up from work.



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So, I find myself lying and eventually stop dating before anything gets serious..


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