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    Hey, went and applied to a SC 3 weeks ago. Not sure if anyone picked up my app. So I went in on a Friday in the day time (12 lunch time) and they said they dont do auditions on Fridays since they are so busy. Filled out another app. Said they would call or I could call on Tues. after Labor Day. No one called. I called on Tues. said they unless they called then they arent looking for dancers.

    Day shift says they think night shift is hiring, Night shift says they think dayshift is hiring... I know clubs get busy. But if there is something wrong w/ me I wish they would just say it.... Is this the "nice" way of saying they dont want to hire me?

    And everytime I go they ask how old I am.... I dont know if this is common practice of if they think I am underage. I know some women would love to look younger but in this case I sorta wish I didnt... Plus I have this innocent look that I think is holding me back. Maybe they think I wont do well. Anyways I have $350 cash enough to buy a Adult Entertainment license. Do you think If im willing to pay for it that they will hire me... Please let me know what any of this means or if I should give up...

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    Default Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    Is there another one you could apply at? Maybe that one just isn't going to work out now.

    Who knows what managers are thinking sometimes!



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    Default Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    Yes there is. But this one was the most relatively close to home. The others are in downtown. So I will try there...

    xoxoxo

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    Default Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    Why do you think you are too young? How old are you?

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    Default Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    Im 20 but everybody says I look 16.

    But good news I went back to that club that turned me down then I went to another one in downtown. I was really persistent (walked in w/ my backpack on) and put on a lot of confidence and luckily the dayshift manager was still there and I got to do a audtition on the mainstage.

    Kept my clothes on the first song, top off second, and naked 3rd. He got my number and said he will call me tomorrow so we will see what happens.... woo hoo

    xoxoxo

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    Default Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    your age shouldn't be a problem at all - i've worked with girls who looked 13 years old and they were still popular with lots of customers!

    good luck

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    Sometimes I feel like I just dont have that "stripper look". But whatever because I am sure there will be some guys out there that will appreciate me and my dancing. It is definitely all about confidence.

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    Once I went to a place and they said they weren't hiring but what they meant is they weren't hiring people with no experiance I went back liek a month later with a little experiance and I was hired right on the spot! So if it takes going to somewhere less attractive to you maybe you could give it a try for a month get into the groove then they will *see* the stripper in you.. they will look through you and see it

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    The first time I applied at a club a couple years ago the manager told me to come back when I had experience. For a long time I thought it was because something was wrong withme, or I was not attractive. But after I got hired at my club I found out that the other club I applied to was an extras club and they would only hire certain types of girls. This might be a possiblility, or maybe not. Some places just don't want to have to deal witha girl with no experience for other reasons. Or maybe they are genuinely full of girls, check back a few weeks later because maybe girls will quit and there will be room. But most likely its not about your appearance, unless it's a real upscale club or something.

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    Thanx everyone.... Well I hope they call me back. Even if I dont make too much it is still good for experience. At my crappy fast food job I make $6.75 an hour which is really like $5.50 an hour after tax so if I make enough for tip out and at least 35 bucks then that will be good. I know some might think I am setting my standards low, but when I was up on stage I was like wow this is easier than I thought Im dancing on a lighted stage and I get to watch ESPN pretty cool... Better than Im sorry "but we dont have Dr. Pepper or Mr. Pibb".... I hate that line....

    Keeping my fingers crossed for the phone call

    xoxoxo

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    Girl Luck Sweety... I hope you hear back from them
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    good luck polo girl!
    keep us posted ok?
    Oh, I musta took a wrong turn at Albuquerque.


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    Definitely will keep you guys posted... Called today talked to day manager and he put me through to house mom and she said they had too many girls . But to call back in a month... But then she said to call back in 2 weeks because a lot of girls quit. She took my number and said she would call if a girl quits. So I have some extra time to get in even better shape and order some shoes off Ebay.

    xoxox

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    Default Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    If that's you in the avatar I can't imagine why they wouldn't hire you immediately, unless they want experienced girls. Some clubs don't like to deal with newbies for a variety of reasons, so like others have said, you may need to go to another club just to get your training wheels removed

    Keep trying different clubs. Someone will hire you.

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    YES... Thats me in the avatar. When I talk, I am very articulate and well spoken. I even talked to one guy and he gave me a dollar since I didnt have a garter. He thought I worked there but I had to tell him that that was only my audition. He was actually kinda sad...

    The day shift manager was a guy and wearing a nice black suit and pink tie and even asked me "so what attracted you to dancing" I told him I had 2 friends that did and that Ive taken lots of pictures and lots of guys have said I should become stripper. I think you are right about the training wheels thing... He even asked me if I have done any type of waitressing or stuff like that.... I said no, but I wish I would have lied now... I think they just want to know that you will be able to approach the men out there and have a good hustle. I was listening to the girls in the dressing room too and they pretty much said everything that was on here.

    One girl even said "It doesnt matter if you are the prettiest b**** in here if you have a bad attitude you wont get anything". And that some girls quit because they have no hustle. But this club is more like a regulars club. Not a whole lot of guys but the ones that do come have a lot of $$$ but you just have to get regulars.

    xoxoxo

    Polo Girl

    I sooo want to get my training wheels off...

    But I will be persistent...

    xoxox

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    I read in another thread a guy said "You are too good for this industry, why are you working here, I would die if my mom or sister worked in a strip club...." Sometimes I think they think I am too "nice". I am naturally a nice girl, what do they want me to be mean and bitchy?"

    I dont know but Im gonna keep tryin

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polo Girl
    Im 20 but everybody says I look 16.
    If I owned a strip club, I'd hire ya!

    If i ever get rich enough to own a business, i'll open a strip club that specialises in the "Barely Legal" look.

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    Yes be mean and bitchy...jk...just dont let people get over on you. Your skin will toughn once you start working. I was 18 when I started...I think persistantcy is best. Try at the best clubs and work your way down the list.

    There is no "stripper look" a confident attitude is helpful though to make sales. The stereotypical stripper look is blurred...youll find your niche.
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    Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    I can relate to PoloGirl, I just decided to become an exotic dancer, mainly because that's the only thing i can do, i'm an F1 international student, any other form of work and i'm deportee material. My first club let me in, but then asked for ID and said i had to be 21 to dance because it was a drinking establishment. I'm 20, but I look like i'm barely 17 cos of my baby face. I'll keep trying, but is it really mandatory to be 21 because they serve alcohol in the club?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nubienne
    I'll keep trying, but is it really mandatory to be 21 because they serve alcohol in the club?
    In most states, yes.

    If there any nude clubs in the area, they're probably 18+.



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    Default Re: 2 Young? And getting the run around...

    ok, but i can get work at 20 right? i mean, i know girls who've been dancing since they were 18.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nubienne
    ok, but i can get work at 20 right? i mean, i know girls who've been dancing since they were 18.
    Yes.
    You just can't work at alcohol clubs.



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    wow, i didn't think there were any clubs that didn't serve alcohol. This makes it a hell of a lot harder for me to get started.

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    I was at a club last night with a girl who said she was 20, I wouldn't have guessed it. They were serving alcohol, and she was drinking it.

    Your body looks great, I would definitely give you a shot, its not like it costs the club anything, and may even 1) get rid of an under performer or 2) make some new regulars.

    * this was in Houston, and she actually had her license on her person

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polo Girl
    Im 20 but everybody says I look 16.
    ok just my 2 peso's.


    Completely forget about the thought of being to young,there is no such thing.
    There is legal and not legal,dats it.
    The younger you look in this business,and the longer you can look young in this industry,the better it will be for you and an advantage over other entertainers.

    "Young" is very seldom a crutch in the adult industry.

    If club owners could hire legal girls who looked 10,im sure they would do it,and the place would be packed.

    Teen porn is the highest selling porn known to man.

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